Probably the most tiring thing in the world is to live a hypocritical life.
In fact, whether it is true or not, you will know it as soon as you open your mouth.
Don't think that you are really great, just understand that people don't say it.
People are mixed in society, and they need to tear off the mask of hypocrisy and be their true selves.
Therefore, it is better to break off friendships when you meet people who like to start chatting in the following ways.
01
The first: "I said it a long time ago, in the beginning..."
There are really very few people who are like gods, and there are really many people who are hindsight.
"Zhuge Liang in three parts of the world, Liu Bowen in the country and mountains." In my impression, from ancient times to the present, Zhuge Liang can know astronomy and geography, and Liu Bowen can know the next five hundred years.
Of course, the two masters are only very powerful in the legend, and it turns out that they are not omnipotent. Zhuge Liang could not support the Han Room, seven out of the Qi Mountains, and did not achieve the effect of "chasing deer in the Central Plains".
Liu Bowen entered the official field at a young age, but he has been mixed for more than 20 years, and there have been no huge achievements, and the atmosphere of the official field in the whole world cannot be changed by his own strength.
At the age of 43, Liu Bowen was imprisoned in Shaoxing. The history books record: "Weeping with anger, vomiting several liters of blood, and wanting to commit suicide." ”
Liu Bowen was 50 years old, only to follow Zhu Yuanzhang, and his life really rose.
What will happen to a person in this life, no one knows. If anyone knows, then he is just saying hypocritical things, and everything is just subjective assumptions.
I have seen a joke: three students who rushed to the exam saw a finger, they thought about it for a long time, and they didn't understand it. After the exam, they are enlightened, one person wins, one person does not win, together high school, together not in, no matter how to explain, it is "one", can not be wrong.
From this point of view, the end of an event is not a conclusion at the beginning, but your subjective assumptions control you. The judgment after the fact is nothing more than a justification, a pretext.
When you're around someone who says "when it was," you don't take it seriously. He's just analyzing after doing things for you, like an inexplicable "finger", erect, kaleidoscopic in it.
02
The second: "Another day, I..."
What day is another day? It's just a prevarication word.
I read a dialogue: a buddy asked a friend for help and asked for a thousand dollars.
The friend said, "Okay, give me the card number, and I'll call you another day." ”
After a few days, the buddies found that Kari had no money and called again to ask.
The friend said, "Oh, what's the matter, the signal here is not good, I'll call you back another day, and I'll have a good chat with you another day." ”
Schopenhauer once said: "Show off your talents, show off your shrewdness, but laugh at the stupidity and incompetence of others." ”
When someone says "another day" to you, don't take it seriously, don't think that there is a future day, you can dream come true.
If you are blamed again and again, you will be particularly uncomfortable, in this case, it is undoubtedly "chronic poisoning". When you are aware, the poison has struck the heart.
When you are real with people, others will secretly laugh at you - he just says it casually, and you are so serious.
03
The third kind: "You are the best person in my heart, really..."
Someone flatters you, not how good you are, but others are using "vicious" words to paralyze you.
If you're on the unit, be the boss, mix well. Then all the subordinates will applaud you, even if you make a mistake, some people will give you a thumbs up, indicating that you are "very wise".
A classmate of mine works for a company in Shanghai. On his forehead, there was a black mole, which was not very good-looking.
People in the company said that this is a rich mole, some people say that this is a rich mole, and some girls say that they really love this mole. It's weird, it's naked nonsense.
Advice is good for the ear. The person who is really good to you is the one who gives you a slap in the face, the person who points out your shortcomings. Those good words are really unreliable, like a trap full of grass.
To be a human being, you must save your body three times a day. Whoever touts you, don't be fluttery. How many pounds do you have, is it still not clear?
04
Fourth: "In the future, I will become such a person..."
There are still many things that make the face swollen and fat, but the face is fat, but the heart has become poor.
In the sketch "Selling Abduction", Zhao Benshan said as soon as he opened his mouth: "Shout what a big fool, come out to sell this thing today, don't call me a stage name?"
Flickering, can also be used as a stage name, Bo people smile, but also reflects how low their quality.
Zhao Benshan met Fan Wei and said, "You are a big boss in business. ”
The effect of touting can turn a good person into someone who needs to be on crutches. What logic is this? Although, the sketch is not life, but it is indeed a certain aspect of life.
When a person desperately pretends to be a "big god", he can really fool people - people who are more ignorant than themselves.
Perhaps, you meet a friend who makes a perfect plan and then pulls you in, saying that he can keep doubling his profits in the future. Come and go, you believe it, you are deceived.
What's the use of painting bread to fill your hunger? What does it mean for those who like to show themselves?
Don't talk to people later, talk about now. Life's problems, how to solve. Living in the moment is the most reliable.
05
Conclusion.
The philosopher Bacon said, "False friendship is like your shadow: when you are in the sun, it will follow you closely, and when you go to the shadows, it will leave you immediately." ”
Hypocrisy is like a fig leaf, covering up the original face, and the appearance is particularly fancy. When the fig leaf is lifted, you will find that inside is a bag of grass, a pile of dirt, a garbage pile.
People interact with each other, relying on feelings. Whoever is good to me, I am good to whom, if not, then I choose to go it alone.
As soon as he opened his mouth, he said, "At the beginning, another day, after that, the best", that is, to coax stupid people with three inches of uncorrupted tongue.
Forget it, hypocritical allies will make you fall, hypocritical friendships, vulnerable.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.