With the Winter Olympics in full swing, Gu Ailing gradually dominated the hot search list. In the final of the freestyle ski women's big jump, Gu Ailing won the gold medal, in many interviews, it is not difficult to find that Gu Ailing is a very optimistic and confident girl, although she is a mixed race, but it is a Chinese nationality.
In addition, she has a standard Beijing dialect and loves Chinese food. The growth of children is inseparable from the cultivation of parents, what is Gu Ailing's family like?
When it comes to Haidian mothers, perhaps we think of the overwhelming tutoring homework, mothers in Haidian District are very concerned about their children's academic performance, in addition to having to take classes in school, they will also help their children to report many extracurricular training classes, such as Olympic mathematics, etc., in addition to accompanying their babies to dance and painting and other extracurricular interest classes.
Mothers in Haidian District work hard every day, but they are real time management masters, taking care of their own lives and living at the same time, but also helping their children to make future plans. Many people admire such a mother in Haidian District, but after understanding Gu Ailing's mother, we know what is the ceiling of "Haidian Mother".
Gu Ailing's mother Gu Yan Benshuo is a senior student in the Department of Chemical Engineering of Peking University, in order to learn more professional knowledge, she once went to the United States to study, and after graduation, she stayed on Wall Street to work, which can be described as a real strong woman. In addition to her work, Gu Yan also actively cultivates her hobbies and interests, and is said to be a member of the short track speed skating team and a ski instructor during the Peking University period.
It is said that Gu Ailing's father graduated from Harvard University, but due to emotional discord, Gu Yan chose to divorce her husband and became a single mother living alone with her daughter.
Under the cultivation of Gu Yan, Gu Ailing became a real talented woman. In addition to winning the Olympic gold medal in one fell swoop, he is also a real academic bully. She was admitted to Stanford University with a high score of 1580, and in order to be able to get into the training of the Winter Olympics as early as possible, she worked very hard at the high school level, and eventually became the first person in the history of the school to graduate a year early in high school. In this regard, the principal of Gu Ailing once said that he has been teaching for so many years, and it is rare to see people who can grasp their learning and extracurricular interests so well.
In addition to her good academic performance and ability to ski, she also used her spare time to learn piano, ballet and vocal music, and she also enjoyed horseback riding, football, rock climbing, etc., and was almost an all-rounder. Nowadays, Gu Ailing seems to have become synonymous with the Winter Olympics, and in the streets and alleys we can see Gu Ailing's endorsement advertisements, such as Red Bull and Luckin Coffee.
What has this Haidian District mother Gu Yan done, and why did she raise her daughter so well?
1. Respect interests and hobbies
In an interview with the media, Gu Yan once said that she did not do something special, but only respected the interests and hobbies of the child himself. Whether her daughter likes skiing or archery, she chooses to support and respect herself. To tell the truth, I am not willing to let my daughter ski, because my life is in danger, but in the face of my daughter's interest, I still choose to respect. It is true that many parents nowadays often impose their own ideas on their children, but they forget that children and parents are independent individuals, and respect is the best way to get along.
2, do not combat creativity
If the child writes a typo, I believe that the first reaction of teachers and parents is to correct it. However, Gu Yan is a very special mother, she once publicly said that Gu Yan often wrote typos when she was a child, but she would never correct them, and she regarded her daughter's typos as a creative one. In order to cultivate her daughter's imagination and not to discourage her creativity, Gu Yan's approach can be described as sober in the world.
3. Actively give positive feedback
In the process of growing up, Gu Ailing felt the positive feedback of her mother to herself, no matter what she did, Gu Yan was always able to find the shining point as much as possible and praise herself. Many people say that it is difficult for single mothers to take good care of their children, however, Gu Ailing has publicly stated that he believes that his mother is the best mother in the world, and without his mother, he would not have the self he is today.
4. Lead by example
Gu Ai can achieve such achievements in the field of skiing, and his mother is inseparable, her mother Gu Yan is a ski enthusiast, she took her daughter to the ski resort when she was two years old. It is no exaggeration to say that Gu Ailing just learned to walk and learned to ski. In daily life, Gu Yan is particularly executive, saying what he says, and this kind of leading by example also drives Gu Ailing.
5. Cultivate the right values
Gu Ailing has been able to achieve today thanks to her mother's cultivation of her correct values. Gu Ailing has publicly stated that although he likes skiing, skiing is not the only one for him. She hopes that when she recalls the age of 17, what she really feels joy is that she enjoys the life she has chosen now. In Gu Ailing's heart, there is not so much competitiveness and deceit, she is just doing her best to enjoy her life.
No wonder Gu Ailing is so good, Gu Yan is a qualified good mother!