What if, when you get married, your birth parents don't want to be there? In 2014, Zhang Boyu's wedding was missing the figure of his biological father Zhang Fengyi, and his stepfather Sun Haiying took over all the work instead of him.
Why does Zhang Fengyi reject Zhang Boyu so much? Is it just because it was the child of her ex-wife Lu Liping? In the face of an unrelated stepdaughter, he can spend thousands of dollars and send millions of cars, why is he so indifferent to his own Zhang Boyu?
In 1988, Zhang Fengyi, who had achieved great success, used 50 yuan to marry Lu Liping back home as a wife.
When she was newly married, Zhang Fengyi also promised to let Lu Liping and the children who will be born enjoy a better life.
For this small goal, Zhang Fengyi worked very hard to shoot the drama and worked day and night.
And Lu Liping, who should have a promising future, was also relieved to retreat into the background, return to her family, and give birth to Zhang Boyu.
There is nothing wrong with the male and female protagonists. However, after Zhang Boyu was born, Zhang Fengyi, who had originally spoken of the oath of the mountain alliance and the sea, changed.
The life of gathering less and leaving more makes Zhang Fengyi's feelings for Lu Liping gradually fade, and Lu Liping, who runs the home outside the home, occasionally does not pay attention to her own image, which also makes Zhang Fengyi feel very distracting.
After only 3 years of marriage, less than seven years of itching, Zhang Fengyi was tired.
In 1991, he and Lu Liping officially divorced, and Zhang Boyu, who was only two years old, also lost his father.
At this time, Zhang Fengyi encountered "Overlord Farewell" that made his fame and profits a higher level.
People who have watched "Farewell to the Overlord" know that Zhang Fengyi played Duan Xiaolou in it, thin and unrighteous, on the stage is the mighty Chu Bawang, but when he got off the stage, he couldn't even compare to the bones of a woman.
In the film, Ju Xian, played by Gong Li, poured everything out for Duan Xiaolou, and she also understood Cheng Dieyi's feelings for Duan Xiaolou, so she did not hesitate to risk rescuing the sword that Cheng Dieyi gave to Duan Xiaolou from the fire.
In order to steal his life, Duan Xiaolou not only betrayed Cheng Dieyi, who was like a sibling, but also publicly denied that he had loved Ju Xian.
At that time, Lu Liping was like Ju Xian when she heard this sentence of "no love" in the film, probably her heart was like ashes.
Combined with reality, duan Xiaolou in the movie always feels more angry!
After the divorce, Lu Liping took her children to support her family while filming. Strength did not allow her to keep a low profile, and it didn't take long for her to easily win two trophies with "Youth Without Regrets" and "The Story of the Editorial Board".
In the same year that Zhang Fengyi starred in Duan Xiaolou, Lu Liping founded the Beijing Stars Performing Arts School in Beijing, from which li chen, Yu Zhen, Zong Fengyan and other stars came out.
Nine years later, 14-year-old Zhang Boyu also entered the art school founded by his mother, but all this was done without Zhang Fengyi.
In Zhang Fengyi's own words, when he heard on the phone that Zhang Boyu was also going to take the road of acting, it could be said that he was thunderous, and he also said that if Zhang Boyu insisted on doing so, he would not call him again.
At that time, the reason why Zhang Fengyi held an objection was still justified, he believed that Zhang Boyu should go to high school after graduating from junior high school, first expand his knowledge, and then go to college, and then it is not too late to enter the acting department at that time.
But later, Zhang Boyu relied on his own skills and was really admitted to the Central Academy of Drama, and he did not get Zhang Fengyi's other eyes.
Zhang Fengyi even openly disliked his son's appearance in the interview program, saying: "I think he has a bit of a problem with acting, that is, the image problem, he is not like me..."
This is said, no matter how bad you look, you are also your own child, and it is really good to bury it in public?
I don't know if Zhang Fengyi really has prejudices, or the emotional intelligence is too low, anyway, this sentence has to offend many people, the entertainment industry is not all beautiful women and handsome men, people Huang Bo is not also like taking the award to get soft?
As the second generation of stars, is it more happy or more stressful? In this year, parents who can't manage their children well in the entertainment industry abound, and Zhang Guoguo, who neglected his children's education for his career, began to be Jackie Chan who threw his hands from the birth of his son.
But there are so many unformed second-generation stars in this world, and Zhang Boyu, who was dumped by Zhang Fengyi to his ex-wife Lu Liping when he divorced, has always been on the right board.
In part, this is thanks to Lu Liping's later encounter with Sun Haiying.
When Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping became famous and married, Sun Haiying was still acting in dramas, although he held the iron rice bowl but it was difficult to give up the performance stage, he quit his job as soon as he was cruel, becoming the earliest batch of self-employed actors in the mainland.
When he really became famous, Sun Haiying was already 45 years old.
"The Years of Burning Passion" was a hit, and Sun Haiying, who experienced his wife running away from home and his son's unfortunate death, found Lu Liping.
Because I have lost, I cherish the person in front of me even more.
After marrying Lu Liping, in the face of the strange stepson Zhang Boyu, Sun Haiying did not say a word and regarded him as his own.
Lu Liping once said that Sun Haiying was not only kind to her, but also treated her family equally: "Because his love is particularly great, I say that he loves my children more than I do." ”
At first, Zhang Boyu did not accept this "stepfather" at once, but over time, he found that this man was indeed working hard to run the family, and it was always good to have a top pillar in the family.
Since having Sun Haiying, the important position of "Zhang Boyu's father" has been made up by his efforts over the years.
In front of outsiders, Zhang Boyu called Sun Haiying "teacher", but in private he always called him "Daddy". And Sun Haiying said: "You shout or not, saying that you don't call is also a father, you have to be worthy of the title of father." ”
After growing up, Zhang Boyu wanted to take the road of acting, different from Zhang Fengyi's singing and suppression, Sun Haiying personally taught his own skills, and also brought Zhang Boyu into the group together, wholeheartedly supporting his development.
To some extent, Sun Haiying, who has experienced half a lifetime of vicissitudes, may also see his past from the young Zhang Boyu. At that time, he was also repeatedly frustrated because of his unproblem appearance, but he survived, and he knew that there was nothing impossible in this world.
On Father's Day of a certain year, Zhang Boyu posted a long article on his social platform, thanking his biological father Zhang Fengyi and feeling grateful for Sun Haiying's companionship and encouragement over the years.
Leaving aside the controversies in Sun Haiying's own life, in terms of family, he has indeed been much better than many irresponsible people.
But Zhang Boyu once revealed his heart on the show, saying that he had been ridiculed for being inferior to Zhang Fengyi, and he couldn't help but dial Zhang Fengyi's phone, and even said that he felt that his birth was smearing his father.
All this stemmed from Zhang Boyu's desire to be recognized by Zhang Fengyi.
"Happy people use childhood to heal a lifetime, and unfortunate people use a lifetime to heal childhood." This is also zhang Boyu's words posted on his social platform.
If Zhang Fengyi hadn't turned around and left... It's a pity there are no ifs.
After he turned around, he turned the Sea Oath Mountain Alliance that had been promised to Lu Liping's mother and son into reality in others.
"Raising a son is not the same as adopting a daughter." This is Zhang Fengyi's statement when he mentioned that his attitude towards his son and stepdaughter is diametrically opposite, do you agree?
In terms of educational philosophy, it may be true that adopting sons and raising girls are different, but whether sons or daughters, they need love and encouragement from their parents.
Moreover, Zhang Fengyi's persistence in "raising a son must be like this" is a bit confusing, for example, in 2014, his son Zhang Boyu got married, and Zhang Fengyi, who obviously did not have any schedule to stay at home, was unwilling to attend.
On the interview program, even the host asked: "Why is it so difficult for your father to be so difficult to get married?" ”
But Zhang Fengyi Zhenzhen has a word: "Be low-key." ”
He not only openly disliked Zhang Boyu for opening 27 tables as extravagance and waste, but also said that Zhang Boyu had just graduated from nothing, and it was a bit too much to engage in such a big battle.
27 tables only, now the village meal may be more than this number, right?
Yes, you have a reason to be frugal, but then this is a bit of a catch-
Zhang Fengyi also said that every time he went to the wedding, the newlyweds would get divorced, so his son would not touch the mold when he got married.
Ah, this... Feudal superstitions must not be tolerated.
Before The previous Yingda divorced for 14 years and refused to see his son, claiming that the father-son relationship had been exhausted, and then Zhang Fengyi felt that he was a broom star and refused to participate in his son's wedding.
The entertainment industry is indeed very entertaining.
To be so strong to his son, to his stepdaughter, Zhang Fengyi is another face.
After the divorce that year, Zhang Fengyi met Huo Fan, a film fan, the two of them were open twice, Zhang Fengyi also loved the daughter brought by Huo Fan, even taking leave from the crew and buying a luxury car to make birthday gifts for his stepdaughter.
Zhang Fengyi once said: "I am a straight person, if I have to answer other people's questions in a very smooth or very official way." Sorry, I can't do it. As for what other people say, I don't care. ”
As he grew older, Zhang Fengyi gradually became less sharp, and would meet with Zhang Boyu to play ball or go to see his performance.
Perhaps they, as family members, are not exactly as bad as the outside world hears. But is belated justice, or justice? Is it too late for care to heal the pain of the past?
After the "Little Dragon Girl" East Window incident, Jackie Chan realized that Lin Fengjiao, who had been guarding for more than 20 years, was the best wife, but he also said that all he could do was leave her with a rich fortune.
Care and love are secondary.
After watching so many stories of celebrities and their attitudes towards their exs and children, they can only draw one conclusion, selfish people are always fearless and live well, because what they love most is always themselves.
There is nothing wrong with living for yourself, but people always feel cold and warm because of the existence of bonds, and life is really an unsolvable problem.
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