Introduction: When we go home for the New Year, we not only have to face a large number of relatives, but many brothers and sisters around us have already married and started a family, and the children are in groups. Therefore, the New Year is not only a meeting and gathering between adults, but also a time when children of all ages gather together, at this time, we can often hear a lot of "fairy tales".
As adults, we are often shocked by the sudden remarks of many children, and sometimes we don't know what such a straightforward little head is thinking. So, have you ever heard a child say something that makes you cry and laugh? Here, Xiaobian will share with you the "fairy tales" that I heard back during the New Year.
"I want to sleep with my mother, can I let my father sleep with you?" ”
When we came home, we basically slept in a small family and a room, and my cousin's daughter was now very disgusted with sleeping with her father when she was growing up, so when we were chatting together, the child suddenly ran to his aunt and said, "I want to sleep with my mother, can you let my father sleep with you?" "The purpose was to throw Dad out and keep Him from sleeping with them."
But in this way, it seems a little embarrassing to us adults, everyone laughs, and the aunt and cousin-in-law seem a little embarrassed. When the little girl heard that she could not do this, she was disappointed, because she knew that her aunt was still sleeping alone, and she had thought that there was a place to "settle down" her father anyway, and finally found that this was not allowed.
Fairy tale: "I'm also going to marry my little brother next door, and we'll have a drink tomorrow!" ”
A few years ago, there were also people in the village who got married and served wine, and at that time, our family was also invited, and the little niece who was on the kindergarten holiday was also in the ranks of the wedding banquet. When the little girl saw the beautiful bride and handsome groom on the stage, she was also particularly envious, and more importantly, there were many delicious things to get married, so she also decided on the spot to get married and turn every turn.
So she thought of the little brother next door who had been playing well with her recently, and the two of them often visited the door to play, and they felt that they were a good marriage partner. So he boldly decided to marry the little brother of the next family, and said that he would get married tomorrow and set up wine, she would be the most beautiful bride, and the child's fairy tales had become the talk of our family's New Year, and even regarded this as a "doll kiss".
Many times, the children's words are amazing, which we can't expect, but the children often have no bad thoughts, mainly want to meet the most direct thoughts and feelings in their hearts. In the eyes of children, the current statements and practices are the "best solutions" they can think of and often lack thinking about the consequences, and some children even unconsciously offend others when they speak.
But this is also a form of expression of the child's exuberant desire to express, and it is this expression of ignoring the consequences that makes the child more optimistic and cheerful and speaks freely. But as parents, we need to make timely guidance and correction of some inappropriate expressions in children's speech, what should parents pay attention to in the process of education?
1, do not deny, but ask the reason
What children say may be incorrect and shocking, but children themselves are unconscious, and as parents, we criticize children and obliterate children's desire to express. In this regard, we should not rush to deny the child, but ask the reason behind the child's speech, and find the reason so that we can have better guidance and other solutions.
2. Guide the thinking of the consequences and give good solutions
Parents should also guide their children to say what kind of consequences these words will bring, such as these words are inappropriate, which words will make people sad, etc., so that children know why they can't say them. In the face of the needs behind the children, we need more appropriate solutions, while educating the children, do not forget to meet the needs of the children.
Important note: Children's fairy tales are often not given too much consideration, and this is why they can shock us, and we as parents need to make the right guidance. Don't rush to deny the child's statement, but to understand the real reason behind it, but also to take the opportunity to guide the child to think about the consequences and give a better solution.
Today's topic: Children have "fairy tales" and "frequent golden sentences", what are the most reasonable words you have ever heard your children say? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.