In October 2020, Yan Xuejing attended the wedding, and she spoke on behalf of her in-laws.
She said: I am Ma Mingdong's daughter-in-law Yan Xuejing, on behalf of a large family of people to bless the new people.
Many people are curious, is Yan Xuejing's husband not Lin Yue? They also have a son.
It turned out that Yan Xuejing and Lin Yue had been divorced for many years, and she remarried with her son.
However, Yan Xuejing and Lin Yue are still friends, and she also treats her stepdaughter as her own daughter, and does not forget to take care of her stepdaughter when she remarries.
Yan Xuejing and her stepdaughter got along into a good story.
Yan Xuejing, born in 1972, to a rural family in Liaoyuan, Jilin Province.
Both parents were rural and made a living by farming.
When children in the village come home from school, they have to go to the field to help their parents, and Yan Xuejing is no exception.
The difference is that the other children are active in helping out, and she doesn't like to do farm work, but likes to sing.
Yan Xuejing often worked in the field for a while and sang.
People in the village believe that Yan Xuejing did not come out, and although the parents said they did not support it, they supported their daughter in action.
When Yan Xuejing was 13 years old, her parents found a relationship and let their daughter enter the Weijin Small Theater Troupe to study.
Although she is not optimistic, Yan Xuejing does not care, and seizes the opportunity to learn from her predecessors in the troupe, singing from "bottoms" to "tops" and getting the opportunity to perform on stage.
The regiment could no longer satisfy Yan Xuejing, and she signed up for the local drama department of the Jilin Provincial Opera School.
In 1990, Yan Xuejing got the admission letter of the school of her choice, and the whole village looked at her with admiration.
After graduation, Yan Xuejing was assigned to the Provincial Armed Police Force Cultural and Labor Troupe, and later went to work in the Jilin Opera Troupe.
Careers are booming, and love is also developing in a good direction.
In 1991, Yan Xuejing met Lin Yue, who was 10 years older.
Lin Yue is the boss of Liu Laogen's big stage, likes to turn between the two, and Zhao Benshan is a friend.
Because Yan Xuejing sang the two people turned, Lin Yue liked it very much and took the initiative to make friends with her.
Lin Yue told Yan Xuejing: If you need help at work, you can tell him.
Later, Lin Yue and Yan Xuejing often played together, and Yan Xuejing's performance must have Lin Yue's figure under the stage.
Their relationship changed from friend to love.
Lin Yue has a relationship and lives with a daughter.
Yan Xuejing, on the other hand, is overwhelmed by love, does not mind that he has had a marriage, and is willing to treat his stepdaughter as if she were his own daughter.
Yan Xuejing introduced Lin Yue to his parents, and unsurprisingly met with opposition.
Yan Xuejing's parents are rural people, and they only hope that their daughter will find an honest person to marry and have children. It's okay to be divorced, mostly with a child.
It is said that the stepmother is not good, and the parents do not want their daughters to get married to suffer hardships and sins, forcing their daughters to break up.
She did not listen to her parents and insisted on being with Lin Yue, so that the relationship with her parents was frozen.
At Yan Xuejing's insistence, the parents compromised and agreed to yan Xuejing and Lin Yue's marriage.
Lin Yue's daughter, Lin Aoxue, liked Yan Xuejing very much and had long urged her father to marry Aunt Yan Xuejing home.
On the day of the wedding, Lin Aoxue was very happy that he finally wanted to have a mother.
Since his parents divorced, although Lin Yue gave his daughter the best life, the missing maternal love could not be repaired.
The appearance of Yan Xuejing made Lin Aoxue feel maternal love in her, and the two got along like a biological mother and daughter.
Before Lin Yue and Yan Xuejing got married, Lin Aoxue had already opened his mouth to call his mother.
Yan Xuejing was very touched and married Lin Yue more firmly.
After marriage, Yan Xuejing's family handled it well, and the relationship with her stepdaughter was as good as ever.
Usually at home, Yan Xuejing takes great care of her stepdaughter's emotions, and as soon as Lin Aoxue is unhappy, she takes the initiative to ask what happened and help her stepdaughter solve the problem.
Sometimes, she would also sing a duo to her stepdaughter and make her happy, as if Lin Aofei was Yan Xuejing's biological daughter.
Perhaps Yan Xuejing is just in her early twenties, and the difference between her and her stepdaughter is not very large, and it is particularly easy to understand her, resulting in a further relationship.
Later, Yan Xuejing became pregnant, and Lin Yue was very happy, and she was more worried that Lin Aoxue could not accept her brother or sister, afraid that she would misunderstand that she was robbing her parents.
Yan Xuejing talked to her stepdaughter very solemnly about this matter, and the stepdaughter did not refute it, and was happy that she would give birth to a sister or brother for herself, so that she could have a companion.
With this sentence of the stepdaughter, Yan Xuejing relaxed a lot, stopped working during pregnancy, and raised a fetus at home.
The stepdaughter is also very sensible, will accompany her to solve problems, will take care of her.
In the past, Yan Xuejing did not let Lin Aoxue work, and pregnancy was the same, but she knew that her mother's body could not have an accident, so she took the initiative to undertake housework.
Yan Xuejing was very relieved to see the scene in front of her.
Throughout her pregnancy, accompanied by her husband and stepdaughter, she had a very happy life.
In 1993, 21-year-old Yan Xuejing successfully gave birth to a big fat boy, and Lin Yue and his daughter Lin Aoxue were very excited.
After the birth of her son, Yan Xuejing took care of the family while working.
At home, she focused on her stepdaughter, afraid of giving her less love. If a son gets into trouble with his sister, she is talking about her son.
Lin Aofei suspected that Lin Aoxue was Yan Xuejing's biological child.
In her career, with the help of her husband Lin Yue, she knew Zhao Benshan and began to sing duos with him and perform sketches.
When Yan Xuejing entered the film and television circle, she got the help of Zhao Benshan, and her career was booming.
In 2001, Yan Xuejing participated in "Liu Laogen", which became a hit.
Yan Xuejing's work became more and more busy, and the affairs of the family after entering the group for three or four months could not be managed, and fell on Lin Yue's head.
The two are still life education, so that Lin Yue is busy.
Lin Yue also has his own work to be busy, sometimes he can't take care of it, Yan Xuejing will quarrel when he comes home and sees some messy things.
Later, Yan Xuejing and Lin Yue's lives were only endless quarrels, and slowly the two people quarreled over their feelings.
Lin Aoxue had already lost her mother once, and this time she didn't want to lose it again.
Hearing her mother arguing, she went to ease the relationship between the two, but there was no decision.
In the end, Yan Xuejing and Lin Yue decided to divorce, and Lin Aofei could not accept it after knowing it, and collapsed and cried.
She asked her parents: Do you have to go this far? Is there no other way? Neither Yan Xuejing nor Lin Yue spoke, but shook their heads silently.
Yan Xuejing was also very sad in her heart, but she pretended to be strong and comforted her stepdaughter Lin Aoxue: I am divorced from your father, it does not affect our feelings, I have always been your mother.
Lin Aoxue's heart was warm when she heard these words, and she trembled and shouted: Mom! Yan Xuejing agreed and cried with her daughter.
After completing the divorce procedures, Yan Xuejing took her son to move away from the place where he had lived for more than ten years, taking away two people at once, Lin Aofei was very reluctant and sent them away with tears.
And Yan Xuejing also left home with tears, and she was reluctant to stepdaughter, and she often contacted her after saying a word.
Yan Xuejing left with her son, and Lin Aoxue stood in the same place crying until he lost his voice, and at that moment it was as if the sky had fallen.
Although Yan Xuejing told her that she was still a mother and daughter, after all, she was not biological, and she was afraid that there would be no contact again.
Yan Xuejing is not such a person.
After the divorce, Yan Xuejing and her son Lin Aofei lived in a new place.
She told Lin Aoxue the new address at the first time, and told her to come to her mother when she had time.
Lin Aoxue, who received confidence, was very excited.
And as soon as she has time, if Lin Yue is busy, she will go to Yan Xuejing's mother to live for a few days, eat with her, and go shopping together.
Yan Xuejing and Lin Aoxue's feelings are as deep as the sea, they are completely a family, and outsiders think that the two are biological mother and daughter.
Lin Aoxue was influenced by Yan Xuejing and also liked to perform.
Yan Xuejing supported her stepdaughter to shoot a drama, and also personally introduced resources to her stepdaughter and took her to shoot a scene.
Later, Yan Xuejing met love again. This time she was much more low-key.
When you get married, you only notify your friends and relatives. The stepdaughter Lin Aoxue was happy for Yan Xuejing.
Before getting married, Yan Xuejing told her husband that after marriage, she should also be good to her stepdaughter, and her husband was willing to treat her stepdaughter and son as her own children, and it didn't matter if she didn't have her own children.
Yan Xuejing was very touched, which firmly married his heart.
After marriage, Ma Mingdong also liked Lin Aoxue and Lin Aofei, taking them out to play when he was fine, and also letting his stepdaughter live at home.
Lin Aoxue lived with them, like Lin Yue was an outsider.
The family of four went out to play, but Lin Yue was alone at home.
From beginning to end, Lin Yue did not participate in the relationship between Lin Aoxue and Yan Xuejing, and even felt that this was very good for his daughter.
After all, divorcing her mother has already hurt her daughter, and she can't let her daughter be hurt twice.
Lin Aoxue is also very sensible, knowing that Yan Xuejing's mother has a new family and will not be disturbed too much. If her mother and husband were busy, they would help take care of their brother.
In 2016, Yan Xuejing was 45 years old, married to Ma Mingdong for many years, and has never had children of her own.
But that day, she was unwell, her heart was broken, she went to the hospital for examination, and she was pregnant as she thought.
Yan Xuejing's birth at this time is already considered an elderly mother, and she already has two children, and it is stressful to have one more child.
When she got home, she discussed with her husband what to do. Ma Mingdong did not give a clear answer, saying to listen to the child.
Yan Xuejing called her son and stepdaughter to her side and told them about it.
Lin Aoxue and Lin Aofei were quite surprised.
As an older sister, Lin Aoxue spoke: Mom, you are also older, and it is not good for your health to regenerate children. Lin Aofei echoed his sister.
But they decided that if they let their mothers give birth, they would help them take care of the children.
Yan Xuejing was very touched and decided to give birth to the child, and a few months later her daughter was born.
Lin Aoxue is afraid that Yan Xuejing is tired and will help take care of the children.
When her sister grows up, Lin Aoxue also has her own life, but she often contacts Yan Xuejing's mother and goes home to visit them when she is fine.
When the family is free, they will go out to travel together.
As a stepmother, it is not easy for Yan Xuejing to do this, she is a great mother.
As the saying goes: stepmothers are not good, stepmothers are terrible. Yan Xuejing completely broke this point.
Stepmothers and stepdaughters can also get along like biological mothers.