I am a stay-at-home mom, a stay-at-home mom who is constantly fulfilling her self-worth. Reject anxiety, refuse "inner volume", easy parenting, rational treatment of married life, tolerant response to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I hope that some of my views can make you suddenly enlightened, can bring you positive energy, and solve your practical problems.
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When it comes to the second generation of stars, our first impression is often "handsome, good-looking, sign", and it is not surprising that the second generation of stars look good, because many female stars have a bright appearance and have innate genetic advantages, and children are naturally easy to look good.
In the second generation of these stars, Cao Ge's daughter is a special existence, her fat, square face, rough beauty, and anime image crayon Xiaoxin came to an almost 100% bump face, and thus became popular on the Internet.
When she was 4 years old and followed her father to "Where Daddy Goes", her clean and demanding personality was impressive.
However, although this child is cute, but it is still how ugly to see, at that time, many netizens said that this girl was still cute when she was a child, and when she grew up, she did not know what would be ugly.
According to her appearance at that time, to make expectations for her future, it is probably thick eyebrows, square-framed face, flat nose, small single eyes, and the appearance must not be in line with the public aesthetic.
After many years, that "ugly and cute sister" has become a "temperament sister"
Now that Cao Ge's daughter is 11 years old, contrary to netizens' expectations, she has not become ugly, but has become more and more beautiful.
But from the perspective of facial features, in fact, this girl is still the original girl, but she has become taller and thinner, from the original chubby little square face to a small thin face.
In fact, the facial features have not changed much from the beginning, but the feeling of giving people has changed from "college", "funny", "natural comedy face" to a confident and beautiful big girl now.
From her recent photos, we see a tall temperament girl, this temperament in the second generation of stars, are the top, although the appearance is not as good as Huang Duoduo, Wang Shiling and other signs, but the temperament is definitely dominant.
Her temperament is directly related to her self-confidence, dress, and behavior, and her temperament is still inseparable from her mother.
Cao Ge has a wife with full clothing, so the daughter's clothing and temperament will be unique, with distinct recognition, and remind people of the elegance and decency of girls.
Wu Suling's method of educating her daughter is worth learning
In fact, when Cao Ge's daughter participated in the show, her performance in the show was remarkable, a four-year-old girl loves to be clean, has her own ideas, it is difficult to be persuaded, it can be said that she has her own principles and bottom line.
This little girl is also very good at using her own advantages to serve soft, is a little girl who can speak the truth, from her words and deeds can be seen that she has the freedom of relative choice in the process of growing up, and her mother has given her great love and companionship.
After the show aired, the little girl received a lot of bad reviews, and there were many voices on the Internet, but this did not affect her to continue to grow happily in her own small circle, and all because she had a mother who was strong enough and assertive enough.
Although she looks like her father and does not have much of an advantage, in the eyes of her parents, she is the most beautiful little angel, which is her confident confidence.
It is also under such an environment and confidence that she has grown into what she is now, and has become a "temperament sister".
Some tips for families with daughters
I personally feel that the most important thing in raising a girl is not to supervise the child's academic performance, many things are more important than this.
The first thing to do in raising a daughter is to adapt the child to the state of "self-confidence", which is too important for a girl's life.
Confident girls can be self-centered, confident girls can live happily and frankly, can be worry-free inside, and the overall form of confident girls is beautiful and easier to have good opportunities.
The second thing to do in raising a daughter is to let the child treat his appearance correctly.
A simple sentence to sum up is: "Ugly girls should be confident enough to accept the diversity of aesthetics to recognize their own beauty; beautiful girls should ignore the role of beauty and pay more attention to inner cultivation, so that beauty can become her absolute advantage." ”
It is important to boost the confidence of ugly girls
How to make a girl with a bad look become a confident girl? Wu Suling's education is worth learning.
In fact, it is very simple, that is, to let the child discover his own beauty, parents do not skimp on praise, often give the child the greatest encouragement and praise.
There is also the need to ignore the voice of the outside world, give the child enough love and care, so that the child can make decisions for their own things, especially in terms of dressing, you can give the child a certain amount of freedom, which can enhance the child's self-confidence.
In addition, it is recommended to take children to read picture books and books together, books can really enhance a person's pattern and height, open a person's eyes, especially for girls, in improving their understanding of the world, play a very important role.
How to make girls with appearance advantages ignore their appearance?
If a girl is good-looking and she is proud of it, she will focus most of her energy on beauty.
It can be clearly said that such a girl is unfortunate.
A girl has beauty, but she pays more attention to inner cultivation and becomes a powerful person, for such a girl, beauty is her plus, will become her to bring more opportunities.
When the child has the advantage of beauty, the mother has to change the method of education.
We should reduce the praise of the child's appearance, and increase the praise for the child's efforts, and guide the child to become a person who strives to be upward.
In the growth of children, let children read more, let children treat beauty correctly, and tell children that people with beauty should pay more attention to improving their inner cultivation and knowledge.
If the mother does this, the daughter will become a beautiful and unashamed person.
A beautiful and self-proud girl will have opportunities everywhere in her life, will have more opportunities than others, and will have a good life more easily.