In October 2016, badminton Grand Slam winner Lin Dan did something very sorry for his wife Xie Xingfang's dirty deeds.
At the Hilton Foshan Hotel, because he forgot to pull the curtains, in the hotel room, Lin Dan was photographed by the reporter in a surprising scene:
Lin Dan took a long-legged beauty into his arms, and the long-legged beauty also whispered a few whispers next to Lin Dan's ear, the two passionately embraced and kissed each other, and Lin Dan also put his hand on the hip of the long-legged beauty and caressed it.
Later, it was confirmed that this long-legged beauty was the supermodel Zhao Yaqi, and it can be seen from the proficiency of the two people's techniques that it is estimated that such a thing is not the first time. As early as a month ago, Lin Dan was photographed by reporters "behaving intimately" with a mysterious woman, and he could not imagine that a month later, he was photographed making love with "this mysterious woman" in the hotel.
You know, Lin Dan has long been married, his wife Xie Xingfang has been pregnant for more than eight months, lying in the hospital waiting for childbirth, no one will think that Lin Dan will actually cheat when his wife is pregnant.
Later, after Xie Xingfang gave birth to a son, Lin Dan published a dynamic on social platforms:
"Welcome to your arrival, Fangfang has worked hard."
Immediately after, a family of three hugged together, looking very happy and sweet, not long after the release of the dynamics, Lin Dan and model Zhao Yaqi in the hotel intimate video was also released, like a clear sky thunderbolt, this is simply a big irony!
Lin Dan quickly came out to apologize:
"As a man, I don't do more justification for myself, but my actions hurt my family, and here I apologize to my family, sorry."
Later, his wife Xie Xingfang also forgave him, saying that the family will support this man who dares to take responsibility and change when he knows his mistakes, people don't care, what else can netizens say? However, the badminton Grand Slam winner's "Super Dan" may not have dreamed that his reputation in the badminton court would actually be ruined in the hands of women.
In October 1983, Lin Dan was born in Longyan, Fujian Province, at this time, Xie Xingfang in Baiyun, Guangzhou, was also two years old and grew into a little beauty, because she was the only daughter in the family, Xie Xingfang has always been a "little princess" in the eyes of her parents.
Lin Dan's parents are teachers at school, Lin Dan was very lively and active when he was a child, his heart was very restless, he always wanted to go out to play in class, even when he took a lunch break, other students were sleeping, Lin Dan ran to the playground alone, either to play football, or to run, anyway, the energy was very exuberant.
In order to calm Lin Dan's heart, the parents spent money to buy a piano, and wanted their son to learn to play the piano and become mature and stable, but at home the piano is completely a decoration, Lin Dan has no interest in music at all, and he can't stay at the piano for two or three minutes.
Later, his parents found out that Lin Dan especially liked sports, was particularly interested in leather balls, always liked to kick around, and later his parents often took him to the gymnasium, his father liked to play table tennis, his mother was a swimmer, but Lin Dan was fascinated by badminton.
In 1988, his parents sent Lin Dan to a children's badminton training class, and the teacher admired Lin Dan very much, although Lin Dan was not the most talented in it, but he was the hardest working.
And Lin Dan likes to play with his left hand, at first he always thought that this was a "crooked way", which would affect the play, which was a disadvantage, and after some expert observation, he thought that Lin Dan's action had no problems at all, and it was okay to play with his left hand.
Although Lin Dan's playing skills are not the most powerful, they are indeed the most stable and hard-working ones in the team, and after several tests, Lin Dan took several full scores, and his skills improved by leaps and bounds.
At this time, Xie Xingfang also grew into a beautiful woman, when she was in the first grade of primary school, the school's badminton teacher found that Xie Xingfang was very talented in badminton, so at the age of 6, Xie Xinfang was selected to enter the Guangzhou Badminton Sports School.
But Xie Xingfang's family is not particularly rich, the days in the sports school are also very poor, and the home is far from the training ground, every time she has to take her father by bicycle to the station, and then do another hour of shuttle bus to the training ground, and Xie Xingfang is relatively thin, very tired every day, and many times she has fallen asleep on the bus.
In 1992, nine-year-old Lin Dan was sent to Fujian Sports School by his parents, and the closed management of the sports school made him very uncomfortable, and he lacked the company of his parents, and Lin Dan often shed tears at night because of homesickness.
When he was 12 years old, he should have participated in the National Youth Badminton Championship, but he did not expect to win the first battle, won the men's singles championship, was favored by the Bayi Workers Brigade, walked into the barracks, became a soldier, and began his own military life.
At this time, Xie Xingfang is also a badminton master, often as a representative of the team to go out to play, later, in the Guangdong Provincial Games, in the women's singles, doubles and team competitions have won the first place, Xie Xinfang won three championships, got 18,000 yuan in prize money, after getting the bonus, Xie Xingfang used this money to install a phone home.
Because of her good performance, Xie Xingfang was favored by the Guangzhou badminton team, and Fu Hanxun became his coach, and the coach once commented on her:
"Xie Xingfang is different from many players, she is a person who really plays with her brain, and her brain is very smart."
After Lin Dan entered the barracks, in 1997, he followed the troops to Nanri Island to experience the life of the troops, not only to continue his badminton training, but also to stand guard with the soldiers.
During the day in the hot sun for a few hours, even at night do not sleep well, there are a variety of emergency collections, even if the physical fitness of Lin Dan is a bit unbearable, but under this strict training, but also cultivated Lin Dan's hard-working personality.
Maybe this is the fate, 14-year-old Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang came to an encounter in the military camp.
In an emergency training of the troops, there came a slender long-legged beauty, and many boys in the tribe were very excited, because they had not seen a woman for too long, not to mention such a beautiful woman, this beautiful woman was Xie Xinfang.
Xie Xinfang went to the Bayi team to train because she was preparing for the Asian Youth Championship, and at the request of the coach, Lin Dan became Xie Xingfang's sparring partner.
Both of them seemed a little shy, but after a long period of training, the two people also became acquainted, they were two years old, Xie Xingfang more often just regarded Lin Dan as a friend, but looking at this white and pure girl who liked to laugh, Lin Dan was moved, but until Xie Xingfang left, Lin Dan still did not confess, and did not even ask for each other's phone numbers.
In October 2000, Lin Dan entered the national badminton team, when he was only 17 years old, after several years of training, Lin Dan's skills have been improved, and his performance in the national team is also quite eye-catching.
In 2002, Lin Dan participated in the Badminton Open tournament held in the southern Korean city of Yeosu, and won the First International Championship trophy of his life by defeating the Korean team 3-1 and winning his first international championship trophy, when he was only 19 years old.
At this time, Xie Xingfang is not bad, is also a member of the national team, in the badminton tournament also won a lot of trophies, Lin Dan won the badminton championship in South Korea, but also had the confidence to go to Xie Xinfang's contact information, when treated in the infirmary, Lin Dan found Xie Xingfang and said:
"I don't have your phone number yet."
Xie Xingfang replied:
"Then I'll give it to you!"
Later on the phone, Lin Dan confessed to her, but was rejected by Xie Xingfang, but Lin Dan did not give up, and then frequently dedicated, at that time, Xie Xingfang did not have much good feelings for Lin Dan, he was already two years older than him, more often just treated him as a younger brother.
At the same time, Zhao Yaqi, a northeastern girl, won the grand prize of the Guangdong-Hong Kong-Macao University Student Dance Competition, and took a big step from her own supermodel road, and 14 years later, she will intervene in Lin Dan's married life as a third party.
Perhaps it is already doomed in the dark, someone has said that if you want to get a person's sincerity, you have to come to the snow to send charcoal, not the icing on the cake.
In 2003, Xie Xingfang participated in the World Championships, but who knows the master ruyun, the last 0-2 loss to Gong Ruina, it is precisely because of this game mentality problem, and then lost several games in a row, just when Xie Xingfang was in a very depressed mood, Lin Dan often sent messages to comfort her, a warm current poured into the heart, under the comfort of Lin Dan, Xie Xingfang also came out.
After getting along, Xie Xingfang suddenly found that in fact, two years older than himself is not a big deal, this Lin Dan, who is two years younger than himself, is mature and stable, and he is so good to himself, if such a person does not cherish it, which one should he cherish?
After Xie Xingfang's fiasco, Lin Dan also suffered the first setback in his life, in the first match of the Athens Olympic Games, Lin Dan lost to Singapore's Lin Yufeng, Lin Dan became sluggish after returning to China, and even thought of giving up, but Xie Xingfang has always encouraged him, and also took Lin Dan to bungee jumping to relieve pressure, the two felt sorry for each other, and the road of feelings was further.
Soon after, the two reinvigorated, career love double harvest, can be described as envy of others.
In 2004, at the Swedish Open Badminton Championships, Lin Dan defeated Bao Chun to win the championship, just during the Spring Festival, Lin Dan sent a vague text message to Xie Xingfang, once again confessed, Xie Xingfang also accepted Lin Dan's pursuit, and the two people hugged her and cried after getting together.
Afraid of being opposed by the coach, Lin Dan and the coach said:
"My relationship will not affect the competition and training, the two of us will work together, and I will help Xiaofang win the world championship together."
In December 2005, at the World Cup, Lin Dan defeated Thailand's Famous Vinsa Posana 2-0 to win his first world championship, Lin Dan became famous and became a "Super Dan", at the same time, Xie Xinfang was also training hard to prepare for the 2007 All England Open.
At this time, 22-year-old Zhao Yaqi also participated in the beauty contest, and also won the third place of Miss China, becoming the second place, and also became a judge of the Miss World competition, and served as a judge of the Miss Universe Intercontinental Five Special Zones Competition.
In 2007, Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang won the men's singles women's singles championship in the All England Open, Xie Xingfang stood on the podium, and Lin Dan, who also won the championship, ran to the podium to kiss, and at the same time sent a bouquet of bright red roses, officially announced the love affair, followed by various news reports: "Golden Boy Jade Girl", "Champion Couple", they may not think about how much love there is now, how miserable Lin Dan was scolded when he cheated later.
In 2008, at the Beijing Olympic Games, Lin Dan defeated Li Zongwei 2-0, becoming the first player in badminton to win the All England, World Championships, World Cup and Olympic gold medals.
At the same time, after winning the silver medal several times, in 2009, Xie Xingfang also chose to retire, and Lin Dan comforted her:
"Whatever the outcome, you've worked hard and I'm proud of you."
In 2010, Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang entered the palace of marriage, Lin Dan hung his Olympic gold medal around Xie Xingfang's neck, and at the same time bought a mansion in Beijing and gave the keys.
Xie Xinfang was so touched that she almost cried out and said:
"I would like to be a woman who cooks soup for Lin Dan."
The wedding was held in the badminton hall of Beijing University of Technology, Lin Dan made the wedding into the style of the Olympic Games, at the wedding, Lin Dan said:
"I will listen to you all my life and will never let you be wronged."
Zhao Yaqi's career is just booming, became the host of city TV, and even held a Chinese cover model contest, and Gao Hu also talked about love, more netizens broke the news, Zhao Yaqi and Gao Hu lived together for five years, and then because Gao Hu was detained for drug abuse, Zhao Yaqi chose to separate from him, and it was with the help of Gao Hu that Zhao Yaqi also got a lot of good resources from film and television circles.
Zhao Yaqi, who graduated from the Central Academy of Drama, was accused by many netizens of favoring a "pregnant husband", in addition to Gao Hu, Zhao Yaqi also had a scandal with Li Zekai, the son of Li Ka-shing, and the photos of Zhao Yaqi and Li Zekai flirting and cursing were taken by the media, and it should be known that Li Zekai already had a legitimate girlfriend Liang Luoshi at that time, and he was pregnant.
In 2012, Lin Dan once again defeated Malaysia's old rival Li Zongwei, won the championship again, and began to prepare for the Rio Olympics, Xie Xingfang in order to let him train better, also built a gym at home, at the same time, will be ready for ice, as long as Lin Dan's muscles are injured in training, he will pick up ice cubes to apply.
In 2016, in the Rio Olympic Games, Lin Dan lost 1-2 to his old rival Li Zongwei, at this time, the relationship between Lin Dan and Zhao Yaqi was not simple, at that time in the Olympic Games, pregnant Xie Xingfang and Zhao Yaqi watched the same ball game, at the same time, many paparazzi also took a lot of intimate photos of Lin Dan and Zhao Yaqi, the two people held hands and went shopping together, the courage was indeed great, in November, the two were photographed in the hotel to be intimate video.
After that, Lin Dan also apologized, and his wife also chose to forgive.
In the later World Badminton Federation Gold Medal Swiss Open, Lin Dan won the championship again, although he also saved a little reputation, but because of the derailment, no company was willing to look for him to endorse.
In 2020, Lin Dan announced his retirement and became an entrepreneur, and the company also frequently appeared on major variety shows, successively serving as a guest in "The Strongest Brain" and "12 Sharp Tastes", and later on "Spit Conference".
Zhao Yaqi was scolded very badly, and finally quit the entertainment circle.
Although Xie Xingfang chose to forgive, but after this incident, she was not willing to choose mrs. at home, and then aimed at the mother and baby market, created her own mother and baby brand, and became a female boss, and later in the interview, the host asked how to think about Lin Dan's cheating, she said:
"This is a kind of growth, marriage is a matter of two people, everyone will make mistakes in marriage, can only say that each family's solution is different, marriage has too many things that are not black and white, not you or I dominate, in marriage there is no saying who is stronger and weaker, this does not exist."
Every family has a difficult scripture to read, go your own way, let others say go! ”
For the sake of children, for the sake of the family, Xie Xingfang finally chose to be patient, but there is still an unspeakable barrier, later, Xie Xingfang and Lin Dan were photographed when they went out to travel, Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang both behaved relatively indifferently, although they would talk to each other, but the attitude was completely different from the beginning, and the marriage of the two was inseparable.
In fact, once there is a crack in the marriage, it is difficult to return to the original appearance, whether the marriage is happy and loving, such as people drinking cold and warm self-knowledge, as Lin Dan, word of mouth is definitely never going back.
In the end, I can only hope that Lin Dan can accept his heart and no longer make the mistakes he made in the beginning, and there are not so many mountain and sea vows in marriage, more of a long stream, and it is very rare if they do not hate each other.