It is a very stupid act to keep reasoning with others

Preach to a post

Recently, I saw such a sentence: Constantly reasoning with others is the most stupid act in the world.

After experiencing a lot of things, I feel more and more that this sentence is very right.

If a person wants to gain experience, skills, etc., he himself reads books and looks up information, and cannot be solved, when you go to consult you, you tell him again, then it will be effective.

But when people don't have the will to ask you, you are a good teacher, teaching people directly, and all you get is perfunctory and ignored.

Adults should know that people are not to be persuaded. Unlike other people's status, it is better to talk less.

Zeng Guofan once set himself a rule of "three precepts": abstain from excessive speech, abstain from anger, and abstain from begging." Simply put, it is less talking, less tantrum, less desire.

These "three precepts" are also of reference significance to our current people. And the first precept is to abstain from saying more. It can be seen that the harm of more words is relatively large.

Even if your starting point is well-intentioned, others may understand that you are targeting him. So you don't know when you've offended someone.

People's cognition and position are different, and their understanding of language is also different. Instead of constantly reasoning with others, it is better to enrich yourself. Do something meaningful.

If reasoning is really useful, then philosophers can rule the world. But this is clearly not the case! Don't talk about reasoning with others, even reasoning with your relatives around you, may not have an effect.

The wiser the person, the more he understands people in different positions, and it is useless to say more. Talking to people who know differently is a waste of tongue. There are also those people who do not agree with the three views, talking together, in fact, playing the piano to the cow, not on the same channel at all.

Thanks for your attention!