Thank you to those who have taught us to grow in love.
Recently, I met a friend because of some common interests, so let's call her Starlight. Because she is really like a starlight, always shining and warming others, and there is a cute face of Japanese anime, which makes people love it. But such a heart-warming girl, in reality, was pierced to the bone.
I still remember that three months ago, she first came to me tarot divination, asked about the relationship with her boyfriend who had been dating for more than a month, and it was a very good state at that time, just like normal men and women in the hot love period, both sweet and excited and full of expectations for the future. However, in the past three months, Starlight has repeatedly asked many questions about his relationship with his boyfriend. Because I am more familiar, I have quipped to her, don't ask again, if you ask again, I will block you!
The only thing I can feel is her extreme lack of confidence and uncertainty in this relationship, so she will want to verify it countless times.
I don't know what kind of pain she has experienced in the past, but between the lines she feels the deep damage that the past has caused her. Sometimes we are reluctant to reveal the scars of the past, because we are afraid of too much pain, but we dare not move forward and dare not start a new relationship.
Starlight bravely took this step, and she hinted to herself countless times in her heart not to start a new relationship so quickly, but sometimes fate and timing are so coincidental that people can't refuse. Starlight and her boyfriend began with this.
For more than three months, Starlight said that her boyfriend was also very good to her, but the relationship still brought her countless times of heart tiredness and scars. Whether it is the quarrelsome boyfriend in the cross-Chinese New Year's Eve leaving her alone on the street, or every time he prepares gifts for her boyfriend very carefully, the boyfriend has never sent her, she has never asked for it, or insisted on sending, too much love and heart. For all the reasons, Starlight could only be reduced to one sentence: "Maybe it is really that he is too immature!" ”
Xingguang knows the end of his and his boyfriend, but he still tries very hard to find a way to communicate with his boyfriend, wants to make the relationship between the two people go further, and often reflects on whether it is his own problem and where he is not doing well enough. Some people may say, why should this be done? Starlight said, "I cherish my fate with him, and since I have come together, I want to go on well and not leave regrets for myself." He needs me and him to go through it, to teach him to grow, even if in the end I am just a passer-by in his life, but it can make him a better person and let himself grow. ”
This is probably the best testimony of love, not for the past, not for the present, only for the future, we can all become better selves.
Starlight is a very strong person at heart, with maturity beyond his peers, and the ability to heal others. However, if a person who has the ability to heal does not receive feedback in the process of healing others, he will not even be able to heal himself in the end.
"My love always makes a wedding dress for others."
That's the last sentence Star star left on my WeChat chat window with her tonight.
In love, we have been wrapped in sweet words, and we have also been stabbed by the sword and light sword shadow, but it is precisely because of these tenderness and hurt, protection and betrayal, love and non-love, that we want to understand more about the love we really want. Only from a period of experience, I really reflected, corrected, and changed my mind, and the people and things I encountered afterwards would not repeat the rotten people and bad things of the past. Understand what you want in your heart, god will give you gifts and the person you want, and from then on spend your life hand in hand with the person in your heart.
Mu Nettle Alfalfa: Sensual literature fan cold killer, there is a dream in the heart, want to warm you and me, like please pay attention to me, let us become a better version of ourselves together. #爱情, can you catch it ##如何忘记那个深爱多年的女孩子 #