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Boy 92 years, height 181cm, weight 66kg, born in the countryside, plans to buy a house in the city next year, currently in the saving stage, monthly income of 5-18k;
I was 154 years old, 155cm tall, weighed 52kg, came from a rural area, my family had a house in the city, and my monthly income was 7k.
The two of us were together for 4 years, the first year was very difficult, and the second year began to improve for some reasons.
Until the next two years, the two people got along very well and comfortably.
This relationship, his family knows, my family basically does not know.
Because he and my mom had some conflicts, the reasons are as follows:
When I first met my boyfriend, he was relatively rigid, and I was hospitalized for some reasons that were both of us.
My parents came to see me, they met for the first time, I didn't know what the psychology was, told my mother that this was my boyfriend, but I didn't plan to marry him.
So my mom approached him and wanted him to take responsibility for my illness, but the conversation wasn't pleasant.
My mother has a strong personality, and my boyfriend is very resistant, so he unceremoniously returned to my mother.
My mom suggested I break up, so the rest of the relationship was hidden from my family.
After 20 years of dating at home, I told him that he probably thought that we were hopeless together, so he agreed to go on a blind date (the family did not recognize it on the one hand, and his lack of firmness was on the one hand).
We remained in touch during this time and both sides knew each other's status.
Until '21, I knew a guy who was a little bit excited about him and was ready to be together, and the boyfriend kept me.
I thought that I had been dating for so long, and even if I went back to continue to be with him, he would still have a mustard in his heart.
So, I didn't respond to continuing to be with the guy, and it turned out that the guy was a scumbag and broke up a month later.
During the whole period, there was no disconnection with the boyfriend who had been with her for four years, so I began to get back to my previous relationship later, and I was still very harmonious.
Looking back on the past, I still wanted to be with him or even get married, but he just wanted to keep in touch with me and had no intention of marrying me.
What the hell should I do?
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He didn't mean to marry you, just as you didn't plan to marry him! What did you think then, what is he thinking now, you two think the same thing, ask what "how to do"?
Is it mom who wants him to be responsible, or do you want to hold him accountable? Go around a few times "scumbag", or do you think "he's the best"?
Rather than saying that he hurt you, you also hurt him in some way, a person who has hurt each other, how to continue the frontier?
How many four years does a girl have, waiting for an "impossible" person to change her mind?
This woman is also funny, she did not plan to marry him at the beginning, your mother still went to force the question, no wonder your boyfriend will go back. Later, I was moved by others, and found that it was a scumbag who went back to find my ex-boyfriend after that, and I felt that my ex-boyfriend was not firm enough to marry you, and I was also self-aware.
You're also really interesting. All the benefits of the world must be occupied by oneself. I want to fill the world and run to find new people. And you want others to wait for you where you are. Is there really such a good thing in the world?
Wait until you know that Xinhuan is a scumbag. Just run to the ex. What do you think of your ex? And at this time, I still hate that my predecessor is not firm enough.
Because you weren't sure of yourself before. Let this guy have completely lost confidence in you. The most you can do to him is to keep an intimate relationship with your ex.
If it is certain that it is him, there is no such thing as the last blind date of a month to break up. You have your own questions, from another angle, can you accept?
Wake up, girl! You can't be like that.
When the break continues, it will be disturbed. It's not enough to waste a few years, but another few more years to waste?