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In family education, many parents will instill the meaning of "ideals" in their children.
In the process of children's growth, they will also look forward to the future, set goals in their hearts, and it is a good thing to have ideals in life, but it is a difficult process to achieve ideals through realistic efforts.
Many times, there is a huge gap between dreams and reality, and what parents have to do is to help their children recognize reality, strengthen their dreams, and make the greatest efforts to achieve their ideals.
On the Internet, a photographer posted 6 comparison pictures of parent-child life, which have also become a model for family education: when dreams shine into reality, no one can succeed casually...
The upper body is ideal, the lower body is life, and 6 contrasting pictures let children recognize reality
The protagonist of the first picture is a girl wearing a crown.
On the upper body, she wears a pink princess dress, and behind her is a beautiful castle.
In the lower part of her body, the girl wore slippers and stood on a messy cement floor, the teddy bear in her hand was dilapidated.
The girl's dream is to be able to live a princess-like life, but the reality is that she is a left-behind child who lacks parental care.
But what does it matter? As long as you are firm in your dreams and work hard to move forward, every girl can live as she wants.
In the second picture, a father smiles slightly at the camera.
On his upper body, he wears a flying jacket, and behind him is a plane he is proud of.
In the lower part of his body, the father, with a wrench in his hand, was repairing a worn-out bicycle.
Although in real life he is just an ordinary car repairman, in his ordinary life, he has never forgotten that his ideal is to be a pilot.
From the car repairman to the pilot, there seem to be thousands of mountains and rivers in the middle, but the dream is that everything is possible.
The little boy in the picture below is also the epitome of thousands of Chinese children.
On the upper body, the boy wears a mask and wears Superman clothes and makes a very handsome move, at which point his ideal must be to save the world.
In the lower part of his body, the boy is wearing school uniform pants, and the textbooks under his feet are piled up into a hill, compared with the dream of saving the world, in reality, he is faced with only unfinished homework every day.
But perhaps only by reading well will you be closer to your dreams...
The fourth picture shows a mother and son, and the mother holds the child and smiles happily.
In the upper body, mother and son take a group photo on the Bund in Shanghai, with beautiful scenery behind them and a happy and warm picture.
In the lower body, her mother wore slippers to set up a stall on the side of the road, and the hardships of life never made her give up her vision of her dreams.
Some people said that it is precisely because of the unremitting efforts of the mother that they and their children have lived a happy life, so this picture is also called: the upper body is the present, and the lower body is the past.
The male and female protagonists in the picture below are a newlywed couple.
On the upper body, the two wore wedding dresses and suits and took a happy group photo in front of the beautiful castle.
In the lower part of their bodies, the bride and groom rolled up their trouser legs and stood in the muddy farmland toiling.
When the dream shines into reality, many people will have a gap in their hearts, but at the same time, they recognize life: if you want to achieve your ideals, you must be down-to-earth, and no one can succeed casually.
The protagonist of the last picture is a mother.
On the upper body, this mother is a modern girl dressed in a very fashionable dress, behind which are the brilliant lights of the big city and the beautiful night view.
In the lower half of her body, the mother rolled up her pants legs to guard a small vegetable stall of hers, and the vegetables and fruits at her feet showed a different look of life.
Although the ideal is very different from the reality, as an adult, she has never given up on her dreams...
In life, if the child's cognition of the future is too idealistic, parents may wish to use these 6 contrast charts to tell the child: the reality is very bitter, success is not easy.
But in addition, parents should use this to let their children understand that only by rationally recognizing reality and firmly surviving the most difficult stages can they make progress on the road of chasing their dreams, after all, no one can succeed casually.
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