When Wang Qing and Yan Wangdong got married, they also went through some consideration of each other, Wang Qing thought that he and Yan Wangdong worked in a nearby first-tier city, Yan Wangdong also had an older brother working in the provincial city, and his parents were in a city, that the future care of the in-laws should be Yan Wangdong's brother's family to bear, anyway, the in-laws are retired within the system, there is security, life is not bad, their husband and wife should be able to give some money.
Yan Wangdong thought that Wang Qing's family was an only child in the city, and they all worked in the system, pension and medical care were not a problem, and wealth was bound to be left to the couple.
In fact, many similar things people have always considered this, but when they are not put on the table, they are decent, and when they are put on the table, they seem selfish, and people often do not want others to feel that they seem so, but when things happen, no one can restrain their instinctive reactions.
Yan Wangdong's brother fell ill, was schizophrenic, was admitted to the hospital, the sister-in-law who was just pregnant could not accept it, angrily scolded Yan Wangdong's family for cheating marriage, and insisted on beating up the child for divorce.
Wang Qing and Yan Wangdong rushed home, the father-in-law let Yan Wangdong stay in the hospital, and then asked Wang Qing to go with her mother-in-law to persuade her sister-in-law, Wang Qing did not see this position, and nervously accepted the task. Along the way, Wang Qing also wanted to ask something, but did not dare to ask, the mother-in-law simply talked about the day of the onset of the disease, and then also silent, Wang Qing only when the mother-in-law was worried about the younger generation, and it was not good to say much.
To the sister-in-law's home, the sister-in-law is uncomfortable in the rest, it is the sister-in-law's parents to come out to talk, both sides are decent people, the attitude is not very intense, but the words are very blunt, the sister-in-law's parents said, cheating not to cheat marriage, but the child is definitely not left, the daughter can not continue to be a husband and wife with the mentally ill, and then have to raise children and take care of the husband, a lifetime will be ruined, not good for the children, take away the dowry, the bride price will not be returned, divorce.
The mother-in-law listened quietly, her eyes slowly turned red, wang Qing thought she was going to cry and stay, but the mother-in-law held back the tears. She said: "I really can't stand you, no one wants such a thing to happen, maybe he is studying and working under pressure, long-term accumulation has exploded, and we parents have not paid attention, there is really no intention of cheating marriage, but I am really sorry for you." It doesn't make sense for her to keep the child and stay with my son, and I understand you. ”
The sister-in-law's mother's eyes were also red, and she held her mother-in-law's hand and sighed while shedding tears: "It's a pity, it's a pity." Wang Qing was also very touched to hear it, and felt in her heart that this mother-in-law was really different from many legendary mothers-in-law.
After coming out of the sister-in-law's house, Wang Qing had the courage to ask her mother-in-law: "Mom, in fact, are we really unaware?" The mother-in-law looked at her and wanted to stop talking, but hesitated for a moment, or told the truth: "Actually, I really don't know, but Father Wangdong may know." There was silence again. The mother-in-law may be afraid that Wang Qing is worried about Yan Wangdong, so she added a sentence: "Wangdong should have told you that Wangdong is the son of old Yan's comrade-in-arms, his brother is sick, it has nothing to do with his body, you don't worry, he is fine." ”
Yan Wangdong did say this to Wang Qing, but Wang Qing was trying to find a remedy for himself, and her mother-in-law had already walked quickly to the front, and seemed to be in a hurry to confirm something. Back at the hospital, the mother-in-law said that she wanted to talk to her father-in-law, but the father-in-law did not want to leave, and only asked the mother-in-law how she was persuaded. The mother-in-law did not answer directly, but only asked him: "Did you already know that your child may have this disease?" ”
The father-in-law pushed his mother-in-law to the ground, and while constantly scolding you for being sick, you are sick, and he clenched his fists.
Wang Qing quickly helped her mother-in-law while shouting, Yan Wangdong was buying food outside, and it was a doctor and a nurse who rushed over, and the doctor saw that his father-in-law did not seem to be right, so he asked the nurse to persuade him to take him to the clinic.
Wang Qing helped her mother-in-law to rest, and when Yan Wangdong came, she told him about the matter, and Yan Wangdong was silent after listening. After that, the doctor told them that Lao Yan also had schizophrenic symptoms, and the doctor and Lao Yan learned about the family medical history, although Yan Wangdong's grandfather had passed away, but it seemed that he already had symptoms of schizophrenia, and there was no trace of it in the upper part, only to know that he did not live long. Old Yan may not behave quite right when he was young, there was an elder in the village who reminded him that he did not believe in his mouth, but he had secretly sought out a doctor in the city, so he had always been aware of his situation, but in order not to affect his work and marriage, so the outside world (including his wife) only said that he had been injured by mistake when he was training, resulting in sometimes a stress reaction, he was also reminded by the doctor of the possibility of family inheritance, so Yan Wangdong's brother may have this disease, he knows.
All the doubts of the mother-in-law have been confirmed, no wonder Lao Yan sometimes has a very strange temper and seems to be immersed in his own world, and it is no wonder that he is not surprised at all when he knows that his son is ill. When the mother-in-law saw Lao Yan again, it happened that Yan Wangdong went downstairs to get medicine for him, and only Wang Qing accompanied the mother-in-law, and the old man did not make trouble, nor was he annoyed, but as if he did not see Wang Qing, he said to his mother-in-law: "You all know? But don't be angry, I just know that my son may have something wrong, so I hugged a small home, he is absolutely fine, raise children to prevent aging, you can rest assured. ”
The mother-in-law almost fell to the ground, fortunately Wang Qing supported her, the mother-in-law hoped that Wang Qing would not tell Yan Wangdong what the old man had just said, Wang Qing had mixed feelings in her heart, but still agreed to her.
After that, Yan Wangdong's eldest brother divorced, there was no way to go to work, when he was ill, he was hospitalized, every year there was half a year at home, there was a small online shop, the father-in-law had been sick once, that time he hurt himself, and the mother-in-law simply let him stay in hospital for a long time.
The mother-in-law is a lot older, Yan Wangdong and his wife discussed wanting to go back to the provincial city to work and take care of their mother, Wang Qing agreed, but also said that if his parents are sick, if necessary, they must go back, Yan Wangdong also expressed understanding, after this incident, the two talked openly and honestly, confided each other's selfishness, concerns, worries, and views on people and things, and found that the three views of the two were more consistent than imagined.
Rarely, after the test, their hearts were closer.
The mother-in-law also considered very thoughtfully, afraid that the little two were uncomfortable, she sold the original marriage house for Yan Wangdong's eldest brother to marry, and replaced it with a new house for Yan Wangdong and Wang Qing. The house was inspected by one of my predecessors, thanks to her blessing, I heard this story, Yan Wangdong and Wang Qing are also a rare couple, after experiencing things, there is no divorce but a more intimate couple. I think they are more fortunate to have a good mother, a good mother-in-law, and even more undeniable is that this old man is the biggest victim. Hope she has all the best in the future.
There is nothing new under the sun, today's story ends here, selfishness is nature, but should not sacrifice others, but also polish your eyes, beware of being killed. Before marriage, we must understand each other's family disease history, and those who should be open and honest should tell each other honestly, not to say that they are harmful, and the retribution is not on their own heads, or on the heads of their children, not to mention that some things are not worthy of successors.