The kind of child that makes the class teacher the most headache, come and see if your child is like this?
When I was a class teacher for ten years, I also had five classes with me, and I deeply felt that in the eyes of mothers, every child is an angel, and the advantages of their own babies come out of their mouths. But mothers also know that they cannot protect their children for a lifetime, they always want to enter the society, and they also hope that their children can better integrate into society. Since entering kindergarten, this is the first step for children to enter society. How children get along with their classmates and how to communicate with teachers is indeed a science.
After communicating with other teachers, the teachers agreed that there was one kind of child who was the most headache. Such a child usually looks lively and cute when there is no contradiction, and he is bold and likes to talk to the teacher. But once he makes a mistake or gets emotional, the teacher says, he can find ten reasons to shirk responsibility, and the teacher is cold and tough!
On Monday, the discipline committee member in the class came to me crying, saying that when I was reading early, I found that Xiaoding had been secretly reading a comic book, so I was going to collect Xiaoding's comic book. This angered Xiao Ding, who overturned the disciplinary committee's table and jumped on the people's school bags. After listening to the whole thing, I found Xiaoding and asked him if he was like this. Xiao Ding opened his mouth and said, "She has a low hand." I was surprised because very few people said dirty words in front of the class teacher. I criticized him, and he immediately crossed his hands on his chest, his head tilted, and he didn't speak. I went on to say to him, "Teacher understands, you are reading a book and suddenly you have been accepted, you must like this book, so you are in a hurry, right?" Even so, you can't do it with girls and make such a big deal when everyone reads early! He immediately replied, "Well, if the girl beats the boy to death, it will be fine!" One sentence made me both angry and funny. Tell me, where did he think of the perverse reasoning!
In the end, I did a cold treatment of this matter, and when this child was emotionally excited, he would definitely not listen to anything. So I stressed in the class that you can't read extracurricular books in the future early reading, if there is a contradiction, immediately find a teacher to adjust, and you can't escalate the contradiction. Then everything began to lecture normally, and in this language class, Xiao Ding often secretly observed me, but it was not like before, he raised his hand to answer the question. After the third lesson, the child came to me by himself to talk about the commonplace, and I knew that the time had come, and I told the child what was wrong with the early reading and how to do it. The child quickly accepted at this point.
If your child is very smart, has a good eloquence, but has a short temper, is prone to throwing tantrums, and is very face-conscious. Most of these children are boys! Then parents need to correctly guide the child's concept of right and wrong, and inform the child that everyone will make mistakes, admitting that they are wrong is not shameful, and it is a good child to change if they know their mistakes! In ordinary life, seize every opportunity for children to make mistakes to communicate truly, and slowly reverse the problem of children shirking responsibility. Then such a child is actually liked by the teacher in school. Classmates will also be willing to make friends with him!