I believe that everyone has heard the view of "raising sons poorly, raising daughters richly", and many parents may understand this sentence literally, thinking that the so-called "poor support" and "rich support" must fall on the material level.
Now that the living conditions are getting better and better, it is impossible for parents to deliberately "raise poor" children, so many parents will do their best to satisfy their children materially, but they do not pay attention to spiritual and psychological guidance and education, such "rich support" is obviously very wrong.
Because of her high appearance, the Korean little girl has won the favor of the rich in Dubai
Speaking of the extreme of "rich nourishment", it is necessary to mention a little Korean girl Brianna Yin who once had countless fans.
This little girl looks particularly beautiful, with a round apple face, a pair of watery eyes, and a vivid and flexible expression.
At a young age, she actually mastered four Chinese words, and in the face of many netizens, she was not afraid of the scene, and the milky children's voice made netizens shout directly: "I have been cute by her." ”
From the time the girl was very young, her mother would post her photos and videos on the Internet, and because she was too clever and cute, her appearance was quite high, and she was sought after by Korean netizens.
Slowly, the little girl's fame grew, attracting many foreign friends to like her. When the little girl was 5 years old, a rich middle eastern man accidentally saw her video and fell in love with her.
The rich man generously gave the little girl's family many expensive gifts, including luxury cars, luxury bags, jewelry, etc., and before long, the rich man issued an invitation, hoping that the little girl's parents could bring their children to Dubai for a vacation.
The little girl was adopted by the rich and now disappeared
Everyone was surprised that the plot that would only happen in this kind of TV series really fell on the little girl.
But what happened afterwards shocked netizens even more, after the little girl's family came to Dubai, the rich man was reluctant to let her leave because he loved the little girl too much, and directly proposed to adopt the child so that she could settle in Dubai for a long time.
The sincerity of the rich man impressed the little girl's parents, who accepted the request. Since then, the family has stayed in Dubai and become the guests of the rich family, and the quality of life has risen by many steps.
But such a move has caused doubts among netizens, and many netizens have criticized the parents for not doing their part.
In the critical period of the little girl's personality growth, her parents failed to educate her correctly, and also let her accept comments from the outside world prematurely, and let her immerse herself in the material world too early, which will have a lot of adverse effects on her future life.
Perhaps her parents also took this into account, after settling in Dubai, they rarely let the little girl appear online, but let her feel at ease to learn knowledge and improve herself.
Today, the little girl has disappeared on the Internet, but she still lives in Dubai, the rich still love her, and I think she will have a good development in the future.
The so-called "abundance" should focus on the spirit rather than the material
We don't have to be too envious of this legendary experience of the little girl, after all, such "rich support" is difficult to replicate, and education and raising children are not limited to material aspects.
Because the "rich" of "rich" actually refers not only to money and materials, but more importantly, to spiritual wealth. Only by satisfying the children's spiritual needs and paying attention to cultivating a perfect personality, noble moral sentiments, and good spiritual qualities can they truly grow up happily and worry-free.
This point is actually equally important for boys and girls, so we do not have to follow the concept of "raising sons poorly and raising daughters richly", and we should treat children equally.
So, how can we correctly "enrich" children?
1. Spiritual "Enrichment"
"Rich" is not to buy the most upscale brand clothing, shoes and hats for children, buy expensive toys, stationery, or prepare the most exquisite food...
Fu Yang focuses on the spiritual cultivation of children, so that children can form correct values and distinguish between right and wrong;
Fuyang should cultivate children's kindness and love, so that they can learn to repay those who care for and take care of themselves with love;
Fuyang should cultivate children's self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-motivation, so that they understand that they can get everything they dream of with their own hands...
2. Emotional "enrichment"
If parents can provide their children with very abundant materials, but they cannot give the children the most needed companionship and care, it is not really "rich", because the children's emotional needs have not been met, and the soul will leave regrets.
Therefore, parents should pay attention to their children's feelings, and usually take as much time and energy as possible to accompany their children and comfort their children, so that they can obtain a sense of security and satisfaction.
3. "Enrichment" in terms of knowledge
It is said that "there is poetry and bookishness in the belly", knowledge is a person's greatest "bottom", if the belly is empty, even if there are more materials, it will reveal shallowness and vulgarity between words.
Therefore, when we "enrich" children, we must also pay attention to letting them learn more knowledge in all aspects, so that they can increase their insights and broaden their horizons, so that they can get more real "wealth", are you right?