People have not been able to reach a consensus on the way children are educated, so there is a difficult scripture to read.
But in recent years, the idea that girls are rich and boys are poor has somehow become a classic, and more and more parents use this as a criterion to educate their children, but has it really succeeded?
Duoduo and Duoduo are a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses, after the birth of the two, the family will be particularly fond of their sister, delicious and useful will think of their sister.
However, there are some harsh and strict for Duoduo, whether it is education or life, it is a typical poor support.
Some people around them can't look down and let their mother treat their two children as fairly as possible.
But the mother said with a certain face that girls want to be rich, so that they will not be tempted by money when they grow up, and boys must be poor, so that they can be responsible and responsible.
The words of this mother of the dragon and phoenix must have spoken the voices of many parents who raised their daughters and poor sons.
However, many years later, the reality is cracking in the face, and the gap between the two dragon and phoenix fetuses is really obvious.
The older sister who was raised by the rich, because she was used to being a little princess at home, became selfish and domineering.
Even outside, children in the neighborhood are reluctant to play with her, and parents are far away from her.
The younger brother who was raised poorly, because he rarely received the love of his parents and family since he was a child, once thought that his parents did not love him, so he often had self-doubt, and his personality became cowardly and inferior, and he closed himself in a lonely small world.
What is true poverty and wealth?
1. Rich nourishment
Wealth is mainly concerned with the child's spiritual world, not how much money parents spend on their children.
True enrichment means making the child feel full inside.
For example, through learning, reading or traveling, children's horizons are broadened, the pattern is improved, and they become a person who is rich in the spiritual world.
2. Poor support
Poor support does not mean materially withholding children, not giving children good food, and using good use.
Instead, through the cultivation of children's will quality, children develop a healthy character of perseverance and not greed for money.
Parents should teach their children not to compare or show off, to face life with a normal heart, and to cherish everything they have.
How should parents properly raise their children?
1, let the child develop a correct view of money
If parents have the conditions, of course they can let their children live a better life.
But it is even more important for children to know that everything they enjoy now is the hard work of their parents, and every cent is hard-earned money, so that children know how to cherish money.
At the same time, parents should tell their children that there are many goals in life, and money is definitely not the ultimate goal.
If you want to have a quality life, then you must pay your own efforts to realize the value of your life, which is far more important than how much money you make.
2. Cultivate children's self-reliance and self-improvement ability
Whether it is poor or rich, parents must let their children know that the future road of life needs to be faced by their children alone, so they cannot rely too much on their parents, but must learn to be self-reliant and self-reliant, and be able to stand alone as they grow older.
Children's lives should be fought for by themselves, and when they are young, parents can give them good living conditions.
But once the child grows up, he must take responsibility for his own future, even if life is difficult, parents can not protect them forever, because they are the masters of life.