In our cognition, boys should be full of masculinity, and girls should be gentle and lovely. However, with the change of the times, now boys and girls seem to have broken through such established boundaries, and there was a period of neutral wind that prevailed, which is a good illustration of this problem.
It's just that if it is acceptable for boys and girls to dress neutrally, then things like men dressing up as women will cause some people to argue.
Before there was a Japanese boy on the Internet because he liked to dress up as a woman and became popular, in all fairness, when he saw his first glance, I believe that most netizens would think that he was a girl.
His popularity was due to his performance in a talent show, when he gained a lot of fans, including some male fans who were attracted by her beautiful appearance.
Later, when it was learned that he was actually a boy, these male fans inevitably had a feeling of being deceived, but this also showed from another aspect that his male and female costumes were really very successful.
The boy's own appearance is more feminine, very sweet, coupled with exquisite makeup, it can fully reach the point of fake and real. So even girls can only sigh after seeing him, indeed if they don't know that he is a boy, then in a bunch of girls, he should be the most eye-catching one.
This boy is currently only 16 years old and still reading, although he has gained a lot of fans by relying on his sweet appearance, but some netizens can't help but worry about him. If this continues to develop, will the boy become blurred in his gender consciousness?
In fact, about children's gender education, in the mainland has always been more avoidant, which has a certain relationship with the introverted Chinese, always feel that it is difficult to talk about children in terms of sex education.
Sex education is indispensable, how can we properly educate children about sex?
1. Cultivate children's gender awareness
When children are around three years old, they will become interested in their own gender and, of course, will be curious about the gender of the opposite sex. I believe that many parents have such an experience, such as being asked by children why boys and girls urinate in different postures, why girls can wear skirts in the summer, but boys can't.
This is actually the germ of their gender consciousness, and parents must seize this critical period to carry out early sex education for their children. Not only to let the child know whether they are a boy or a girl, but also to let the child know the difference between them, and of course, it is more important to tell the child about the private parts of their bodies and how to protect them.
2. Play a role in leading by example
Sometimes, parents' long-winded preaching to their children may not be able to attract the attention of their children, but will make the children feel disgusted. At this time, parents may wish to choose another way to educate their children about gender, and tell their children what to do in their daily lives through their own actions.
For example, when the child is three years old, the parents of the opposite sex cannot take the child to the bathroom together. Whether parents go to the toilet or take a bath or change clothes at home, they must avoid children of the opposite sex.
These seemingly small actions can play a key role in children's sex education, because children like to imitate, so parents can better play an exemplary role.
What methods can parents use for young children to conduct sex education?
1. Read picture books with your child
Parents can choose some picture books with illustrations for their children that are attractive to their children, and through the description of boys and girls in picture books, let children know the most simple and easy to understand gender knowledge. This way is often more acceptable to children, after all, children like to read picture books, and over time they can naturally understand some content related to sexual knowledge.
2. Play games with your child
Parents can also role-play with their children to let their children know how to protect themselves in life. For example, parents can pretend to be bad people and use various methods to seduce their children, so that children can improve their self-protection awareness in the process of play, and at the same time enhance their gender awareness.