Today we live in an inclusive society, and as people become more open-minded, there are many images in our lives that were rarely seen before.
For example, some boys will cosplay girls, even to the point of being fake.
There used to be a 16-year-old high school boy online who especially liked men dressed up as women.
He always paints exquisite makeup, has a short fluffy hair, and wears girls' clothes, which makes people stupidly unable to distinguish his gender, and because of his sweet appearance, he has attracted countless fans.
This boy was originally very beautiful, and under the careful dressing, he was more beautiful and moving than some girls looked.
And the boy's figure is also very good, not as thick as other boys, but has a bit of girl femininity.
When she saw the high school student's appearance of a man dressed as a woman, the girl said that she was ashamed of herself, and many boys said that they had a feeling of heartbeat.
Indeed, whether it is the appearance or makeup, this boy is no different from a girl, if he does not say it himself, it is estimated that most people will regard him as a girl.
If it was in the past, it was obviously difficult for men to dress as women to be accepted by everyone.
But now people show enough tolerance, even if they don't support it.
Of course, there will still be some different eyes, after all, in everyone's impression, boys should be full of masculinity.
This kind of male dressed as a woman, can only be called feminine, is not welcome.
In fact, the phenomenon of men dressing up as women is related to many reasons.
In any case, with the increase of this phenomenon today, people should also pay enough attention.
Especially as a parent, it is better to guide the child, so that the child's behavior is not too extreme?
What should parents do when they find their children dressed as men and women?
1. Understand the situation
Many children appear to dress as women because of their gender confusion or their personal special proclivities.
Of course, there are also some who are deliberate, just want to be the focus of the crowd and earn enough attention.
Parents can only figure out how to cope if they first understand why their children are doing it.
Otherwise, you can't prescribe the right medicine, not only will it not help, but it may cause the child's disgust.
2. Timely communication
After understanding the reasons for the child's special preferences, parents should look for suitable opportunities to communicate with their children in a timely manner.
It should be noted that parents should not completely deny their children, but should guide their children correctly on the basis of tolerance and understanding.
If the child is just a hobby, then parents should give enough respect, but also tell the child the pros and cons of things, let the child know that men and women will bear a lot of pressure, and it will not help their growth.
3. Lead by example
In fact, many of the children's behaviors are influenced by their parents in a subtle way.
It's just that many parents are not aware of this, so they often make some wrong behaviors in front of their children, causing children to habitually imitate, thus forming bad habits.
Therefore, we must establish a correct gender awareness in front of the child, so that the child knows that there is a difference between men and women.
Only when children truly understand the differences between men and women can they better restrain their behavior and not let their behavior go too far.
Of course, if the child is too addicted to cosplay and other behaviors, then parents must point out the child's mistakes at the first time to avoid the child getting deeper and deeper.