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If you have seen the movie "Journey to the West", I don't know if you remember the words that Zixia Fairy said: "Marriage, the heavens have arranged the most."
The matter of fate seems to have always been arranged by itself in the dark, and the soul mate who belongs to you will definitely appear in your world at a certain time at the right time.
But you know, you are not sure at what moment the right person will appear, nor can you be sure whether the person who is with you now will not leave again.
Heaven always likes to set a lot of tests for people, and before meeting the person who is really right, there are always long or short wrong loves.
Therefore, when love comes, there is no need to resist or turn a blind eye, and when love leaves, there is really no need to die and live, heartbroken, anyway, everything is destined, everything is the best arrangement.
In fact, even if someone you really love breaks up, you will sincerely wish him to find his true love.
But that's just the end of it, because in any case, you won't be in touch with the other person again, and you won't try to inquire about the other person's news.
After the end of the relationship, there are no more than two reasons for contact, one is that you want to break the connection with the other party, break the mirror and reunite, and the other is that you are not willing, why can the other party say to go away, dashing even the head does not return, and you have to draw a prison for this relationship, trapped in the same place, and have not been able to walk out.
But whether it is the former or the latter, none of the results are repeated.
You want to renew your frontier with your ex, and you always feel that you have new possibilities, but in fact, it is enough to miss it once, and don't waste your youth on people who are not worth it.
Authoritative data show that the probability of two people reuniting after a breakup is as high as 80%, but the probability of being able to go to marriage is only 20%.
In the final analysis, the contradictions that separated you have existed from beginning to end, and have not really been resolved, but you have all ignored them.
Your values are not compatible, your personality is also very different, perhaps you once looked at each other in the crowd, and then from then on, you fell in love and could not extricate yourself.
But as time progresses, you gradually find that you can be friends in the process of getting along with each other, but you are not suitable for being a couple.
Because the lives of the two of you are always full of contradictions and conflicts, and this conflict cannot be reconciled, so you hurt each other, and a complete heart is destroyed.
But why is this so bitter? To tell the ugly point, good horses do not eat back grass, otherwise it will appear that you are cheap and unseen, put a large forest, do not hang on a tree, really a little naïve almost stupid.
First of all, you have become the most familiar stranger, logically you should no longer intervene in each other's lives, you have to move forward, and he will have his own new life opportunities.
You are like two parallel lines, although they once intersected, but after the breakup, they returned to their original state and continued to move in the direction of their respective lives, so let nature take its course and stop trying to forcibly pull the two of you back to the same track.
As the saying goes, a twisted melon is not sweet, and you have not worked hard for this relationship before, but after many times of running in, you still can't compromise for each other, and this means that you really have no fate in this life.
Secondly, let the past things pass, indulge in memories, and refuse to withdraw for a long time, and in the end it will only be you who will suffer.
You're crying so much here that you can't see the sun of tomorrow, and the other person is quickly thrown into a new life after a sad one.
He began to be exposed to new things, to make new friends, and in short, he was trying to get rid of the past and start the second spring of his life.
You must understand that yesterday is like death, so no matter how unwilling you are, you must learn to let go, and only when you let go will you have the courage to face the broken self in front of you.
After the end of the fate, you should try to forgive, to tolerate, and when you have precipitated your own heart and experienced more storms in life, you will suddenly be relieved.
Finally, people who have truly loved each other will understand the meaning of fulfillment, since you are not happy to get along, it is better to scatter in place, you take your Yangguan Road, he walks his canoe bridge, no one will stop anyone.
Both men and women should understand that you are a free bird yearning for the sky, not a canary locked in a cage.
You should pursue the life and love you really want, don't be afraid of the gossip outside, you know, you only live this time, you have to live brilliantly and brightly.
Fate can not be forced, nor can it be resisted, if you have a fate with a certain person, then you will eventually have a lover who will eventually become a family member, but if you have no fate with him, then no matter how hard you try, it will be useless.
Therefore, instead of fighting with heaven, it is better to conform to the laws of nature and accept the arrangement of heaven.
Break up with each other, each happy, it is best not to interact with each other, otherwise you will be itchy when you hear the news about him from the mouth of others, and it will be even more foolish to see each other again.
As the old saying goes, it is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes, two fish hugging each other, each other's spit for a living, such a scene is really moving to see, but smart people know that this is not dying and struggling, doing meaningless consumption?
If it is possible, why not go to each other to find water, have to sacrifice their own lives, martyrdom is considered true love?
I think the answer is no, after all, people who have truly loved each other hope that the other party can get happiness.
Since the fate is over, then say a word of preciousness, and then go to the end of the world, he goes to experience his new life, and you go to find your soul mate, you are all well, do not disturb each other, this is the best ending.