In 2018, 46-year-old Yan Xuejing risked an advanced maternal age and gave birth to a second daughter.
As soon as the news came out, not only netizens, but even uninformed colleagues and directors were startled.
Moreover, in the early stages of pregnancy, Yan Xuejing also discussed with her stepdaughter and son: "Do you want to keep this child"?
So here's the question:
It is indeed excusable to discuss this matter with her son, but why does Yan Xuejing still have to seek the opinion of her stepdaughter?
Is it the harem that is difficult, or is there something else hidden?
The family is not short-lived, and has become the leader of the troupe
In 1972, when Jilin was still immersed in the joy of the New Year, Yan Xuejing was born.
The father looked at the white snow and ice outside, and then looked at his daughter in the swaddling, so he took the word jing for her.
Because she was the first child, her parents loved her very much.
Yan Xuejing liked to sing since she was a child, and her voice was clear and pleasant.
And extremely talented, the song on the radio is played several times, Yan Xuejing can learn.
Without a stage, her parents are Yan Xuejing's most loyal audience.
Unfortunately, Yan Xuejing's parents are ordinary farmers.
The daily work facing the loess with its back to the sky can only provide a family with barely enough food and clothing.
Therefore, he could no longer take out the extra money to send Yan Xuejing to a professional school to study.
In addition, Yan Xuejing's leisure time, like other children of the same age, also helps the family to do farm work.
Once, Xiao Yan Xuejing followed her parents to work in the cornfield.
When applying fertilizer to corn, my arm was accidentally cut by many small wounds by corn leaves.
At first, Yan Xuejing did not care.
But as the sun rose, Yan Xuejing sweated profusely, plus there was still some fertilizer sticking to his body.
Therefore, the fertilizer rushed to the wound along with the sweat, which was undoubtedly pouring salt on the wound.
For a moment, Yan Xuejing grinned in pain.
Xiao Yan Xuejing angrily threw down the fertilizer bag and ran back home.
After rinsing with water, the pain is reduced.
That night, she gambled that she did not help her parents prepare meals early, and even slept heavily for an afternoon.
Watching her mother, who had been tired for a day, drag her tired body to cut vegetables in the kitchen, Yan Xuejing's heart was full of guilt.
When I got out of bed and put on my shoes and went to the kitchen to help my mother, I found that my mother's arm was covered with the same small wounds as her own.
At this time, a feeling of guilt and regret suddenly emerged.
While washing vegetables, Yan Xuejing thought: "I must make good money so that my parents can live a good life."
After becoming famous, she did exactly this, not only taking her parents to the city to enjoy the blessings, but also busy with her two younger brothers.
Her two younger brothers were very touched when they mentioned this: "We can live a good life thanks to my sister".
"She's our sister, but she's more like our mom."
But that's all a story.
In 1985, 13-year-old Yan Xuejing came to her hometown to study in a small theater troupe.
Because she is in the period of voice change, Yan Xuejing's voice is not as clear as before, and it is often unstable.
In order to get paid for the early stage performance, people hang their voices for an hour, and she hangs for an hour and a half.
Obscure lines that people could not remember, she walked and sat on the ground and tried desperately to memorize them.
After this effort, it was finally upgraded from "bottoms" to "tops".
As long as you can say the name, there is nothing she can't sing.
Even the regimental commander couldn't help but sigh: "I've never seen such a desperate little doll, just a drama rake."
He couldn't help but look up at her.
In 1989, after leaving the troupe, she was admitted to the Opera School.
The two turn queen, and the corner meets love
In school, because of her peugeot and experience, the teacher felt that she was a good seedling to learn to turn between two people.
He strongly recommended Yan Xuejing to learn the two-person transfer.
And Yan Xuejing also lived up to expectations, in the three years of study, when representing the school out of the competition, have won a high honor.
Slowly, in the northeast where the two-person turn was prevalent, Yan Xuejing became famous.
In 1992, Yan Xuejing graduated.
Because of her excellent performance during her school years, Yan Xuejing came to the Xiqu Troupe and became a professional duo actor.
It was also in this year that Yan Xuejing, who had just turned 20, met Lin Yue during a duo transfer performance.
At that time, Lin Yue was the head of Liu Laogen's big stage, and he would also go to watch the duo's performance in his spare time.
On that day, Lin Yue rose on a whim and went to watch the performance.
It doesn't matter, Yan Xuejing, who is 10 years old, actually confused Yan Xuejing on the stage and couldn't take his eyes off.
Mature typhoon, beautiful voice, coupled with a young and beautiful posture, Rao is any man who looks at it will boast.
After Yan Xuejing finished performing, Lin Yue followed him to the backstage.
At first, Yan Xuejing only thought that he was bored to have fun, and did not know that he was looking at himself.
After all, Lin Yuedu is already married for the second time, and he also has a daughter with his ex-wife, Lin Aoxue.
However, in the future exchanges, Lin Yue slowly expressed his admiration.
Yan Xuejing also couldn't resist the beauty of the mature man, and gradually paid his heart to Lin Yue.
After Yan Xuejing's parents learned that the two were together, they tried their best to obstruct them.
Whether it is in terms of age or status, the two are very incompatible.
But Yan Xuejing was fascinated by five mysteries, and he would still listen to advice.
He even changed his previous filial piety posture and quarreled with his parents: "I will not marry him"!
In this way, the parents saw that they were powerless to return to heaven, so they let Yan Xuejing do it himself.
A few months later, Yan Xuejing and Lin Yue held a wedding as they wished.
Yan Xuejing, who became Liu Laogen's boss wife, is naturally indispensable to the support of her husband.
On the stage of your own play, it is necessary to get the wind and the rain to get the rain.
1999 can be described as Yan Xuejing's harvest year.
Because of his outstanding performance in "Three Please Fan Pear Blossoms", he appeared on the Mid-Autumn Festival Gala of CCTV.
At the end of the year, it also appeared on the Spring Festival Gala stage.
At that time, the Spring Festival Gala was like a news broadcast, and when it was time to broadcast, the whole family would sit around in front of the TV and wait.
It is conceivable that Yan Xuejing, who has been on CCTV twice in a row, should have a great reputation.
Not only that, Yan Xuejing has also become one of the "four famous dans" in Jilin Province.
The following year, Yan Xuejing also performed a skit on the Spring Festival Gala stage for the first time.
But Yan Xuejing did not forget the two-person transfer, and participated in the two-person transfer competition held by Zhao Benshan Company in the same year.
He won the championship in one fell swoop and has intersected with Zhao Benshan since then.
Later, when Zhao Benshan was planning to shoot "Liu Laogen", he first thought of Yan Xuejing.
This was her first electrocution, and since then, Yan Xuejing has begun a long journey into the film and television industry.
Being a little mother at a young age, there are bittersweet and sweet
After riding the wind and waves in his career and achieving success, life joked with Yan Xuejing.
Choosing a second marriage, the husband Lin Yue, means choosing to become the stepmother of her husband's daughter.
It was only Yan Xuejing who agreed, but Lin Aoxue did not agree.
In order to make her daughter better accept Yan Xuejing, Lin Yue told her daughter: "This is your mother."
At first, Lin Aoxue agreed to it in disbelief.
But in the school, the students are passing on: "Lin Aoxue her father found a little stepmother for her",
"With a stepmother, it is equivalent to having a stepfather, look at it, Lin Aoxue does not know what suffering he will suffer in the future."
Listening to the rumors in the school, Lin Aoxue, who had a hard time accepting the setting of "kissing mother", was nailed in place by the "stepmother" of a sound.
As soon as Lin Aoxue returned from school, he rushed home with his school bag and questioned his father and Yan Xuejing.
Seeing that Lin Yue and Yan Xuejing were dumbfounded, Lin Aoxue had the answer in his heart.
Since then, Lin Aoxue has "hated" Yan Xuejing.
Fortunately, Yan Xuejing is not stingy, even if Lin Aoxue is not friendly to himself, Yan Xuejing does not care.
In order to make Lin Aoxue accept himself faster, Yan Xuejing did everything in his power.
The mother and daughter often stood on one front and "confronted" Lin Yue.
What Lin Aoxue asked, she also tried to meet as much as possible.
In life, Yan Xuejing transformed into a mentor and friend, and stepped into Lin Aoxue's heart step by step.
It is said that children are the most clearly distinguished between good and bad, and Yan Xuejing's efforts Lin Aoxue are all in his eyes.
Not only did he accept her, but he also took the initiative to call out "Mom".
A year after marriage, with lin Aoxue's consent, Yan Xuejing gave birth to a son, Lin Aofei.
In order not to make her daughter sad, Yan Xuejing has always been partial to her daughter.
Sometimes Lin Aofei told her mother about her sister's complaint, and Yan Xuejing would not scold Lin Aoxue.
Instead, he jokingly said to his daughter:
"How can you make your little brother bully?" If he's going to bully you, you're going to beat him up."
If her daughter really makes a mistake, Yan Xuejing will talk to her daughter like a friend.
Calmly help Lin Aoxue correct the mistake.
I know that Lin Aoxue is introverted and does not like to talk, but in fact, he is very sensitive in his heart.
Every time she came back from filming, Yan Xuejing would first hug her daughter and leave her son hanging aside.
Once, Lin Aoxue achieved very good results in school exams.
Yan Xuejing happily went to the store to buy her a very beautiful school bag and some learning tools.
Lin Ao saw the situation and felt jealous.
He went up and snatched the bag from his sister's hand.
Hearing his mother's obstruction, Lin Aofei also made the bad put the bag on the ground and stomped a few feet.
In the face of her son's unreasonable teasing, Yan Xuejing was very angry.
But instead of hitting her son, she asked him to twist his thighs.
Twist until it turns purple, and if it doesn't, it's up to her to twist it.
It is worthy of being a "tiger mother".
Under Yan Xuejing's strict discipline, Lin Aofei never did anything unreasonable again.
And the daughter also felt the care of her mother.
In an interview, Lin Aoxue took the initiative to say: "I feel that my mother is better to me than to my little brother."
After groping out the way to get along, Yan Xuejing was at ease between the two children, and the life of mother and son was happy and harmonious.
Married to a wealthy merchant for the second time, she gave birth to a daughter at the age of 46
It's just that happy times are always short-lived.
The marriage with Lin Yue lasted for 20 years, and the two did not come to the end in the end.
Because Yan Xuejing often socialized, she wanted to take her husband with her.
However, Lin Yue did not like this occasion, and in the long run, the husband and wife did not have the passion of newlyweds, and the common topic became less and less.
Until the end, the two parted ways.
After the divorce, Yan Xuejing and her stepdaughter got along like sisters and kept in touch for many years.
After her daughter worked, Yan Xuejing also took her daughter to shoot "Li Niang Tian Xiaocao".
Although Lin Aoxue had studied acting, he was a bit unfamiliar because he entered the TV station after graduation.
Yan Xuejing thoughtfully helped her daughter relieve the pressure and instructed her how to act.
There is a scene in the play where Lin Aoxue wants to confide in Yan Xuejing's bedside when Yan Xuejing is seriously ill and bedridden:
"Oh Lady, you are about to wake up",
"I always thought I didn't have a mother when I was young, but now I understand that you are better than my mother."
"You're about to wake up, I haven't called you Mom yet"!
Lin Aoxue naturally cried, causing everyone present to cry.
This may also include Lin Aoxue's own voice.
In the days that followed, Yan Xuejing was always regarded as a role model by Lin Aoxue.
Whether it is in life or work, I am learning from Yan Xuejing.
They all said that it was difficult for her to do it, but here in Yan Xuejing, she did not embarrass her.
However, Yan Xuejing, who lived alone with her son, suffered a lot.
In order to earn money to support her family, but also for her own career, Yan Xuejing has no time to take care of her son.
Neglecting to accompany him since childhood has made his son more and more strange to himself.
When the son is adolescence, the mother and son often talk to each other.
Whenever this time comes, Yan Xuejing is very sad.
However, Yan Xuejing thought that because she owed her son, it was because of this.
He no longer had the courage and confidence to argue with his son.
Unable to think of a way to make up for it, she could only use a better material life to make her son live better.
Fortunately, Lin Aofei did not take a crooked road because of this.
It's very kind and sensible.
After the divorce, after the introduction of friends, Yan Xuejing met Ma Mingdong, who was married for the second time.
As soon as the two saw each other, they soon entered the palace of marriage.
At the age of 46, Yan Xuejing became pregnant again.
Once, Yan Xuejing was filming in the crew and suddenly felt uncomfortable.
I thought it was just stomach pain, so I took some stomach medicine and didn't take it seriously.
It wasn't until I went to the hospital for a check-up that I realized I was pregnant.
When she learned that she was pregnant, she immediately found her eldest daughter and son, and the three of them held a small meeting together.
However, the daughter and son gave different opinions, which made Yan Xuejing fall into a tangle again.
The son said, "You can discuss it with Uncle Ma."
"Or you just want to stay",
"If you have a son, it's my brother; if you have a daughter, it's my sister."
In the end, Yan Xuejing decided to give birth to a second daughter, Yuanyuan.
Three children and one mother
The three children all have a good relationship with Yan Xuejing.
When Yan Xuejing gave birth to her daughter, the eldest daughter also had a child, which can be described as a double happiness.
Yan Xuejing, who was also a mother and a grandmother, smiled and closed her mouth.
In order not to let her daughter be like her son, she was estranged from herself, so she took her daughter with her when filming.
Now the son is also married, and he has also entered the entertainment industry and inherited the mantle of his mother.
When participating in "Mother and Uncle", he came to prominence because of his role as a silly old third.
In fact, when Lin Aofei was just about to enter the group to shoot a scene, Yan Xuejing once told the director:
"If he acts well, leave him and give him a chance to exercise; if he is not good, let him go, don't affect the whole play."
Unexpectedly, Lin Aofei's performance was very outstanding.
After watching it, the audience said: "I thought that the third was really stupid, I really didn't see that it was acted."
The director also happily sent a message to Yan Xuejing to report on the results of this battle.
It is true that the tiger father has no dogs.
The younger daughter inherited her mother's good voice.
Connected with Sister Moon, pk singing is no less impressive.
Today, the four mothers and sons love each other and form a happy and harmonious big family.
The author has this to say:
From the little girl of the poor family to the two-person turning queen who flew up the branches, Yan Xuejing had blood and tears along the way.
Being able to get the impressive eyes of Zhao Benshan, Feng Gong and others reflects Yan Xuejing's superiority.
And one of her most admirable things is that she has been with her stepdaughter for decades and has never had a red face.
It is not easy to get along like a girlfriend and like a mother and daughter.
To borrow a sentence from Li Jing: "Yan Xuejing, whether you are a person or a career, you are very successful"!