The 14-year-old boy ran away from home because of his father's instructions, lived in a culvert and slept on a straw pile, netizens: the family has the same paragraph!
It is said that as a parent, we must pay attention to ways and methods when educating children, especially for children in the rebellious period of adolescence, we must communicate patiently, and we cannot take simple and rough discipline methods, so as not to stimulate children to have accidents. However, in reality, few parents can do it, and if they are not outdated, they will still loudly reprimand their children, and even can't help but do it!
According to media reports, on the afternoon of February 20, Xiao Yu, a 14-year-old junior boy in the former town of Xiaoshan, Hangzhou, because he did not do his homework well, only collected his own when he collected the quilt, ran away from home after being lectured by his father, and his grandmother and sister chased him out and quickly threw him away, and threatened never to come back. It wasn't until it was dark that day and didn't see the child return, and the parents quickly called the police for help.
The local police station people's auxiliary police judged through the monitoring that Xiaoyu should not have left the village, and looked for an all-night that night, but did not find the child.
Until the morning of the 22nd, the search team continued to expand, and the traffic police, public welfare rescue team, teachers, and parents of other students also joined the search team. At about 12:00 noon on the 22nd, a piece of clothing was finally found in a culvert in poplar village, which was a light rain. The crowd then found a "nest" made of straw and cardboard boxes in the culvert, but there was no trace of light rain.
Everyone searched around, and finally found a small rain that was looking at this side across a village road, and Xiao Yu saw that everyone pulled their legs and ran, and everyone followed close behind, chased to a vegetable field and finally stopped the child, and then escorted him back to the police station.
It is reported that this culvert is about 500 meters away from Xiaoyu's home, but it is relatively hidden, plus the light rain is deliberately hidden, so it has not been found for two days. Xiaoyu said that he bought biscuits and drinks with little change, but did not have enough to eat and went to the nearby vegetable field to pluck a few carrots. Sleeping in the straw pile all night was not solid, the culvert was cold and wet, but he just gritted his teeth and refused to go back.
After the slow enlightenment of the police, the child's heart knot was finally opened. Xiaoyu promised not to do such a thing that worried her parents in the future. Xiaoyu's parents also said that they would pay attention to education in the future.
After the matter broke the news, many netizens have left messages to express their views, and many netizens have said that they have the same son at home and are worried about it!
I think that in addition to the traffickers, there are many perverted and various bad people outside, fortunately, this child has not been abducted by bad people or other accidents, otherwise how much regret will the parents have! We usually really want our children to watch more news and not ruin their lives because of their willfulness.
Some netizens said that this kind of child is usually spoiled at first glance, and is soaked by honey. Everything should be based on his emotions and feelings first, there is no empathy, do not know how to understand the feelings and efforts of others, as long as they are unhappy, they willfully act.
But there are also many netizens who believe that the age is different, do not accuse others of parents for pampering. It is not that the parents' education methods are wrong, but that the current children have basically not suffered any hardships, and they are very superior in material terms, but their psychological endurance is relatively poor.
The author believes that today's children are like a model, he is not an individual, but a group. So, we really can't discipline our children in the way we used to. In the end, how to manage it or slowly deliberate. Now the material conditions are different from before, children can not feel the hardships of their parents at all, and there are almost no children who can not talk back with their parents. Therefore, the parents' education method should be improved, and children at this age cannot be tough, that will only hurt both sides. You can't be wordy, just mention it. Children also have children's suffering, get along with children like friends, be more considerate of children's difficulties, and spend the rebellious period.