Text/Little Snow Mom
As soon as the Lantern Festival passed, the hurried year was completely painted on the end, in fact, for most people, this year has long been over, the first seven and the first eight are working, but for children, the Spring Festival is still over after the Lantern Festival.
Speaking of the New Year, we can find that more and more post-00s are not enthusiastic about walking relatives, recalling that when we were young, the most excited thing was to walk relatives, there are delicious and fun, and now after 00 is too lazy to move, what is the situation?
After 00, there are a large number of "broken relatives", don't blame the children for being indifferent
Walking relatives as a traditional custom of the Spring Festival, for the post-80s is a habit engraved in the bones, all year round should see the relatives to see, the contact of the emotional contact, as if it is a conventional thing.
For the post-90s, the heat of relatives has dropped slightly, relatives who have a better relationship and more important relatives will accompany their parents, and relatives and parents who are not familiar with them will walk away, and they will no longer follow.
But for the post-00s, it seems that walking relatives is more like a form, except for those who can get the feeling of pressing the old money, it is necessary to walk, and the rest are not very enthusiastic or even some "no feeling". I even feel that if I have that time, it is better to go out with friends or play on my phone at home.
In this regard, there is now a new word called "broken relatives", which refers to the fact that the post-00s do not like to move around with relatives, except for the necessary direct relatives or relatives who are particularly close, other relatives simply do not bother to move around.
Don't blame the child for being indifferent, this kind of "pseudo" affection is not enough
In fact, it is not strange that the post-00s are not keen on going to relatives, the reasons for this situation are also multifaceted, there are reasons for the living environment, and there are also reasons for the post-00s to reject false human feelings.
First, settling in cities and moving around with relatives in their hometowns is becoming less and less
For many post-00s, living in the city since childhood, there are not many relatives with good relations, relatives in the hometown have seen once or twice a year, have not been together, and can not talk about how deeply impressed, some even a year has passed how to call can not remember, naturally children are not keen to go to relatives.
Second, I don't like to contact distant relatives who are "unprofitable and not early"
As a post-90s I loved to go to relatives when I was young, this gives the pressure money and the pressure money, although many relatives are not very familiar, but it is very happy to have the pressure money, and every time I go to the relatives, I urge my parents to hurry up.
And now the children after 00, most of them are only children, usually there are only a few relatives who have contact, like relatives who are relatively close to each other and usually do not have much contact, most of them have no feelings, generally everyone contacts are also there things to help, or it is "borrowing money", and this makes the post-00s very repulsive in their hearts.
Just like my cousin is after 00, usually like to study mobile phones, the hand is generally two mobile phones, one day a distant cousin sent WeChat to the cousin, saying that their children at home Online class, thinking about the cousin mobile phone to borrow more, in order to online class to buy a mobile phone is not worth it.
The cousin directly refused at that time, saying that the two mobile phones usually have to be used and cannot be given, and do not want the cousin to turn back and "chew the root of the tongue" with relatives, for which the cousin lamented that this kind of "unprofitable and early" relatives must stay away.
Third, ask this question at every turn and ask that annoying
There are also many relatives, after the New Year together, they like to ask this and that, every time they go to school are asked the city, the graduates will chase and ask "what job, how much money do you make in a month", mixed can be when relatives look for you to borrow money, mixed general relatives will say cool words: "Whose children are as old as you, how much people earn in Shanghai in a month", who will be upset when they listen.
Such words, presumably everyone has begun to be irritable when they see it, not to mention that there are marriage promotions and spawns behind, and when they meet this kind of relative, they really just want to avoid going, so as not to affect their good mood during the New Year.
The above "hypocritical" family affection is almost the reason why the post-00 generation is reluctant to go to relatives, and I feel that this kind of relative is not as good as the usual friend relationship.
The post-00s are more "realistic" about life
Through the post-00s around us, we seem to be able to find that this generation is living more and more self, whether it is ideas or lifestyles are more "realistic", and considering problems is more purposeful.
To tell a joke, when you are needed, "brother and sister" is called sweet, when you are not needed, you have long forgotten 108,000 miles, and now the post-00s are very "sober" whether in love or work, thinking about the problem is first of all to put their own interests first, which is obviously different from the post-80s and 90s.
This situation, on the one hand, and the post-00s are mostly only children, from childhood elderly parents are more pampered and related, most of them are more "self", there is a relationship with the development trend of society, after the brainwashing of Internet short videos, ideas are becoming more and more "real".
Of course, we say that the relatives who are close to each other and need to move around are still recommended to contact the children after 00, after all, our living environment still needs human warmth and cold, for those relatives who are farther away, the relationship is slowly broken, after all, generations of people have come this way.
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