Miss Li was pregnant in October, seeing that she was about to give birth, the family was full of expectations, and secretly prayed that the production process could go smoothly and smoothly, but when she arrived at the delivery room, she encountered a blocked heart. Miss Li lay on the operating cart thinking that as long as she had a baby, she did not expect that after she was pushed into the delivery room, she found that it was actually a male doctor. Miss Li is very resistant, but the hospital really has no other doctors to change, because the amniotic fluid has been broken, there is no way to give birth to a child in a hurry, you can only cry while cooperating with the doctor, fortunately, everything went well and gave birth to a princess. Afterwards, she said that the process of giving birth to the baby made her feel very scared, but the medical staff on the side talked and laughed, plus it was a male doctor, and she felt that she had lost her self-esteem.
The question of male obstetric doctors has always been the focus of discussion. Many women are opposed to male doctors, even extremely saying that relevant laws should be enacted to abolish male doctors in obstetrics and gynecology.
But the medical staff have their own opinions: male doctors have physical advantages over female doctors, the process of surgery requires a lot of physical exertion, some more difficult things male doctors will be more comfortable to operate, and if the male doctor is rejected, there will be a waste of medical resources.
Miss Li's case is not unique, if we really met a male doctor in the delivery room, then how should we deal with that?
Respect the opinions of pregnant women. If the pregnant woman herself feels embarrassed, she can choose to change the doctor or the hospital for obstetric examination and delivery if conditions permit. However, in reality, pregnant women generally need to designate a certain hospital for obstetric examination in the third trimester of pregnancy, and unless there are special circumstances, they will generally not be transferred. Family members try to communicate with pregnant women and open their hearts, which is a more effective way to deal with it.
Think from the perspective of a pregnant woman. The emotions of expectant mothers during pregnancy are often more extreme, so they should be less reasonable and more caring when persuading pregnant women. Some fathers-to-be heard that their wives mind the male doctor, they will think that she thinks too much, the doctors are equal in the eyes, there is no need to be embarrassed. But if this idea is imposed on the pregnant mother, it is obvious that the pregnant mother with extreme emotions will be more disgusted.
If we also agree with their ideas, it is best to take the initiative to comfort the emotions of pregnant mothers, if we still can't help them eliminate bad emotions, we can try to divert their attention and help them relieve their inner pressure through the way that pregnant mothers like.
In fact, many mothers will encounter embarrassing scenes from pregnancy preparation to childbirth, some like Miss Li encountered obstetric male doctors, and some of the production process was observed and learned by many interns. But in fact, these do not involve unethical behavior, and certainly not illegal. At this time, what is most needed is for expectant fathers to play a good role, take appropriate words and deeds to help pregnant mothers solve their troubles, help them resolve their inner emotions, give support and companionship, so that they will have more courage in their hearts when giving birth.