The so-called "bear children" refer to those mischievous children, who are young and ignorant, lawless, and temporarily unsophisticated. In real life, bear children can be seen everywhere, and their shouts echo in various places such as restaurants, carriages, movie theaters, etc. They may mess up your home, break your hands, destroy your makeup, scribble on the walls of your house, and beg to snatch away your beloved comics, toy models, etc...
A few days ago, a woman in Xinyang, Henan Province, was also choked by two bear children, and when she returned home and opened the door of her room, she couldn't believe her eyes: garbage, snacks were everywhere, and the whole room was like a garbage dump, which was turned upside down.
If it is only like this, that is, to engage in hygiene, endure a lot, but what makes this woman collapse is that her cosmetics have also been "poisoned", the powder has been smashed, the foundation liquid is crowded everywhere, the lipstick is used as a paintbrush, and it is painted all over the walls of the room...
You know, these cosmetics, are some big brands, the value is not cheap, that is her hard work to save money to buy, she is usually reluctant to use more, and now it is "wasted", how not to make her angry?
The "culprit" who caused all this was the children of two relatives, who followed the relatives to their own homes as guests, when the woman's mother was cooking in the kitchen, the two children played by themselves, did not expect that these two children would be so free of themselves, without scruples to wreak havoc in other people's homes.
Because it is a child of a relative, the woman is not good at having a seizure on the spot, but she is really angry in her heart, so she took a video of the "crime scene" and transmitted it to the Internet, and also sent it to her relatives, but she did not expect that this relative only replied lightly: "I have seriously criticized the child", and then there is no following, and I will never mention the matter of compensation.
The video resonated with many netizens, saying that they had also encountered similar bear children, making a mess of their beloved things, relatives' children came as guests, and they could not have a seizure on the spot, let alone scold, and their blood pressure soared, which was really uncomfortable.
In real life, why do bear children just destroy cosmetics? For example, some time ago, there was a video circulating on the Internet, after a pair of brothers and sisters entered the elevator, the 11-year-old brother had a sudden idea and did "stretching" in the elevator, supporting the elevator wall with his hands and pedaling on the elevator door. As soon as his feet were forced, the elevator door fell, and the elevator stopped running because of the failure. Fortunately, the two children were not injured and were quickly rescued from the elevator.
After the incident, the community property to find the child's parents to negotiate compensation, but the child's mother began to find a variety of reasons for the child to shirk, do not want to take responsibility, do not want to compensate, the child's mother said: "There is a problem with the quality of the elevator, the child did not make it strong, the elevator door is broken... If it is not a child touching the elevator door, everyone does not know what major incidents have occurred during the use of the process..." The implication is that everyone has to thank his children for taking risks and helping everyone eliminate safety hazards.
Such a statement is obviously untenable, so the mother began to play the emotional card: "The child knows that he is wrong, and he is so frightened that he begins to help wash the dishes", which means that everyone should not hold the child responsible. This is also a common excuse for many parents after their children have made mistakes: "He is still a child"!
The so-called "raising or not teaching, the father's fault", behind every bear child, there is a bear parent or a group of bear parents, they never lead by example, causing the child to draw a scoop according to the gourd, there is a kind of learning, the upper beam is not right and the lower beam is crooked; when the child makes a mistake, he does not educate, but tries every means to shirk responsibility, and uses "he is still just a child" to justify. This is bound to make the child feel that he is young, that he can not follow the rules, and that he is not responsible for making mistakes.
Children do not understand, making mistakes is inevitable, but adults can not be ignorant, when children make mistakes, do not think of the first time to throw the pot, shirk responsibility, justification, there are mistakes on the responsibility, timely criticism of education for children, let him realize the mistakes of his behavior, parents' cultivation determines the child's upbringing.