Jia Baoyu did not like to read serious books, especially disgusted with the economy of Shitu, and was therefore disliked by Jia Zheng. It is not difficult to understand that Jia Baoyu's words and deeds did not conform to the mainstream values of society at that time, and naturally could not be recognized by people, which made parents worried and anxious.
Jia Baoyu Suxi mixed in the ranks of her daughters, playing with her sisters to live a good life. This deepened Jia Zheng's dislike of him. He decided that this son was not doing the right thing and would be nothing more than a lustful and playful person in the future, but no matter what, he still had to try to push him on the right path. And the reason why Jia Baoyu mixed with his daughters was also because here, he could temporarily stay away from the orthodox books such as the Four Books and Five Classics that caused headaches and get comfortable.
And what kind of attitude did his sisters have toward him that he did not like to study and wasted time?
Greeting spring, xi chun need not be said first. These two people have always been afraid of things, and they are not very close to Jia Baoyu. Naturally, they didn't care that Bao Yule was not willing to study, and they couldn't even take care of their own affairs, let alone others.
And the leaders of the boudoir's daughters, Baochao, Xiangyun, Daiyu, and Tanchun, these four people, on this issue, are divided into two camps, persuasion or dissuasion.
First of all, let's talk about Xue Baochao. If Bao Chao is a man, he will definitely rely on reading and make steady progress. Even if it is only a daughter, she is full of wisdom, and her thoughts always follow the mainstream values and never cross the line. However, the gender determines, she has no way to pass the scientific examination and embark on the road of slaughtering for the officials.
Baochao has one of the biggest characteristics, not caring about oneself, not opening his mouth, shaking his head when asked, and extremely smooth. Asking her to do thankless things always needs a reason.
We all know that Baoyu does not like to read and does not seek progress. But those who persuaded Baoyu were, after all, a very small number of people. Among them, Baochao is the most persistent one. Why did Sister Bao, who had always been indifferent and peaceful, touch Baoyu's reverse scales again and again? So much so that bao yu was unhappy again and again, and even did not give her a good face?
Of course it's for their own benefit. The Decline of the Baochao Family has reached the end of the road. The Xue family and Lady Wang were intentional, and they had to come up with the saying "golden jade good fortune". Whether Bao Chao le is happy or not, Bao Yu is already her future husband candidate, and it seems that she can't find a better choice. Under such circumstances, baochao, for his own future, naturally has to keep an eye on Baoyu and supervise Baoyu's study. Therefore, Bao Chao, who originally had little to do, persuaded Bao Yu again and again to study well and improve every day. Where can Baoyu listen? Not only did he not listen to it, but he became more and more alienated from Baochao.
Bao Chao was cheeky to persuade, and Bao Yu did not appreciate it. According to the attacker, Bao Yu coughed, raised his feet, and directly left, making Bao Chao blush, not to go, not to go, but also to be seen by everyone, how faceless. But next time, Bao Chao still did not make a mistake. Until the time when Xiangling learned poetry, Baoyu praised Xiangling's painstaking efforts, and Baochao lost no time in reminding him, "You can be as hard as he is, and there is nothing wrong with learning." Baoyu still didn't bother to pay attention.
One advises, one does not listen. Bao Chao seemed to regard herself as Bao Er's grandmother. However, she did not expect that this move would only make the distance between the two people more and more distant. I don't know what kind of mind Baochao is holding, as the saying goes, don't hit the south wall and don't turn back, but she bravely bumped into it again and again. There is no way, her life, just like this and Bao Yu tied together, she is not without grievances. She was a pragmatic person, so she couldn't accept her husband doing nothing. But Bao Yu didn't like such a realistic and sophisticated Bao Chao. The two are really different, they don't conspire with each other, even if they are barely together, they can't be happy.
Baochao's little fan, Shi Xiangyun, also greatly advised Baoyu to engage in career economy and make more friends with officials.
Xiangyun is a boy-like temper, and Baoyu is so good that he is like a brother and sister, and Xiangyun is really cute with a "love brother". Bao Yu and Xiang Yun grew up together, there is no barrier, and there is no need to be taboo when speaking.
Xiang Yun's thinking is also the same as Baochao's, boys, they should go to the examination, enter the career, and revitalize the family. But Xiangyun is not for herself, but simply feels that an upward teenager can't mix in the ranks of girls every day and waste a lot of time, she is really for Baoyu's good.
Therefore, Xiang Yun unabashedly said his thoughts, "Now that you are older, you don't want to study to pass the examination for people to enter the army, and you should often meet these people who are doing the work for the officials, talk about some of the knowledge of the career economy, or in the future, you will have a friend." I didn't see you growing up and only stirring up something in our team! Xiang Yun's persuasion was very specific and sincere, and he was quite bitter.
But what was Baoyu's reaction? He still couldn't listen to it, but instead unceremoniously complained about Xiang Yun, "The girl asked the other sisters to sit in the house, and I carefully polluted your knowledge and economics here." "Not only did I not want to listen, but I also wanted to drive people away." But they are also really good friends, in order to be so straightforward, not afraid of each other's anger.
Xiangyun was naturally not angry, and then, he led to a good conversation between the attacker and Xiangyun. It was concluded that whoever came to persuade Baoyu to read, Baoyu was in a hurry with whomever he wanted. Dai Yu was not persuaded, and Bao Yu said, Lady Lin has said these, no, if he had also said these, I would have been separated from him earlier. It was no wonder that Bao Yu couldn't hear XiangYun's mouth full of career economy, and Dai Yu was so close to him, he couldn't mention it, let alone Xiang Yun.
Xiang Yun did not have the persistence of BaoChao, he said that this time, he touched the nail, and he did not mention it, so why bother to be bored? Without mentioning this, they are still good brothers and sisters who are happy. As clever as Xiangyun, you should also know that persuasion is useless.
So Lin Daiyu, who has a lot of feelings with Baoyu Qingmei Bamboo Horse, has ever advised Baoyu to study seriously?
It doesn't seem to be. Dai Yu respects Bao Yu very much, and what Bao Yu doesn't like to do, she won't force it, even if her relationship with Bao Yu is very deep. It is precisely because the two know each other very well, Dai Yu knows Bao Yu too well, and she, likes Bao Yu, will not change because he does not read or not, whether he has a bright future or not. Daiyu's feelings for Baoyu are pure and not mixed with practical interests.
Dai Yu herself likes to read, reads all books, and comes from a family of scholars, she will not reject reading and self-motivation. From the perspective of her relationship with Baoyu, she could not persuade Baoyu to do what she did not want to do. In reality, she just sent people under the fence, talked too much, but she was not interested in self-pleading.
But in Daiyu's heart, in fact, she knew everything and knew everything. After Baoyu was beaten up by Jia Zheng, Daiyu, who came to visit Baoyu, only whimpered and said a word: "You can change everything from now on!" Dai Yu did not explain what he wanted Bao Yu to change, but everything was also in the middle of nowhere, better than Bao Chao's persuasion to see the needle again and again, worth a thousand words. Bao Yu's thoughts and behaviors that are incompatible with mainstream ideas, such as eating rouge on girls' mouths, not reading books, and messing with dramas, are not the performance of an excellent teenager. Dai Yu did not say it explicitly, but his heart was often worried about him, and Bao Yu also knew that he was afraid of his sister, in fact, he was also growing gradually.
Although Dai Yu was an immortal in the world, she also understood all kinds of worldly things. She understood that she sent people to the fence, every grass and paper was provided by Jia Fu, and it was always inevitable that it would attract the disgust of villains. Moreover, Dai Yu also secretly calculated an account for Jia Fu, and was shocked that Jia Fu's income could not be made endeavor. But Bao Yu said that without anyone, you and I would be indispensable. In Baoyu's cognition, he only needs to enjoy the wind and snow, but he forgets that without a career economy and a life that is not based on materials, everything will be in vain.
Dai Yu had actually persuaded Bao Yu, but it was very euphemistic and helpless.
Miss Rose in Jia Fuli, Jia Tanchun is shrewd and capable, has a good relationship with Jia Baoyu, and is also very close, but why didn't she persuade Baoyu once throughout the passage? Is it that Jia Tanchun is willing to watch Baoyu achieve nothing, and will be killed by his brother Jia In the future?
It's really not, Tanchun is a girl with a pattern. But it is true that because of shu's identity, it is not easy for her to maintain her affection with Baoyu, so why make everyone unhappy?
Tanchun knows Baoyu very well, and in the second time, she said Baoyu, but she is afraid that it is your fabrication again. Tanchun knew that Bao Yu didn't like to read serious books, and he was just a sister who was out of the house, so what position did he have to persuade him? But it makes myself even less painful and unloved.
Tanchun is very obedient, she knows how to use rules to protect herself, and she will not break the rules herself. Even if Baoyu didn't look good anymore, it wouldn't be her turn to teach a lesson to persuade her.
Between her and Baoyu, it is more the warmth of your comings and goings. Make shoes for Baoyu, ask Baoyu to bring her chic small crafts, write to Baoyu to tell him his ideas, invite him to join the poetry club, and Baoyu also sent fresh lychees and Yan Zhenqing's authentic works to Tanchun. Their feelings and relationships are not the unrestrained nature of Baoyu and Xiangyun, nor the spiritual connection between Baoyu and Daiyu, but more importantly, they are intentionally maintained by each other.
Tanchun hates that she is not a boy and cannot make meritorious achievements, but she will not persuade Baoyu, who is a boy, to make meritorious achievements. She couldn't impose her own thoughts on him, she wasn't like Lin Daiyu, she couldn't understand him, but she respected him, they were good brothers and sisters, but not companions.
Whether persuaded or not, these smartest girls are really for the good of Baoyu, although they have their own temperaments, their own positions, and different purposes. And many years later, when Baoyu suffered from the wind and frost of the world and experienced many changes, he would truly understand those girls.
Bao Chao's pragmatism, Xiang Yun's innocence, Daiyu's affection, and Tanchun's helplessness, they are more mature and sensitive than him, but they have also endured more. There is no way back in life, and they have long since left him, standing on the other shore, looking at the past, like a dream. Will he regret it, or will he feel a lot of emotion? Maybe, it doesn't matter anymore. Remember the past, forget it, or forget it, walk into the white and vast snow alone!
Author: Ah Wu, this article is to read less of the original works of the Red Chamber.