From liking to loving, men will have these changes

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What you are not aware of becomes your "destiny"

22.01.26 10:00PM Miss you.

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"What is the difference between liking and loving?"

"To like is to take, to love is to give."

Every relationship will go through a process of continuous heating. The initial love may be just a momentary heartbeat, but gradually deep love, it is already difficult to let go.

From liking, to deep love, men tend to have the following changes, you can observe and see.

01.

Start making serious changes for you

Many people say that the greatest self-discipline in a relationship is to resist the urge to change the other party.

But at the same time, once a person is deeply involved in a relationship, in fact, they often unconsciously change themselves first.

When a man just likes you, then there is only the most basic mutual attraction between you, and many times it will still be hidden.

But if a man changes from liking you to loving you deeply, then he will gradually change for you.

If you don't like to eat spicy, and he is spicy, in order to accommodate your taste, he can accompany you to eat light every time.

If your personality is very outward-looking, like to have a straight talk, stuffy nature of him, you can try to express yourself in front of you, so that your every sentence will not fall short.

These changes in men are not meant to please you, but to be willing to make sacrifices for love.

Because in his heart, you deserve it, and your love is even more worthy.

Maybe you haven't asked for it, but a man who loves you will definitely find a way to make himself the best and love you in the most comfortable way for you.

Then change, it becomes a natural thing.

So, if you find that a man starts to change for you, no matter how big or small, you have to know that this is a sign that he is trying to love you.

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Start to be considerate of your mood and care about your state

Like someone, often look forward to being with him because it will make you happy.

But if you love someone deeply, you think that whether you are together or not, you want each other to be happy.

When a man begins to love a woman deeply, he is no longer coveting the pleasure of being with you, but begins to understand your mood and care about your state.

As emotional expert Teacher Tu Lei said:

"If one person truly loves another person, many worries arise in the heart. Afraid that the other party is hungry, afraid of the other party's cold, afraid that the other party is unhappy, worried that she will be in trouble.

In his heart, he only wants the other party to be good, so his heart will always think of her. ”

No matter how careless people are, they will become attentive when they face those they love deeply.

Even if there is only a small change in your mood, he will notice it in time, accompany you when happy, and give you shoulders to rely on when sad.

When you are overwhelmed by life and work, he will cheer you up in time, do your greatest support, accompany you to go down, and do not let you wilt alone.

As the saying goes:

"Most people see you flying high or not, not far away, and only a few people who really care about you will care if you are tired or not."

When a man loves you deeply, is considerate and caring, considerate and caring, is the best proof.

03.

Start planning your life for you

Liu Jialing once said this:

"Men never mature, they just get old."

But in my opinion, there is an exception: when a man falls in love with a woman, he becomes mature.

Before that, no matter how old a man is, if he does not have a memory in his heart, he will often live a very egotistical life, and even be naïve.

Focus only on whether you enjoy the present, but you may not think about what the future will look like.

But when he falls deeply in love with a woman, it will be a different situation.

Because when men fall in love with you, they have a sense of responsibility without a teacher.

For him, life is no longer a day to count, but to plan well, work hard, and strive hard to give you the best future.

So we can always see that many men who look unreliable suddenly become mature and stable after meeting a certain woman.

This kind of growth is not because of age, but because love is coming.

Fromm said:

"Love is never just an emotion, but a decision, a judgment and a commitment."

For men, liking can just be fun, but deep love, you have to pay responsibility and patience, make a good plan and plan.

To love someone, you must give her a full sense of happiness and a steady sense of security.

At last

We always say, "A man is a teenager until he dies."

In fact, a man's treatment of feelings can be transformed from like to deep love, which is already a sign of self-growth, and being able to rationally embrace love is the beginning of maturity.

Finally, I would like to share a story with you, so that we can understand like and love more vividly:

Someone asked God, what is the difference between liking and loving?

God pointed to a child, only to see the child standing in front of the flower, refusing to leave for a long time, and finally, the child was fascinated by the beauty of the flower, and could not help but reach out his hand and pluck the flower.

God says, that's like.

Then God pointed to a child on the other side, only to see the child sweating to water the flowers, and worried that the flowers would be sunburned by the hot sun, he stood in front of the flowers to shield the flowers from the poisonous sunlight.

God says this is love.

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The author | Uncle Bei

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