Text/Xiao He Social Theory (Original Article Ban Plagiarism)
Title: Fujian: The father introduced the blind date to his daughter, complained that the photo did not match himself, and asked for truth
With the continuous development and progress of modern technology, mobile phones are becoming more and more comprehensive in function, which greatly facilitates our lives.
In addition to the mobile phone itself, a variety of software systems are also refreshing to everyone, making us deeply feel the power of technology.
Take taking pictures, China's beauty technology can be described as the dominant, anyone in front of the camera can turn into a crow into a phoenix, which makes those who have face value anxiety see the dawn again.
In today's era of good looks, a good-looking person is indeed more likely to get attention and praise, which is why everyone pursues beauty so much.
But I have to say that the looks obtained through makeup and beauty technology are all fake after all, and once they get to reality, they become invisible, and we can be confident on the Internet, but we still have to be real in life.
Recently, in Xiamen, Fujian Province, a father introduced a blind date to his 25-year-old daughter and asked his daughter to send him a photo, saying that he would show it to the other party first.
After listening to the second word, the daughter sent a photo of herself, but she did not expect to be complained about by her father: "You usually look so good?" Let you shoot a little more realistic, not like you at all, you look in the mirror yourself. ”
Hearing the father say this, the daughter's heart is full of mixed feelings, and suddenly has doubts about her appearance, in her opinion, her usual photos are still very good-looking, how can it be said to be unreal?
In order to find out, she turned on the front camera to her plain self and saw the most real self, which made her completely understand her father's good intentions.
I have to say that the girl's photo and the appearance of the plain face do not look like a person, the girl in the photo is fashionable and moving, but the plain face of her looks very ordinary.
If the father directly sends the photo of his daughter, in case the two find that they are seriously inconsistent with the photo after meeting in the future, is this not a deception?
Therefore, in the eyes of the woman's father, it is better to send photos during blind dates, so as to appear sincere, otherwise it will be really embarrassing after meeting.
In my opinion, it is good that both men and women have self-confidence, but we must not be deceived by false looks, and we must still have self-knowledge in our hearts.
It doesn't matter if you usually dress up beautifully, but if you really want to deal with others, you still have to show your truest side, and only by making him like the way you look when you are plain can you really like it.
Through this incident, we also understand that now the photos are not credible, and everyone must be more cautious when making friends online, and must not be exploited by criminals.
In recent years, online dating fraud cases have occurred repeatedly, I don't know how many men have been cheated of money by "photo beauties", they have not seen each other and began to pursue, not knowing that they have fallen into each other's trap.
So I want to remind everyone that network fraud is everywhere, when we make friends online, we need to pay more attention, if you really want to fall in love with each other, you must meet first and then say, do not directly transfer money to each other, this is a very stupid behavior.
Finally, I would like to say that although appearance is important, but the quality determines a person's personality, we must not only look at the appearance, we should pay more attention to the inside.
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