Author: Guan Ruyi
"Dream of the Red Chamber" is an epic poem of the Jia family, in which the man is the backbone and the woman is flesh and blood, which enriches this storm.
In that feudal era, men at least had a way to go, but when a woman was born, she was doomed.
(1) Daughter of the Jia family
For the power of the family, Jia Yuanchun entered the palace as a concubine, and after disappearing for many years, he soared into the sky and became a noble concubine, shining all over the door. The good times did not last long, and he died inexplicably. Everyone speculated that the deep palace had been suffering for many years, and when they saw the sky breaking, it suddenly became dark.
For five thousand taels of silver, Jia Yingchun was married by his father Jia Pardon to Sun Shaozu, an enemy like a wolf. As brothers- Jia Lian and sister-in-law Wang Xifeng, they obviously had surplus money in their hands, but they watched As Yingchun enter the tiger and wolf's den. On the third day of the marriage and returning to the door, Yingchun told everyone for the first time that she hoped that someone could save her from the bitter sea of leaving the Sun family. But everyone's consolation to her is that when she marries, she should confess her fate. Yingchun, who had no way to ask for help, chose to confess his life and died in the Sun family, dying in the right years. This wood-like girl, even to death, never burned.
In order to preserve the grace of the Jia family, Jia Tanchun became the dry daughter of Princess Nan'an, and instead of Princess Nan'an's own daughter, she married overseas. At this moment, all of them chose to ignore it, and even rejoiced that the Jia family had a daughter who could be given as a gift, and could become a relative of the emperor and a county lord. They saw only the immediate benefits, and they did not care about the life and death of their daughter who was married far away. Maybe raise her for more than ten years, just to sell for the sake of waiting, selling for a highest price to thank her parents for their kindness.
Obviously, the Jia family has already fallen, but still thinking that one day, only a girl who has not left the cabinet, Jia Xichun, has become the best gift for surrender. Obviously, he has the highest status, but he is a widow and a widow. At a young age, I saw all the darkness and dirtiness, and even in order to maintain the superficial peace, everyone pretended not to know, and this prosperous world was stable. And the only way to get out of this great dyeing vat is to take refuge. But from a person, it has changed back to a person. For Xi Chun, it is no different. After all, in this world, what belongs to Xi Chun is nothing.
(2) A woman who marries into the Jia family
For the sake of the illusory mouths, for the sake of that chastity archway. The good girl of the Li family married into the Jia family, became Jia Zhu's wife, and became the eldest sister-in-law. Originally, Jia Zhu was weak and did not live forever, but it all became Li Feng's fault. Ben is the most innocent person, but he has become the one who carries the pot. Guarding the only bloodline, guarding the life of a look to the end, the only hope is that the son can get ahead. But ah, what is wrong with Li Feng?
For the alliance of the four major families, it was not enough to fill in a Wang family girl, and Wang Xifeng also married in. Obviously, his heart was for Jia Lian, but Jia Lian pulled into the house no matter how smelly the incense was. Those who seemed to be standing in front of them were actually all speaking for Jia Lian, and all the words inside and outside the words were that they had not given birth to sons, and women should not be jealous. In the end, he gave everything for the Jia family, but was abandoned by the Jia family. What is this life for?
As a successor, You Shitu has a scare identity, but he does not have any real power, and even can only watch the abnormal occurrence of the situation, but there is no way to reverse it. Whether it is the incest between the father-in-law and the daughter-in-law, or the entanglement of the brother-in-law and the sister-in-law, in addition to swallowing all the bitter water, it is laughter. Even because of the involvement of the grandfathers, the identity is gone, and the status is gone. What is the suffering of patience in this life?
(3) The monologue of Xue Baochao and Lin Daiyu
A bride who is overjoyed, carrying such a reputation, is destined to be pointed out. Obviously, he knew that Sister Lin and Baoyu had two hearts, but they still chose to marry for the fate of their parents.
Accompanying me was not my maiden, but Sister Lin's snow goose. It's like I robbed sister Lin of something, but what right do I have to refuse? It was sad enough, but the recovered Baoyu chose to become a monk, and it seemed that the living Baoyu chose to disappear in the world without Sister Lin.
And I just did what my daughter's family should do. If I'm wrong, the only thing I can blame is fate.
When my mother died, I left Kyoto only to ease my grandmother's feelings of missing my daughter, after all, at this time, only my grandmother had the same pain and reluctance as me. But the death of my father forced me to live in Jia Province for a long time. Since then, I have no more trees to rely on, no one in front of me, no one behind me.
Alone alive. Meeting Jia Baoyu made my withered heart begin to moisturize. Eventually the water flowed into a river, and after a cold winter, it froze into ice. That frozen world buried Jia Baoyu, who died in my heart on the day I married Sister Bao. I actually wanted to go back to Jiangnan, and the fallen leaves always had to return to the roots, but I didn't wait for that day.
I also died on the day Baoyu got married.
In my life, although my heart is cold and warm, my life is safe. If I could, I wouldn't want to go into Jaffa again. Let this fate stop at the time when it is just known. Some people, can not meet, but a kind of luck!
(iv) Not the conclusion of the conclusion
Flipping through "Dream of the Red Chamber", the prosperity and decline of glory and humiliation in it are all promoted by the Jia family boys, and if they enjoy this glory, they will have to pay for this glory for a lifetime. And the daughter of the Jia family, the woman of the Jia family, is like this.
They spent their lives repaying the kindness of the Jia family, but no one remembered...
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