When children are in this special period of adolescent rebellion, parents must pay enough attention to try their best to help their children survive this critical fork in life.
At this time, there will be problems with children's mental health and children's early love. Therefore, adolescence is the most sensitive special period in a child's life.
Parents must carefully deal with these problems in their children so that they can keep abreast of their children's mental health and emotional changes.
In the child's adolescent rebellion period, the child is particularly impulsive, the child will not consider the consequences of doing things by himself, and at this time the child has a big temper, a greater anger, and an unstable mood, especially easy to drill the tip of the horn, when things are like firecracker twisters, a little bit, a sound.
When a female classmate Xiao Yuan was in the third year of junior high school, she was particularly fond of the class leader in her class. Because the class leader not only has very good grades, but also looks particularly handsome.
But the squad leader sat in the front row of Xiao Yuan, and he couldn't see Xiao Yuan's admiring eyes at all. But Xiao Yuan, in addition to listening to the teacher's lectures in class, other times her eyes are staring at the class leader's every move, and she will smirk when the class leader is happy. When the squad leader is sad, Xiao Yuan will also be sad. Every smile of the squad leader will affect Xiao Yuan's every move of the emotional changes in his heart.
Maybe God loves to tease people, originally the squad leader sat in the front well, she sat in the back and could only admire the squad leader.
But just as they were about to graduate, the class teacher repositioned them. The class teacher transferred the class leader to sit next to Xiao Yuan.
When the squad leader sat down next to Xiao Yuan, the result was that Xiao Yuan's face was full of crimson, and she was still staring at the squad leader stupidly.
When the squad leader saw Xiao Yuan like this, he felt very strange. The squad leader reached out and touched her forehead and said, "Xiao Yuan, are you cold?"
As a result, Xiao Yuan's face was even more flushed like Cai Xia in the summer evening, and Xiao Yuan was so ashamed that he had to bury his head deep in his arms.
As soon as the squad leader saw Xiao Yuan's appearance, he was even more surprised, so he said to Xiao Yuan with concern: "Xiao Yuan, you really have a cold and fever!" I'm going to see a doctor! ”
The classmate next to him smiled and said, "Xiao Yuan is cold, he wants to see a doctor, but this doctor is far away in the sky and close at hand?" ”
Xiao Yuan listened to the classmates next to him say this, and as a result, Xiao Yuan was even more shy.
The squad leader was also full of surprise, looking back at Xiao Yuan's demented look, and then looking at Xiao Yuan's admiring eyes that had been staring at the squad leader.
The squad leader also understood, and Xiao Yuan's thoughts were known by the squad leader. But the class leader at this time is really the time when the stars are holding the moon, many girls in the class have a crush on the class leader, how can he go to see Xiao Yuan at this time?
After all, the class leader has good grades and is handsome. Many girls in the class like the class leader, and Xiao Yuan is just an ordinary little girl, the results have been mediocre, and she does not look like a shy flower closed moon and a sinking goose.
The result is that the squad leader looks at Xiao Yuan with a disgusted look, and the squad leader even satirizes Xiao Yuan's poor grades from time to time, looking like an ordinary straw bag.
The class leader looks down on Xiao Yuan, not only looks down on Xiao Yuan, but also satirizes Xiao Yuan in front of the classmates for being ugly, has no temperament, poor grades, and is basically a straw bag. It is also said that Xiao Yuan is a toad who wants to eat the swan meat of the squad leader.
Xiao Yuan saw that the class leader not only did not like himself, but also often came to satirize and ridicule himself, which made Xiao Yuan's heart particularly uncomfortable, and his mood was getting worse and worse, and he became more and more inferior.
As a result, everyone in the school knew that Xiao Yuan liked the class, and the class leader hated Xiao Yuan. Everyone said that Xiao Yuan was a toad who wanted to eat swan meat.
In the end, Xiao Yuan suffered from severe depression when he was about to graduate from junior high school. Xiao Yuan has been unable to sleep at night, and during the day he is also in a trance, looking like a ghost.
As a result, Xiao Yuan turned from depression to severe schizophrenia.
Xiao Yuan's life happiness was thus ruined, and at this critical moment of adolescence, Xiao Yuan did not succeed in the past, and completely ruined his life's happiness.
If parents can find out the problem early, help Xiao Yuan enlighten or consult a psychologist to interfere with Xiao Yuan's inferiority complex, maybe Xiao Yuan will successfully pass through his adolescence.
Therefore, parents must be concerned about their children's learning and growth, help children to solve problems in life and learning, parents can not only care about working to make money, and ignore the children's psychological problems in addition to learning.
Because parents are all people who have come over, their social experience is also richer than that of their children.
Therefore, when parents care about educating their children, they must carefully consider not to hurt the children's sensitive self-esteem, let alone fight violence with violence, and do not take into account the child's psychological feelings.