A few days ago, a video of a New Year's child giving a New Year's greeting to his grandparents in Kaifeng, Henan Province, went viral.
In the video, the grandparents are sitting on the sofa, holding the red 100-yuan bill in their hands, smiling, and the 3 grandchildren are standing opposite, ready to send New Year wishes to the grandparents.
After the beginning of the worship, the eldest grandson first said sonorously and forcefully, "I wish my grandparents good health and good luck!" "The eldest grandson was doing well and the whole family was satisfied.
Next, it was the turn of the second grandson, the second grandson was more handsome, he put his hands in his pockets, very confidently added another word to the brother, and said: "I wish my grandparents good health, good luck, and early birth of your son!" ”
Early birth of Takako? The grandparents sitting on the couch instantly broke their work, and the whole family was teased, but this little handsome guy did not know what was wrong. Netizens also laughed enough, praising the little boy's blessing words as "the most cattle in the whole network".
However, although the fairy tale of this little cute baby is indeed very interesting, sometimes the child often "frequently comes out with golden sentences", which is actually inappropriate, and the light makes the atmosphere awkward, and the heavy makes people feel impolite.
For example, during the Qingming Festival, some students sent blessings to the teachers "Wishing Teachers a Happy Qingming Festival", making the teacher cry and laugh.
Previously, there was a little girl who was pulling her father to ski, the scene was originally very happy, but the little girl casually said "like walking a dog", but it made her father's face turn blue and red, and she didn't know what to say to her daughter.
Language is an art, children's fairy tales are certainly interesting, but if parents do not guide them, let the children continue to maintain this way, one day the child will become "stunned", so parents should still pay attention to cultivating their children's language art from an early age.
Why do children "talk fairy tales"?
As children develop their language skills, they consciously imitate the way adults speak as their vocabulary increases.
Without the parents knowing, the child may be learning to speak to us, or learning the way other people around us speak, receiving a variety of information from the outside world, so that without seeking much understanding, it leads to the child's "colorful" language patterns, thus having the external performance of "fairy tales".
Just like the cute baby who blessed the grandparents with "early birth of a noble son" above, the child may have heard such a blessing on some occasions, although he did not understand its specific meaning, but knew that it was a positive blessing, so he said it during the New Year's greeting.
In addition, some parents may also find that as their children age, when their peers have spoken "head to head", their children still have no logic when they speak, and even often "make jokes".
The reason for this situation is often that there is a problem with the parents' education model, on the one hand, it may be neglectful of the cultivation of children's language ability, so that the child's vocabulary accumulation is insufficient, do not understand the basic meaning of some words, on the other hand, it may not teach children basic social etiquette, so that children regardless of the occasion of the "fairy tale", attracting the disgust of others.
Therefore, parents must not simply understand the child's "fairy tale" as cute, which may not be a big problem, but more or less explains the lack of children's language ability, parents should seize the opportunity to help children improve language ability.
Seize the opportunity to develop your child's language skills
Like the development of all children's abilities, children's language ability is also gradual, when we guide the education of children, the first thing we need to make clear is not to "promote seedlings", in the process of children's speech, neither blindly accuse children, hit their self-confidence, nor can they have too high requirements.
Secondly, when the child has the performance of "fairy tales", we are best not to use laughter to alleviate embarrassment, or as nothing happens, if the parents do not point out the problem, the child is often difficult to realize their own problems, resulting in misconceptions, mistakenly thinking that their way of speaking is correct, and making the same mistake next time.
When the child says something inappropriate in public, we can calmly deal with it, if it causes harm to others, let the child apologize to the other party, so that the child understands the specific meaning of the words and lets the child understand his impoliteness.
Finally, in the process of children's language ability development, we should also pay attention to the following points:
1. When the child has the desire to express, we must listen patiently and communicate with the child more;
2. When the child is unable to express himself clearly, avoid excessive interference and guide it appropriately;
3. When the child has obvious problems in expression, do not ignore, do not overreact, you can use rhetorical questions to make the child think, so that he realizes his mistakes.
Crooked Mom Conclusion:
The development of children's language ability is not an overnight thing, in the face of children's fairy tales, in addition to feeling interesting, we must also pay attention to guidance, start from an early age, strengthen education, and let children become a polite, expressive, articulate person.
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