01
We who are in love are like speeding on the highway.
It is like waving a cross to rob someone else's bride, full of courage.
"Love You're Right" sings:
We couldn't be wrong to fall in love with someone, just went a different fork in the road.
In parallel space-time, we are like two intersecting lines.
Because of fate, we met, but we can't always accompany you to the end.
Because the two lines that intersect will go farther and farther after they meet, until they can't see a shadow.
Desperate love is like a moth to a fire.
Like, is a thing for no reason.
Because I like him, I become unaware of myself and am willing to give everything for him.
Falling in love with a person who has no fate cannot be dissolved like thick ink.
She was as mysterious and beautiful as the evening night.
Obviously, I hadn't learned how to love people, but after meeting him, loving him seemed to become instinctive.
Not all love is a two-way rush, and it may be a unilateral payment.
The two people who have no fate, even if they give their lives, at most they are touched by each other.
But that's not love.
Two people without love, entangled, will only gradually complain with the passage of time.
In the end, even friends can't do it.
For the first time, it is better to let him keep his heart.
There is no right or wrong, no response to love, doomed to fate.
02
If you can't become a lover, then wish him all the best
In the world, there are too many unsatisfactory things.
Tagore wrote in The World's Most Distant Distance:
The most distant distance in the world is not that I stand in front of you, but that you don't know that I love you.
It's love to the point of insanity, but you can't say I love you.
The two of us are like the trajectory between the stars, even if they meet, but in the blink of an eye there is nowhere to find;
Fall in love with a person who has no reason, like dust and flowers, it looks up at the sky.
It has a limited flowering period and cannot be relied upon in the wind.
Since you can't get it, let the warmth of that place be stored in the memory, and keep its best appearance.
Let that little beauty become the lonely light of the night.
Truly love someone and don't force yourself to be a lover.
Retain the dignity between the two sides, wish him all the best, and let love be buried deep in the heart.
In "Journey to the West", the king of the daughter kingdom fell in love with Tang Monk at first sight, and Tang Monk had the mission of learning the scriptures from the Western Heavens.
The two are destined to be inseparable.
Because, the Tang monks have compassion for the Buddha's heart.
Therefore, the well-meaning queen was worried about the "false kissing and disembodiing plan" that the four masters and apprentices were about to carry out.
The king of the daughter country knew the mission of the Tang monk, but he still could not stop his love.
Because love is involuntary and uncontrollable.
What we have is just trying to avoid losing ourselves in love as much as possible.
The king of the daughter country did not let go of the four masters and apprentices because of love.
Instead, give them the most comfortable resting environment.
And give full support to his cause.
On their farewell trip, they will continue their farewell journey and personally send them out of the city.
This love of the king of the daughter country is doomed to not be answered.
The Buddha said that the monk should abstain from the seven passions and six desires, and her love is so deep and so short.
Loving someone doesn't necessarily mean having him.
Giving his choices, giving yourself the best wishes, is also a way to express love.
03
Feelings, because regret is more worth remembering
It is difficult to fall in love with one person, but it may be even more difficult to have two people who look like each other.
Once the emotions open the floodgates, they are like a flood of waves.
The person who loves to the bone marrow, even if they can't be together, has a very important place in the heart.
Feelings leave regrets, but also let the other party remember in their hearts.
People who can't help because of love can arouse the desire in their hearts even more.
If you get it, there is no freshness, and what you can't get is the most missed.
Just like Tang Wan to Lu You, knowing and loving each other but not keeping each other;
Just like Lin Hui is because of Jin Yuelin, I look at your background and silently bless your life;
Just like Ji Xianlin to Imgard, she paid her life to wait for him.
Feelings can touch people's hearts more because of regrets.
"How Much Do You Know About Flowers in Dreams" writes:
Some people will always be engraved in the memory, even if they forget his voice, forget his smile;
Forget his face;
However, the feeling whenever I think of him will never change.
This is also why the first love, we will feel that it is a very beautiful existence.
Because of love, because there is no reason.
Falling in love with someone who has no fate is doomed to not being able to be together.
The two are scattered in the vast sea of people, living their own lives, and there will be a trace of regret.
However, this is the love of most people in the world.
The affairs of life are really trivial.
Even if it is rock solid, it can smooth out the edges and corners under the wind and rain.
On the road to working together and entering old age, there are too many levels that we need to cross.
Some people who have no relationship cannot become lovers and will accompany each other in another way.
Most people, they will lose their voice of each other, as if they had never appeared in their lives, and never mentioned it again.