The parents I admire the most are the parents of Ma Wenwen in their kindergarten, for example, Ma Wenwen's hairstyle is particularly delicately groomed every week from Monday to Friday, and her hairstyle is different every day. Even the small snacks and fruits that the children brought to school every day were carefully washed and plated by Wenwen's mother.
Some parents questioned: "Is it really necessary to change the pattern to give children these rituals every day?" ”
In response to this question, I have also interviewed a few children, but their unanimous suggestions are particularly envious of Ma Wenwen's classmates, and even they are more than in class, they are looking forward to what new things Ma Wenwen brings every day.
Don't underestimate the sense of ritual hidden in family life, the childhood full of ritual, far better than giving children a flashy material life.
First, the sense of ritual in the family can give children a sense of security
The orderly and carefully arranged life in the family will make the child feel the warmth of the family, and the parents can seriously participate in every important moment of the child, and the child will naturally not question the family's love for himself.
This kind of love makes children feel that the future is promising, and a stable living environment will also make people feel full and stable inside.
Similarly, if parents can actively participate in the growth process of their children, then the children will be full of upward enterprising spirit for the future life, with enough confidence and confidence, the children can be braver for the future exploration and learning, and in the future life and marriage concept, they also know how to care for others.
Second, the sense of family ritual can enhance the child's sense of self-identity
If parents can pay attention to their children's every growth and festival, this kind of attention will make children feel unique and born to look forward to.
In fact, most of the children without a sense of ceremony, although the mouth does not say, but every holiday still feels the shortcomings, the heart is still eager to care, the sense of ceremony is really very important, not to say that you have to send more expensive gifts, a greeting or a blessing from parents, will make people feel warm.
Of all the ceremonies, of course, the most memorable is the eighteen-year-old coming-of-age ceremony, which is the beginning of a new chapter for children. If the family can give the child enough sense of ceremony at this special moment, it will also make the child clear that his identity is about to change. This feeling of starting a new stage will also make children clear about their responsibilities.
Third, enhance the feelings between parents and children and between husband and wife, and unite family strength
At present, social life is under great pressure, and parents are basically in the busy working state of 996, so they rarely pay attention to the sense of family ritual. Because family members are not together all the time, and the time together is always filled with exhaustion and busyness, the appropriate sense of family ceremony will add family feelings, and let children feel the care of their families in a small sense of ceremony.
In addition, the sense of ceremony can also pass on the parents' warm view of marriage and love and life to the next generation, and presumably children who grow up in this environment will also be cultivated into a person who knows how to love others and is full of happiness.
People in life may not be able to accompany us for a lifetime, just like parents can't always guard their children's side, but good memories can make people reminisce about a lifetime and have love to accompany them.
In daily life, do you often give your children a sense of ritual? You can leave a message in the comments section and share the happy little things in the family.
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