People's hearts are like needles under the sea, and if you want to recognize a person, just look at the circle of friends he sent
preface:
How we compare a person's mind to an iceberg, then objective consciousness is only the tip of the iceberg that emerges from the water.
Underwater icebergs are huge forests, so we are often unconsciously affected by the subconscious in our lives.
At this time, we have to think carefully, but many times there is an element of hypocrisy.
Therefore, the circle of friends is a suitable place in today's society.
Through psychological analysis, I want to recognize a person, do not look at his words and deeds,
Look at the circle of friends he sent to the circle of friends to know one or two.
In fact, the personality of each of us can be exposed from the details of life,
Nowadays, WeChat is one of the most basic social tools for everyone,
By looking at its circle of friends, we can roughly see the inner character.
WeChat has become one of the most frequently used communication tools in this era.
The circle of friends has also become a recorder of people's lives today.
It records the love and hate of each of us, the joys and sorrows, and so on.
In fact, we can see a person's mood situation and personality characteristics by sending a circle of friends.
The study found that compared to sending a circle of friends, deleting the circle of friends is the most real look of a person.
Let's take a look at it together and analyze the psychological characteristics behind the behavior of the circle of friends.
I believe that each of us has the following kinds of people in the circle of friends,
Some people never take the initiative to post a dynamic all year round.
And some people post almost every day, and even send many notes.
Psychological studies have shown that such people are more introverted in life, and even more pursuit of perfection.
Therefore, they are not good at talking, and they are more demanding of themselves.
On the contrary, those who send circles of friends casually, they are very outgoing, most of them have a big grin, and even very happy every day.
So we can see from a person's dynamics that person's heart.
1. Delete the circle of friends immediately after sending it
After many people send the circle of friends, they will delete it immediately after a while or even a second.
This kind of person actually has the following two kinds of psychology.
The first is because I don't want my bad emotions to affect the people around me.
I don't even want others to see the most embarrassing side of me.
The second point is to seek psychological comfort, feeling that after sending the circle of friends, you will dissolve your mood.
But if no one in the circle of friends comforts themselves, it will be quickly deleted.
In fact, this kind of person has a very simple mind, and is often very happy during the day.
But in the dead of night, I was alone and sad.
This kind of person can be said to be very lonely and needs to be understood and loved by the people around him.
2. Delete the circle of friends regularly
There are people who regularly delete and organize their circle of friends,
Most of these people pursue perfection and hope to leave people with positive and positive content.
They usually don't care about the outside world's eyes, and they don't easily change themselves for the sake of a person.
They have their own rhythm of life and a sense of responsibility, but sometimes they are more serious about their feelings.
So we can see the truest psychology of a person from the circle of friends.
3. Never delete the circle of friends
This kind of person often says that they are very nostalgic, and they also have a wall of hearts in their hearts.
They are reluctant to remember the past, so they will quietly hide it.
Because when a person sees previous photos and memories, the scene will be sad.
This kind of person often pays great attention to feelings, but does not know how to express themselves in life.
I often meet Wu Siqi, so I always let myself be sad.
In fact, the most important thing we get along with a person is the quality of the other party.
From the communication and exchange, you can roughly feel what kind of person the other party is.
Then through the other party's circle of friends, you can truly reflect the quality of the other party.
What kind of people are gathered between people and what kind of people will be with what kind of people.
The same things in the world always have to get together,
So a lot of times you have to understand what kind of person the other person is and what kind of preferences they have.
It can be roughly judged from his circle of friends and interpersonal circles.
Conclusion:
I believe that each of us has our own circle, and if the circle is different, don't squeeze in.
We should find our own way of life and habits.
If you can't do it, try to fight hard, don't always think about pleasing others.
If you feel uncomfortable in a relationship, then we must learn to stop losses in time in this relationship.
I hope that each of us can have a pair of discerning eyes and find our own circle of life.
END.
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References | Journal of cognitive neuroscience