Xiang Yun, who was outspoken and quick-witted, said to the new Baoqin: "When you get to the wife's house, if the wife is in the house, just talk and laugh with the wife, it doesn't hurt to sit down more; if the wife is not in the house, you don't go in, the people in the room are bad, they are all going to harm us." ”
Clear-eyed people know that Xiang Yun is talking about Aunt Zhao's mother and son. The heart of this mother and son is known to everyone, and only Xiangyun will say it without scruples.
The thirty-third time, Bao Yu was beaten by his father Jia Zheng and almost killed. There were two reasons for being beaten, one was because of Jiang Yuhan, and the other was because of Jin Jun'er, who "wandered out of exile (Jiang Yuhan), gave away private goods, neglected his studies at home, and insulted his mother-in-law (Jin Jun'er)." However, what really made Jia Zheng die was Jia Huan's complaint, which was like adding fuel to the fire, directly igniting the anger in Jia Zheng's heart. Therefore, the author's name of the review is "hand and foot delay small lip and tongue", tiger look at the delayed hand and foot small lips and tongue, like four or two thousand pounds, completely angered Jia Zheng, who had long been dissatisfied with Baoyu.
Let's first see what Jia Huan said: "My mother told me that Brother Baoyu had been raped and beaten up the day before in his wife's house by pulling his wife's handmaiden, Jin Jun'er. That Jin Jun'er gambled and died. ”
Readers with God's perspective know that what Jia Huan said is completely nonsense, but it is just a fabrication made up by Aunt Zhao to catch the wind and catch the shadow. The mother fabricated, the son sued, and the mother and son cooperated perfectly, almost putting Bao Yu to death.
After Baoyu was beaten, he was blessed with misfortune and received the greatest care, and the entire Rongguo Mansion was circling around him. In contrast, although Aunt Zhao's mother and son were not punished, a detail showed that Aunt Zhao felt that her heart was empty.
The thirty-fifth time, Jia Mu led everyone to Yihong Courtyard, after some laughter, a group of people came out of the Grand View Garden, "Madame Wang was afraid that Jia Mu was tired, so she wanted to let her sit in the upper room where she lived", here is a detail: "At that time, Aunt Zhao pushed the disease, only Aunt Zhou and the mother-in-law and the servants were busy with curtains, backrests, and bedding. ”
"Aunt Zhao pushed the disease", that is, pretending to be sick and hiding for reasons, and did not dare to appear in front of everyone.
This is the manifestation of a weak heart.
No one blamed her, but she felt that her heart was empty. And the emptiness of the heart is the beginning of enlightenment.
Before that, Aunt Zhao had done something even more evil, that is, the twenty-fifth time "Evil Magic Uncle and Sister-in-Law Feng Wu Ghosts". Just when Bao Yu was dying, Aunt Zhao dared to make an idea in front of Jia Mu: "The old lady doesn't have to be too sad, the brother is no longer useful, it is better to put on the brother's clothes, let him go back earlier, and avoid some suffering; just don't let him go, this breath is continuous, he is also suffering in that life." ”
At this time, she had no sense of emptiness.
So why is it that this time things are smaller but so weak-minded? Because the "nightmare magic" was difficult to verify that time, this time it was too easy to check. What Jia Huan said to Jia Zheng, as long as Madame Wang and Jia Zheng said it to their faces, they immediately knew that it was Aunt Zhao's mother and son who caused the damage.
The fact that it was so easy to verify was not that Aunt Zhao was too lucky, but because of Madame Wang's big mind and Xue Baochao's big pattern.
Lady Wang, who has a big heart, obviously has doubts about Jia Huan, or gives up the investigation.
Bao Yu was beaten, and how much heartache Madame Wang had could be imagined. It was she who begged in front of Jia Zheng to make Jia Zheng stop, otherwise she would really be killed.
Afterwards, Madame Wang "trance heard Bao Yu beating her, it was Huan Er who said something in front of the old master." She asked the attacker for verification, but the attacker did not give her a definite answer: "I didn't hear this, only heard that for the second master to dominate the play, people came to ask the old man, for this fight." ”
Pay attention to the attacker's words, she did not say yes, did not say no, only said that she "did not hear this."
Then, there was no more following in Madame Wang's case.
What does this mean? It shows that Madame Wang does not want to investigate deeply and does not want to make a big deal out of it.
Just think, if she had to investigate deeply, would it be difficult to do it?
Where did Madame Wang's "trance hearing" come from? Ming Yan said that he was "the person who heard the old man say", that is, Jia Zheng's entourage said it. Madame Wang's "trance hearing" should also have overheard a sentence and a half from Jia Zheng's entourage.
If she wanted to verify, she didn't have to ask the attackers at all, just like Wang Xifeng's "Xun Jia Tong", she only needed to find Jia Zheng's entourage and ask them, and she would know everything.
Whether it was an explicit investigation or an undercover visit, Madame Wang could easily find out the truth, but Madame Wang did not do so.
It's not that she doesn't dare, it's that she can't. If she did this, she was bound to make things bigger, and the ultimate impact was on the stability of the Hefu, Jia Mu's mood, and the relationship between the Baoyu Jiahuan brothers.
Therefore, even if Madame Wang was heartbroken, even if she knew that Aunt Zhao's mother and son were behind her back, she could only calm down and act as if nothing had happened.
This is her big mind as the lady of the house: personal honor and disgrace are small, and family stability is big. No matter how Aunt Zhao's mother and son make waves, she will not pursue them for the sake of the family.
Aunt Zhao also knew that Madame Wang was quiet, so she said, "Mrs. Ming is a good wife." She knew that Madame Wang had repeatedly not bothered with her, not because she was cowardly and afraid of things, but because of her magnanimity.
Because of this, Aunt Zhao not only never hated Madame Wang, but also tried to show her overtures to Madame Wang. The sixty-seventh time, when Baochao distributed the local specialties that Xue Pan had brought back from Suzhou to everyone and also gave Jia Huan a copy, Aunt Zhao not only lamented that "others can't complain that the treasure is good, can be a person, very generous, and now looks really good", but also ran to Lady Wang with gifts and wanted to "sell a good child", and praised Baochao in front of Lady Wang.
It can be said that if it were not for Jia Mu's desperate efforts to hold Baoyu, Jia Huan's inferiority and Aunt Zhao's dissatisfaction, Lady Wang and Aunt Zhao's wives and concubines would get along better, and Baoyu and Jia Huan would also be able to do brotherhood and brotherhood.
It is Madame Wang's infinite tolerance that has earned Aunt Zhao's respect and praise.
Baochao, who has a big pattern, promptly stopped the attackers' accusations against Jia Huan.
Baoyu was beaten, in addition to Madame Wang's special heartache, there were also attacks. The book says that the attackers are "full of grievances, but they are not good enough to make it out... After seeing Jia Mu and Madame Wang go, they came to Bao Yu and sat down, and asked him with tears: 'How did you get to this step of the field?'"
The always steady attackers were concerned about chaos, and this time they were not calm, not only looking for Ming Yan to ask the reason for the beating, but also saying it to Bao Yu.
You know, this practice is quite dangerous, but if Bao Yu's heart is smaller, he may have a grudge against Jia Huan. Then the attack invisibly played a role in dividing the brotherhood of Baoyu Jiahuan.
Fortunately, there was also BaoChao present, and she killed the signs of danger in time: "There is no need to alarm the old lady and the lady, if you blow it into the ears of the old man, although it is not good at that time, you will always suffer losses against the scene." ”
The attacker was a wise man, and at once he heard Bao Chao's voice, "Don't alarm the old lady and the lady", saying that you should not say what Jia Huan sued.
There is a problem of poor information here, and the Book of Rites says: "The inside cannot speak, and the outside does not enter." "The words of the inner courtyard are not spoken to the outside, and the words of the outside are not transmitted to the inner courtyard, which is the etiquette that those who understand etiquette should observe." Therefore, even if Mrs. Jia Zhengwang is husband and wife, they also abide by this etiquette. Jia Zheng would not tell Lady Wang why he was beating Baoyu, and Lady Wang would not take the initiative to ask. Because the father taught his son to belong to the outside, the inner courtyard could not inquire.
Because of this, Bao Chao said, "If you blow it into the old man's ear", if the attacker says it here, it belongs to the inner courtyard, but if it is opened, it is difficult to avoid being heard by Jia Zheng, just like Madame Wang "trance heard Bao Yu beating up today, it was Huan Er who said something in front of the old man".
When Jia Zheng heard this, he took the initiative to ask, it belonged to the "going to face the scene", the three heads and six confronted each other, and Zhao Aunt Jia Huan's mother and son fabricated facts and complained that they could no longer hide it. Therefore, Baochao said, "There is always a loss."
Who suffers? First of all, of course, Aunt Zhao Jia Huan's mother and son must be punished, and then the smoke and the indiscriminate transmission of words can not be separated, and in the end, it is Baoyu who suffers losses, which completely offends Aunt Zhao and Jia Huan.
The attackers in a hurry did not expect so much, and after Baochao's reminder, they realized that they had almost made a big mistake, so they were "really grateful to Baochao in their hearts."
Since then, the attackers have never mentioned Jia Huan's complaint again, and even when Madame Wang asked her, she said, "I didn't hear this."
This is the big pattern of Baochao, standing tall, seeing far, thinking thoroughly, so as to avoid a scourge that affects many people.
Madame Wang's big mind and the big pattern of Baochao made Aunt Zhao feel weak.
Someone once asked me: Isn't it right that bad people like Aunt Zhao and Jia Huan should be punished? Why should you grievance yourself to hide it for them?
Yes, good people always want to see evil retribution, and people like Aunt Zhao Jia Huan, who always make bad, deserve the most severe punishment.
But ah, no matter how severe the punishment, Jia Huan is also Jia Zheng's son, and Aunt Zhao is also Jia Zheng's concubine, so why not kill them or drive them out of the house?
For those who are small-minded and have a dark mind, fighting evil with evil will only be rebounded, making them more unscrupulous. If you can't defeat the enemy with one move, the best way is to use tolerance to make it reflective.
Note that we are talking about people with small hearts and dark minds, not people who are inherently adulterous. The author's positioning of Aunt Zhao as a "foolish concubine" rather than a "vicious concubine" shows that she is only stupid and not adulterous.
That is to say, Aunt Zhao's evil deeds are all caused by her small heart and dark psychology. For example, she said that Jin Jun'er's death was "Brother Baoyu's brother pulled his wife's handmaiden Jin Jun'er to rape and beat her up in his wife's house the day before." That Jin Jun'er gambled and died", this was not a malicious fabrication by Aunt Zhao, but made up with her limited insight and with the information she could grasp.
What information does she have? Jin Jun'er was first beaten and then picked up, and Bao Yu ran away in ashes. A few days later, Jin Jun'er was thrown into the well, and these days Jin Jun'er was "crying at home.".
When these information is linked, and then linked to the reputation of Baoyu's "sex ghost", is it easy to think about forced adultery? With Aunt Zhao's insight, she could never have imagined that this matter was actually related to her son Jia Huan, nor could she have imagined that Madame Wang was covering up the truth and blocking the news in order to protect Jia Huan.
If you don't get the truth, you make up your own brain, and you make up for the darkness, which is what many fools have in common, and it is also the reason why rumors can be circulated. So there is a saying that "rumors stop at the wise".
Aunt Zhao thought that the plot made up by her brain was the truth, and triumphantly said it to Jia Huan. She did not expect that Jia Huan would have the opportunity to file a complaint against Jia Zheng, and she did not expect that the timing of Jia Huan's complaint was so coincidental, and she bumped into Jia Zhengzheng who was angry about Qi Guan.
So, she was weak-hearted.
Aunt Zhao was a "foolish concubine", and she also knew that this matter was easy to find out on her head. How serious the consequences were, she could also think that even if the old lady did not threaten, she would be reprimanded by Jia Zheng, and her son Jia Huan would inevitably be beaten. Whether Madame Wang could spare him was unknown.
However, the punishment has not come.
Why not come? Aunt Zhao knew that it could only be because Lady Wang was as magnanimous as before, and temporarily spared their mother and son.
Saying that it is "temporarily let go" is the psychology of Aunt Zhao. With her villainous heart, she couldn't imagine that Madame Wang would completely let her go. As a result, this matter became a sharp sword hanging over Aunt Zhao's head, and she didn't know when it would be cut down, because settling accounts after autumn was also a common psychology of dark villains.
With the existence of this sharp sword, Aunt Zhao was much more honest. Since then, there has been no more murder of Baoyu by their mother and son.
This is much more useful than punishment.
This is the power of inclusion, which is often more useful than confrontation and heavy punishment. Madame Wang used tolerance to dissolve Aunt Zhao's darkness, and in the same way, BaoChao used tolerance to dissolve Daiyu's speculation. Madame Wang used tolerance to win Aunt Zhao's evaluation of "a clear wife is a good wife", and BaoChao used tolerance to win Daiyu's "Jinlan language" and "Jinlanqi".
We often say "the sea is a hundred rivers", and the reason why hundred rivers are all thrown into the embrace of the sea is because the sea is willing to infinitely tolerate hundreds of rivers.
A person with a big mind and a big pattern is invincible.