Remember the "Wang Baoqiang Ma Rong" incident that shocked the entertainment industry that year? I think you will remember it vividly.
After the two divorced, the daughter was raised by Ma Rong, and the son was raised by Wang Baoqiang. Now the gap between the two children has gradually widened, and it is not generally large.
After Ma Rong's divorce, she posted various brand names on the Internet, such as bags, clothes, luxury cars, etc., and paid great attention to her daughter's external image, dressing her up very fashionably.
But her education of her daughter is a kind of material education, which is not conducive to the growth of children. Living in this environment for a long time, the child is easily influenced by her to become vain.
Let's take a look at how Wang Baoqiang educated his son. No matter how busy he is at work, he will accompany his son as long as he has time, and he attaches great importance to his son's education.
He respected his children's preferences, encouraged his son to develop in an all-round way, and cultivated him into an excellent child who was "proficient in eighteen martial arts", and netizens also expressed admiration.
In this comparison, it can be seen that the gap between children in different family environments is very large.
Although the parents' thoughts and behaviors are not directly related to the child, the parent is the child's first teacher, and his words and deeds will indirectly affect the child's growth.
therefore. Parents must correct their own values and regulate their own behavior habits, so that they can educate their children well.
What should parents do to educate the next generation?
1. Establish correct values and guide children's behavior habits
In order for children to establish a correct value, parents must first have correct thoughts and understanding, and then influence them with actions.
Values have an important guiding role in a person's behavior habits, correct values will play a positive role, and wrong values will hinder the development of children.
Therefore, parents should help their children establish excellent values, teach children how to distinguish between right and wrong, let them understand the importance of rules, and learn to be grateful, only in this way can they correctly guide their children's behavior habits and make them more excellent.
2. Create a harmonious family atmosphere for children
A harmonious family atmosphere is crucial to the growth of children, and only a harmonious living environment can bring them more love and thus allow them to grow better.
If the child lives in a conflicted family all day and does not feel the love of the family, it will not only become taciturn, but also affect the physical and mental development.
Therefore, parents must pay attention to creating a good living atmosphere for their children.
Do not quarrel in front of the child, learn to communicate peacefully, prohibit all forms of violence, etc., so that the child can be subtly affected in this good atmosphere and develop in a better direction.
Parents are a mirror for their children, and their values and behavior habits will affect them.
If you want your child to become better, you must take action, shape yourself, and set the right example for your child to help them grow up healthily.