There is such a hot topic on the Internet, is it difficult for a single mother to remarry with her son?
Some netizens said: Dolgon is also a dragon among people, he didn't understand the things back then, can you understand it?
Fan Zhongyan's biological father died of illness when he was two years old, and his mother remarried the wealthy Zhu Wenhan, and his stepfather's surname was Zhu. Zhu Wenhan personally taught Zhu Shuo to read and write, and paid for the exam. Zhu said that after Fei Huang Tengda, he found his biological father's family to recognize his ancestors and return to his ancestors, changed his original name to Fan Zhongyan, and wanted to enter the family tree. So don't challenge the human bloodline.
I hope that men will marry later and have children later, and the hormones will be lowered after the age of 26, and men will return to their senses and make decisions more reliably!
Dolgon uses the fact that he is not at peace after his death as a practical example of what are the consequences of caring for a woman with children. What will her children do to you. Zhu Wuzhi uses the ending of the story to tell us how ruthless a woman with children can be when protecting her children.
Who dares to say that his status is comparable to Dolgon, and his ability and scheming skills are better than Zhu Ignorance?
Isn't it better to be single than to be a donor, and halfway couples don't even have a child of their own, how can the marriage be stable. In the past, everyone would sympathize, but now they generally say that they deserve it......
It is true that a woman who is divorced and has a son cannot marry. When the stepfather is old and can't make money, it is the death of the stepfather. There are countless examples of this. The son has no affection for his stepfather, and there is an antigene in the nature of men.
The growth of a boy is a process in which a young man gradually replaces the position of an older man, and there are still many contradictions between the biological father and son, let alone the second-hand father and son? It's very difficult.
The core is that the son has an attachment complex to his mother, which is genetically determined. In the eyes of the son, a strange man wants to sleep with his mother, which is a great humiliation for him, and hatred is buried. And in the future life, the relationship between the stepfather and the son is very difficult to handle, for this mother, there is a basic dilemma, and the contradictions formed are basically not resolved.
So if you really want to make such a combination, either before the child is two years old, or after the child becomes an adult, it is a pit at any other time, and there is no way to solve it.
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