Indah's attitude towards his two biological sons is very different, almost ignoring the eldest son Batuu and pampering the younger son, Yingrudi.
When Yingda and Song Dandan divorced, Song Dandan thought that the two families could move around normally, and Yingda's reply was: "The child's frequent contact with the biological father is a kind of harm to the stepfather, the stepfather is the child's father, and the biological father should not come and go." ”
Perhaps Yingda has its own difficulties, and contact with Batuu means contact with Song Dandan, which may hurt his current wife and make Liang Huan feel that he and his children are left out in the cold.
But even if the two people divorced, Indah is always the father of the child, this blood relationship cannot be separated, and the responsibility for the child still exists.
From Batuu's point of view, it is not his fault that the parents are divorced, and every child should enjoy the love of the father, which is his right.
In contrast, the younger son Yingrudi has received almost all the love of Yingda, and Yingda attaches great importance to the education of his children, and now Yingrudi has grown into a tall and handsome ice hockey player.
Although Yingda denied that he preferred his younger son and said that he treated all children equally, he believed in everyone's own judgment.
Song Dandan also publicly responded that Indah did not recognize his son Batu and did not give his son the opportunity to reunite with his father.
In fact, no matter what, the grievances of the previous generation are best not to affect the next generation, and brotherhood is equally difficult to give up.
Recently, some media released a video of Yingrudi, and when asked if it was Batu's younger brother, Yingrudi responded "I am". When asked if he had any contact with his brother, he bluntly said "there is no contact."
Ying Rudi said: "He did not contact me, I really hope he contacted me, but he never contacted me, there are many people who say that I should contact him, but I have considered this topic, but the problem is that my family has always welcomed him back, and I also hope that he can contact me, but I can't contact him very much, because you can't disturb people's family life, not to mention that what you haven't considered is that maybe he doesn't want me as a brother."
In the end, who should take the initiative to contact whom, whether the brother has a younger brother in his heart, and whether the younger brother has an older brother in his heart, only the person concerned knows best in his heart. Maybe there is a hurdle in everyone's heart, and this hurdle is really difficult to cross, and it may take a while.
In fact, for other people's housework, it is good for others to eat melons, and random speculation will only bring unnecessary trouble to the parties.
But all of this may be the best arrangement, and the results are actually good now.
Yingda created "I Love My Home", in which Song Dandan played the classic role of "Peace", and their cooperation contributed a classic sitcom for everyone.
After the divorce, Yingda put his energy on his younger son, which created today's Yingrudi, making him a pillar of the country, perhaps if Yingda distracted a little energy, there would be no Yingrudi's achievements today.
Although Batuu lost the love of his biological father, he is fortunate to have a good stepfather, and the stepfather gives no less love than the biological father, so Batuu can thrive.
Although it seems that Batuu's achievements are not very ideal, but he has achieved it by his own efforts, and he is already better than many people.
Now the two families are very happy and happy, and their children are doing well.
In fact, when you encounter difficulties in life, you may wish to tell yourself: everything is the best arrangement. Because life always has to go on, give yourself some light and hope to have the motivation to continue to struggle.
Finally, I wish Ying Rudi and Batuu getting better and better in their respective fields.