Many family mothers give up job opportunities after giving birth to their children, and for a year or two they are full-time at home with their babies, for them, taking good care of their children's growth is the most important thing.
Mom's mind is delicate, everything is big and small, and all the things in the family are taken care of in an orderly manner. And the father is extravagant, in the eyes of the mother, the father not only can not help, and even help the back, some netizens joked that when the child is not in danger, the father is the biggest danger.
For example, this mother went out to run an errand for an hour, and when she came back, she found that the child and the father collapsed and cried together, and the father cried even more. Seeing his wife return, he immediately said: "Hurry up, I am sad to die, the child has been crying for an hour." ”
Review of the incident, the mother went out to run errands to let the father coax the baby, did not expect the father to cry with the baby, netizens: too difficult
On March 15, 2022, according to netizens, the mother went out to run errands and handed over the child to her father to take care of, but the scene she saw when she returned home made her cry and laugh.
After getting married, the family has a clear division of labor, usually the father goes to work to make money, the mother is at home full-time with the baby, and the child's grandparents occasionally come to help.
This weekend, the grandparents went out to travel, the little two at home to see the child, originally a family of three is very harmonious, but the child's mother suddenly received a call, there is an urgent need to go out for a trip.
The child's mother is not at ease with her husband at home alone, and she is a little worried. But the child's father spoke: "You have something to do quickly, don't let people wait in a hurry, my child I can definitely manage it myself, you can rest assured." ”
Although the child's father has never taken the child alone, he is usually very patient with the child, and the first thing he does when he comes home is to kiss and hug the child, and he usually takes good care of his wife.
The child's mother was a little hesitant, but there was really no way, she thought of going back quickly, and let the child's father accompany the baby at home, there should be no big problem.
After the child's mother settled in the house, she hurried out to run errands, and she kept thinking in her heart: The angel baby must cooperate with her father well.
In order not to let the child find out that the mother is out, she also deliberately let the father and the child play in the bedroom, put on their own clothes and secretly left.
However, just a few minutes after the mother left the door, the child began to blink his eyes and look around, looking for the figure of the mother, and he also wagged the mother in his mouth.
Dad was full of confidence at first, and he said to the child: "Our grandfather's parent-child time, it is better to play with toys, this is your favorite toy." "Who knows that the toys that usually have fun with the mother are suddenly out of the way in the hands of the father, no matter how the father teases the child, he does not cooperate."
After a while, the child did not find his mother and began to cry, and the father did not understand how this baby cried?
He immediately thought of the way the child's mother usually looked when she took the baby, and also drew the scoop according to the gourd to see if the baby wanted to change diapers, or whether she was hungry.
However, the child's father checked a circle and did not find a problem, the child did not pull no pee, did not drink the bottle, and he was still crying more and more vigorously.
Dad also gradually lost patience, he tried to communicate with the child, said that in half an hour the mother will come back, let the child not cry.
But the child did not listen at all, perhaps did not understand, he cried even more pitifully, his throat was almost hoarse, crying would rest, and he would burp while crying.
Dad really couldn't do anything, his mentality also collapsed, he saw his child crying so sad, his heart was particularly painful for the child, so he also collapsed and cried.
After her mother came back from business, she saw her grandfather hugging and crying, and the scene was once crying and laughing, and she immediately recorded this scene with her mobile phone. When the child's father saw that his wife had finally returned, he quickly handed the baby to his wife and said, "Hurry up, I am sad to die, and the child has been crying for an hour." ”
Netizens saw a scene after crying and laughing, some netizens commented that this father is too difficult, coaxing the baby to cry, this is also too painful for the child, absolutely pro-dad.
Editor's opinion
Many moms give up their job offers to stay at home full-time with their kids, and I have to say that moms are really great.
It is often said that the most useless tool in the parenting process is the father. Some mothers feel that their fathers are adding to the chaos and are unwilling to fake their hands to others, and some fathers really have no interest in taking the baby, thinking that watching children is a woman's business.
Although this father is full of enthusiasm, because he lacks experience with a baby, he cried when he took the child alone. I believe that he must have experienced the hardships of his wife with a baby, and he is willing to spend more time with his children and share it for his wife in the future.
It is always said that marriages in which only one spouse has full authority and children are relatively unsuccessful, and can even be said to be widowed marriages. Since two people have chosen to get married and have children, they should jointly assume the responsibility of accompanying their children's growth, not that the money is in place, and the children are good parents without worry about food and clothing.
Children learn different things from their parents, they get delicate love and security from their mothers, they can learn more powerful things from their fathers, children can be braver, and their hearts are stronger. Therefore, new parents must spend more energy to accompany their children's growth, after all, after the child's growth is missed, it will not start again.
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