May your whole life be healed by childhood
Childhood is the beginning of everyone's life, and we can't complete the nostalgia for childhood after we spend our whole lives.
"Some people live in the shadow of childhood all their lives, and some people are healed by childhood all their lives." Love and joy in childhood seem to be the most primitive source of energy in life, supporting us to move forward in the process of growing up, and the main source of energy in childhood is the family.
According to the study, children aged 8-12 are in the depression and confusion of growing up, and they also have a rebellious psychology in emotions and actions, and have a unique emotional state and desire appeal. They are often ambivalent and confused about the various conscious behaviors of the self.
I don't know if you have seen a program called "Teenagers Say", in which many teenagers have walked to a "courage platform" and shouted out the words they held in their hearts to their parents or teachers.
In the show, there is a girl named Xiao Ying who is particularly impressive. She was brought up by her grandmother, and she was about to take the college entrance examination, but because of her grandmother's health, she could not take the transportation, but in order to accompany Xiao Ying to the college entrance examination, her grandmother actually walked all the way from Shaoyang to Changsha. Just a two-hour drive away, Grandma walked for two days. What we could do in two hours, for this grandmother had to do her best. Grandma's loving guardianship,
There is also a girl named Cui Jing standing on the stage shouting at her father, saying that he is unfair to himself and his sister. Her younger sister, who is six years younger, is very domineering and mischievous, and she is pampered by her parents, and her sister often "bullies" her sister. And every time she wants to educate her sister or ask her parents for evaluation, what she gets is that her parents educate her: "You are a sister, you have to apologize first; you are a sister, you have to let your sister." ”
In fact, the confession on the "courage platform" is very much in need of courage for children. Here, they are not just simply confessing, thanking, and complaining, they are teaching us how to express love and how to release our hearts. The confessions of these two children in the show also reminded me of two stories in the series "The Stars Know My Heart" that I had read about braided sister.
"The Stars Know My Heart" series
Grandma's Lace Palace
Get rid of the three-minute heat and be a self-disciplined person.
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Xiao Ying and grandma mentioned above are like Tingbao and Grandma Old Ginger Tea in this book.
Grandma Old Ginger Tea is pushed and kicked around by her children as a burden, but she is still optimistic and cheerful, kind and wise. And Su Tingbao is an air bag, misunderstood by teachers, classmates, and mothers, and her heart is angry and afraid. She gave herself up and turned herself into a "problem" student. Two lonely people get together, and her grandmother, Old Ginger Cha, teaches her to face the little darkness of her heart calmly, teaches her to apologize bravely and tell the truth, and eventually makes her the most popular child.
Tingbao can bury her head in the arms of Grandma Old Ginger Tea and tell her her little secrets, and Grandma Old Ginger Tea also incarnates as Superman to settle all troubles for Tingbao. Tingbao will become brave and strong precisely because of the existence of her grandmother. Together, they agreed never to be apart.
"I Have Two Birthdays"
How to weaken your own bad emotions and learn to forgive others.
Xiao Cuijing's encounter also reminded me of my sister's big bowl and sister's small dish in "I Have Two Birthdays". Sister Fluttershy forced her sister to hide the big bowl from her parents to take her to the playground, but her sister Fluttershy temporarily had appendicitis. Fluttershy complained to her parents that the big bowl forced her to go to the playground and forced her to play a roller coaster to cause the disease. Their mom and dad believed in pretending to be innocent of their sister and "exiled" the big bowl to a distant school. The poor bowl was wronged to death, but fortunately, the family was perfectly reconciled in the end.
Forgiving and being forgiven are the best gifts. People should have two birthdays, one is the day of birth, and the other is the day when they really realize that they have always been loved.
The Bird Finds the Book of The Tooth Gap
How to face up to your emotions and adjust your positive emotions.
This book is about Ouyang Xiaobird, who can change eighteen idols in a day, is a girl who loves fantasy and dreams, and she only looks at books that are thinner than her teeth and must have pictures. Not to mention that she really found it, and let the book lead her into the world of the mysterious book trainer, so that she could appreciate that books are also temperamental and angry, and the book trainer turned out to be such a great and silent profession.
Yu Yujun
21st Century Publishing House Group Limited
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"Stars Know My Heart" light healing novel series is the first domestic adolescent positive energy psychological healing system growth novel, focusing on the current psychological growth state of adolescents, with the theme of character healing, through the author's writing of these touching, heart-warming healing, humorous and hilarious stories, there are friendship full of fantasy colors, there are family affection that makes people cry, and there are stories of self-growth like butterflies.
The book also invites senior psychological counselors to answer questions for each child in the story, answer the contradictions and doubts about growing up, so as to alleviate the negative emotions such as anxiety, pain and depression in growth, calmly face the challenges in life, and let the children know themselves, accept themselves, draw strength from them, and thus discover the beauty of growth.
"Warm Little Gloves" series
The braided sister who has warmly healed the hearts of countless transparent children has also created a set of "warm little gloves" series tailored for lower grade children.
The "Warm Little Gloves" series selects those fresh and beautiful spiritual stories, transmits bright warmth to the depths of young readers' hearts, leads them to cross every threshold of growth together, and allows young readers to learn to love, enjoy love, understand love in reading, and use the power of literature to help them shape a healthy emotional world.
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"Big Belly Dad Loves the Most"
A story of magical fatherly love
We are the little girls born to Daddy Lek with big belly - rice balls, pudding, soda and little eye songs, although we are not perfect, but we have the perfect love of Dad, and Aunt Wei C also likes us so much, so happy!
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Lost and Found Genius
The story of a boy who loves to find things
I'm The Golden Salute from Billy Elementary School, and I feel like I have a radar on my body that can find all kinds of lost things. With this special function, I found a lot of lost things for my classmates and became a well-known lost and found manager in the school.
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The Sun just right
The story of a group of little "sleeping scum"
I am Cai Xiaoqi, the new semester came to the new school, joined the pajamas gang, and became a little nightcap. Everyone doesn't like to take a nap, which is sad for the principal, what to do? Teacher Mengshen is out of the horse, he is really good, help us into a sweet dream!
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"Mr. Sweetheart and the Trojan Cake"
The story of a group of wedding little "flower girls"
I am Tian Leyin with curly hair, and my father is Mr. Sweetheart who can make wonderful cakes. At that time, my parents' wedding situation was full of situations, my father was late, and my mother was so sad. Now I'm a little flower boy at the wedding, but something is wrong again, but don't worry, I'm a happy little angel!
[Note]: The above pictures are provided by "21st Century Press"
Good book of the week
Braid sister "warm little gloves" series
Twenty-first Century Press
Braid Sister "Stars Know My Heart" series