laitimes

Zhang Fengyi spoke out with tears: Son, Dad loves you

author:Old entertainment said stars

Click to follow and there are celebrity stories that move you every day!

Zhang Fengyi spoke out with tears: Son, Dad loves you

Zhang Fengyi stills

In November 2020, China's first emotional TV series that reflects overseas security, "Very Rescue", solemnly posted the official poster and will soon meet with the national audience. The famous performance artist Zhang Fengyi joined the play with great enthusiasm, and I wonder what kind of surprises and expectations this old drama bone will bring to the audience?

On September 21, 2014, Zhang Fengyi married Zhang Boyu, the son of his ex-wife Lu Liping, in Beijing. The stepfather Sun Haiying dressed up, while the biological father Zhang Fengyi was absent from his son's wedding.

This matter caused an uproar in the showbiz circle, and many netizens were upset about Zhang Boyu and posted messages attacking Zhang Fengyi. For this reason, Zhang Fengyi was labeled a "cold father". Is this really the case? Doesn't Zhang Fengyi even love his own son?

Zhang Fengyi spoke out with tears: Son, Dad loves you
Zhang Fengyi spoke out with tears: Son, Dad loves you

Young Zhang Fengyi

Zhang Fengyi was born in Changsha in 1956 in Bidian Town, Tanghe County, Henan Province. His father was a soldier, and his family moved to Yunnan, where Zhang Fengyi grew up.

He was obsessed with acting, and before he graduated from junior high school, he was recruited into the Dongchuan City Cultural and Labor Troupe in Yunnan Province as an actor. In 1978, Zhang Fengyi, who had been an actor for 6 years, was admitted to the acting department of the Beijing Film Academy. After graduating from university, he was assigned to the China Youth Art Theater and became a professional actor.

In 1988, Zhang Fengyi and the famous actress Lu Liping formed a family in Beijing, and the following year his son Zhang Boyu was born. In the eyes of outsiders, Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping are very compatible. However, due to personality discord, the marriage between the two is not harmonious.

Zhang Fengyi spoke out with tears: Son, Dad loves you

Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping

In 1991, when Zhang Boyu was two years old, Zhang Fengyi divorced Lu Liping, and his son lived with Lu Liping. On the day he dragged his suitcase away from home, his son walked up to Zhang Fengyi and said in a milky voice: "Daddy, eat, don't go." ”

Zhang Fengyi did not dare to look into his son's eyes, rushed out of the door, crouched in the corridor and cried. He knew that the divorce of his parents would bring psychological trauma to his son. As a father, the only thing he can do is to minimize the harm of his son.

After the divorce, Zhang Fengyi lived in the single dormitory of the unit. He often went to see his son and bought him milk powder and fruit. Zhang Boyu, who is not more troublesome, does not know that his parents have divorced, and every time Zhang Fengyi leaves, he has to send his father out the door: "Dad, you have to come back early on a business trip." Zhang Fengyi left with red eyes.

In 1994, when his son was 5 years old, Zhang Fengyi formed a family with Huo Fan, a young teacher at the Beijing Dance Academy. After remarrying, Zhang Fengyi still visited his son as often as before. Even Lu Liping said that although Zhang Fengyi was divorced, he still loved his son.

Zhang Fengyi spoke out with tears: Son, Dad loves you

Zhang Fengyi with his son

In 1996, 7-year-old Zhang Boyu entered the first grade of primary school. When he and his mother went to his grandmother's house for the Mid-Autumn Festival, his cousin said to him: "Your father is not on a business trip, he is divorced from your mother, and he has found you a new mother." Zhang Boyu didn't believe it, so he went to ask his grandmother. Grandma confessed the fact that his parents were divorced, and Zhang Boyu cried.

The divorce of his parents brought great harm to Zhang Boyu in his childhood. In his consciousness, it was his father who abandoned himself and his mother, and Zhang Boyu began to complain about his father in his heart. When Zhang Fengyi went to see him again, he acted very cold, and every time Zhang Fengyi left with tears.

Zhang Fengyi spoke out with tears: Son, Dad loves you

Zhang Boyu's childhood and adolescence, immersed in the sadness of his parents' divorce, he was unhappy, overeating, and sleepy. In 2002, Zhang Boyu went to junior high school, weighed 160 pounds, and became a small fat mound with limited mobility.

Zhang Fengyi spoke out with tears: Son, Dad loves you

Young Lu Liping

The doctor told Lu Liping: "It is dangerous for the child to be fat like this, which will cause various complications, and may be ruined when he grows up." Lu Liping relayed the doctor's words to her ex-husband on the phone, and Zhang Fengyi's heart was heavy.

At this time, it is the time when the son needs the father's love the most, and he cannot be absent. Early the next morning, Zhang Fengyi rushed to his ex-wife's house to take his son for a run. Zhang Boyu couldn't get up from bed, and Zhang Fengyi knew his son's weakness and said, "If you go for a run with your father every day, I will invite a few of your friends to dinner." ”

Zhang Boyu has several hardcore little brothers, everyone often plays together, and the feelings are very good. When his father said this, Zhang Boyu followed his father to run.

Zhang Fengyi and his son ran from the West Fourth Ring Road to the West Fifth Ring Road, a total of 7 kilometers. Zhang Boyu was panting, his legs were sore from exhaustion, and he sat paralyzed on the ground, and Zhang Fengyi carried his son home.

Zhang Fengyi spoke out with tears: Son, Dad loves you

Sun Haiying and Lu Liping

Since then, Zhang Fengyi often invited his son and his friends to dinner. Zhang Boyu followed his father to jog every morning. After more than a year of insisting on this, Zhang Boyu finally lost weight and returned to normal. Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping's mental loads were unloaded.

At this time, Lu Liping had already remarried with the famous actor Sun Haiying. Zhang Fengyi was worried that his son would be wronged, and often cleverly inquired about how his stepfather treated him. Zhang Boyu told the truth: "Sun Dad is very good to me, he does not quarrel with his mother. ”

It is his luck and his own luck to meet a gentle stepfather. Zhang Fengyi has mixed feelings.

Not giving his son a complete home has always been Zhang Fengyi's regret and guilt. He wants his son to study finance, and sending him to study abroad in the future is a kind of compensation for his son.

Zhang Fengyi spoke out with tears: Son, Dad loves you

Zhang Boyu

However, after graduating from junior high school, Zhang Boyu became obsessed with acting and insisted on entering the Qunxing Art School founded by his mother. Zhang Fengyi felt that his son's face was huge and his body was fat, which was not suitable for being an actor. However, Zhang Boyu did his mother's work, and Zhang Fengyi had no choice but to accept this reality.

In 2007, Zhang Boyu was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama to study acting. After graduating from university, he officially entered the show business circle. To be fair, Zhang Boyu does not have the handsome appearance of his father, nor does he have the superb acting skills of his mother, but is just an ordinary actor.

Over the years, under the recommendation of his parents, Zhang Boyu has participated in many film and television dramas such as "Emergency Department Doctor", "Life and Death Blood Charm", "Notes from the Tomb Robber", "New Editorial Story" and so on, but it has not caused any repercussions. Like many "star second generations", Zhang Boyu was also submerged under the aura of his parents.

Zhang Fengyi spoke out with tears: Son, Dad loves you

Zhang Fengyi

Zhang Fengyi also wanted to bring a red son, but Zhang Boyu still lacked heat. As a father, Zhang Fengyi looks very open, and it really doesn't matter if his son is red or not, as long as he is physically and mentally healthy and his life is stable, he will be satisfied.

Zhang Fengyi spoke out with tears: Son, Dad loves you

On September 21, 2014, Zhang Boyu and young actor Zhang Moxi held a wedding in Beijing. It is said that the father must be present when the biological son gets married. But Zhang Fengyi has concerns: first, he and Sun Haiying stand shoulder to shoulder at his son's wedding scene, and they will feel very embarrassed about each other; second, zhang Fengyi has attended weddings, most of the parties are divorced, and he is worried that his son will not be able to get rid of this spell.

Zhang Fengyi spoke out with tears: Son, Dad loves you

Zhang Boyu and his wife

Zhang Fengyi spoke out with tears: Son, Dad loves you

Sun Haiying and Zhang Boyu

Out of love and good wishes for his son, Zhang Fengyi chose to avoid attending his son's wedding. Ordinary fathers who do not attend their son's wedding will cause noise, let alone the famous Zhang Fengyi?

The next day, a number of media in Beijing broke the news that Zhang Fengyi did not attend his son's wedding. Subsequently, hundreds of media outlets across the country followed the hype. This matter has become a hot topic of public discussion, and many netizens have posted messages accusing Zhang Fengyi of being unkind and a cold father.

Some netizens questioned Zhang Fengyi: "Are you the biological father of your son?" How can you be so irresponsible? You didn't give your son a complete home, so why didn't you even attend your son's wedding? There is no cold-blooded father like you in the world. ”

Zhang Fengyi spoke out with tears: Son, Dad loves you

For a time, Zhang Fengyi was pushed to the cusp of public opinion. Many netizens have firmly attached the label of "cold father" to him. Zhang Fengyi felt tremendous pressure.

What hurt him even more was that he told his son the reason for not attending the wedding, but Zhang Boyu still had a heart knot. After that, Zhang Fengyi drank and communicated with his son several times, and Zhang Boyu comforted him: "Dad, it's all right, I can understand you." ”

But Zhang Fengyi found that his son had not really let go, and there were still knots in his heart, which made Zhang Fengyi feel sad. He didn't know when and what methods to take to truly untie his son's heart knot.

Zhang Fengyi spoke out with tears: Son, Dad loves you

In November 2020, "Very Rescue" entered the publicity period, and Zhang Fengyi was interviewed by the media. The reporter revived the old story, inquiring about their father-son relationship. Zhang Fengyi, who has always been tough, rarely moved in front of the media, and this time he spoke out with tears: "Where in the world is there a father who does not love his son?" Son, Dad loves you, not as cold as the outside world thinks. ”

Yes, father and son are connected. From childhood to adulthood, Zhang Fengyi has always been a fiery father to his son, and he can be called a responsible father. I believe that in the near future, my son will truly understand Zhang Fengyi and completely resolve the entanglement in his heart!

-END-

Original is not easy, please like and pay attention!

Read on