I believe that many boys in the chat with girls, have suffered from girls 'um", "oh", "good" and other perfunctory behavior, girls will appear these behaviors, not that she does not have time to reply, but because this part of the boy's straight male thinking leads to the topic is too boring, so that girls feel that you are not interesting, so if you do not want to be perfunctory by girls in the chat, then you need to know how to get rid of your straight male thinking.
If you talk to a girl with a straight male mindset, then in the chat process we will always focus on the girl, and then want to find out her state or the reason for her dissatisfaction through continuous rational questioning, and then solve the problem, the whole process completely ignores the girl's feelings and needs.
Like what:
Such a straight male chat, can not mobilize the girl's emotions, how can the girl continue to chat with you?
You know, the core of the chat is to flirt and upgrade and even establish a relationship, that is, to constantly flirt in the chat, constantly stimulate the girl's sensibility and emotions, make her blush and beat faster, she will have feelings, and quickly fall in love with you.
Here are 2 ways to chat without straight male thinking:
I. "The Law of Emotions"
Principle: Girls are emotional animals, hate all the boys who use rational chat to pursue her, want to chase her, you have to use her favorite emotional chat method, with romantic, interesting emotional expression to chat, in order to be in the middle, directly hit the soul, let her fall in love with you:
Here is the use of emotional laws to cleverly lead girls into an emotional state, shouting "fools" to each other. This is called "feeling" chat!
SECOND, "Love Code"
Principle: If a secret is known only to two people, it is a secret between these two people, the relationship between the two will be closer, and the love code uses humor and humor + laying the ground to guide the girl to take the initiative to say 5201314 (I love you for a lifetime).
Even if it is just a secret code, but when the girl gets along with you in the future, the subconscious will start the "like you" mode:
Get rid of the straight male thinking way of chatting, are you still afraid of not finding a girlfriend?
In summary, chat should pay attention to the following requirements:
1． Take the rhythm of the chat into your own hands.
Before chatting with girls, be prepared to find topics that girls are interested in, so that you can grasp the acceptance of chatting with girls, only in this way can you grasp the rhythm of chat, so that girls are willing to say more to you!
2． Topic demand
Every girl's needs are different, and we all like to chat with people who know ourselves. Knowing and knowing what a chat with a girl needs before chatting with a girl is "food", one of the "six major chat topics" that most men bring to him and like to chat based on her needs. It can be done from the aspects of travel, food, pets, constellations, stars, gossip and other chat topics!
3． Give a positive response
Sometimes girls tell you something, not just tell you what she did, she saved a careful thought, quickly praise me! For example, she said, "Wow, look, this is the cross stitch I just showed." At this time, we should grasp the girl's mind and praise her for her good experience and so on. Three words can enhance good feelings, why not! Or when she talks to you about her hobbies, we should also praise her a little more.
4． Take the initiative to cut off the topic
What should I do if I chat and can't stop? Don't think that the chat is very obscure, you must talk about a happy and happy before you stop, so that the girl's good feelings for herself will soar directly to full value overnight! Taking the initiative to cut off the topic when chatting hi can be a skill in chatting with girls!