In general, most women start to enter menopause around the age of 50, because of the difference in personal constitution, some women may be earlier, some may be later. In our common sense, it is impossible for a woman to re-conceive after menopause, but there are some exceptions, which also makes us very curious, why is this happening?
Case: Half a year after menopause, the 56-year-old aunt naturally remarried and decided to give birth, and the reaction of the only daughter was very real
A distant relative is 56 years old this year, some time ago heard the news of her pregnancy, many relatives around her felt very surprised, to say that the most unacceptable, should be her daughter. Relatives' daughters are all 30 years old this year and have children.
This relative's pregnancy is also more coincidental, and she herself found it incredible after checking out the pregnancy, because after half a year of suspension, she thought she had menopause, after all, she was in her 50s, and menopause was normal. However, in this case, half a year later, I did not expect to resume menstruation, and as a result, I was pregnant with a baby the next month.
At that time, the doctor's explanation to her was that her condition was not a case of menopause, but a menstrual disorder, which was actually caused by a premenopausal hormone disorder, and at this time the body would still release eggs, so there was a possibility of pregnancy.
Later, after discussing with her husband, my relatives thought it would be good to have another child, after all, there was only one only daughter, so I planned to leave the child behind. However, when the daughter learned of this news, she was very incomprehensible, and questioned her parents one after another, now that her parents are fifty or sixty years old, after the children have reached the age of twenty, and the parents are already about eighty years old, who will be responsible when the time comes? In the end, it may become a burden for the daughter.
Indeed, for the eldest daughter, if the relatives do not have the ability to raise in the future, I am afraid that the brother or sister who is about to be born will eventually be entrusted to the sister, and the sister also has her own family, which will naturally add a lot of trouble.
01 Super old age, these problems are the key
First of all, the opinions of other family members mentioned in the above case, if the parents decide to fight when they are young, then the age difference between the two children is not large, it is understandable. But if the parents are already in the super-old stage, then suddenly choose to fight, and the eldest child is about 30 years old, whether to fight will also affect the life of the older child, especially if the parents do not have the ability to raise, in essence, it is equivalent to the same as the eldest child.
Secondly, super-senior students should also consider physical conditions, especially the bodies of pregnant women. Many young women in the birth of children after the loss of vitality is very serious, and even left a lot of confinement disease, not to mention the elderly women, more likely to leave many post-fertility sequelae, for the elderly, all aspects of the weakened body, is a big blow, after giving birth to a child will only be a day is not as good as a day, plus to take care of the child, all aspects of fatigue will affect postpartum recovery, then it is easy to cause pregnancy complications in all aspects.
In addition, how to ensure the quality of embryos is also a key, there have been many women because of the advanced age of delivery, resulting in the birth of children with stunted development, not to mention the situation of ultra-advanced birth, the risk of problems in the baby in the stomach will only be higher. And even if the quality of the woman's egg is good, it is useless, and it is necessary to require the male sperm quality to be good, only in this way can it be combined into a relatively high-quality fertilized egg. At the same time, it is also necessary to ensure that the uterus function is better, otherwise it will also affect the conception.
Of course, whether there is a strong enough economic support must also be taken as a key consideration, because the current parenting of children is not simply enough to feed the children, but also to consider the future of the child's education problems, if you can not provide children with good educational resources, it is likely to let the children be far behind others, after all, the current social resources are indeed a key condition for education, many excellent children are stepping on resources to fight for results.
Finally, super-aged parents should also consider whether they have the energy to educate their children and whether they can communicate with their children. Now young parents and children have a large generation gap, not to mention super-elderly parents, may not be more than a generation gap, said to be a "gap" is not too much, and communication is a bridge for parents to educate their children, if this bridge is not built well, it is likely to let children go astray in the future, presumably this is not the end that parents are willing to see.
Therefore, this is also why it is recommended that parents must do a good job of comprehensive consideration before giving birth at an ultra-advanced age, in this matter, absolutely can not be blind, not impulsive, only do a good job of thorough consideration, and confirm that they have the ability to cope with the situation to fight, the future will not feel regret.