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It takes half an hour to wash your face, half an hour to get dressed, ten fingers without consciousness, and to do anything, even if it is to turn over, you need someone to help.
Since 1998, Sunland's life has been like this every day.
Before 2010, Sunland's eating and drinking lasa was done by her parents for her. Fortunately, after 2010, she had more men around her to take care of her instead of her parents.
However, it is precisely because of the appearance of this man that Sunland's perception of the outside world has undergone earth-shaking changes.
Smiling Angel
In 1998, at the age of 17, Sunland traveled to the United States to participate in the American Friendship Games.
Before that, Sunland had been working hard for 11 years. From the age of 6 to practice gymnastics, in those years, Sunland not only won the national championships and the National Games, but also became recognized as the most likely Olympic champion in vaulting, if not unexpectedly, in the 2000 Sydney Olympic Games, Sunland will definitely stand on the podium of the champion.
However, no one expected that this friendly match would become the last jump in Sunland's life.
On the evening of July 21 of this year, Sunland warmed up in the stadium, and she chose the "hand flip body" that had been trained thousands of times and was very skilled, this action was too familiar, and Sunland was also determined to win today's game, full of confidence.
She successfully completed the first and second jumps, and she decided to jump again.
However, it was this third jump that had an accident.
According to Sunland, at that time she had completed the run and took off, at this time, she saw a male coach in Romania who was going to drag away the mat that landed on the ground, and it was the appearance of this person who suddenly disrupted Sunland's rhythm, but at that time, Sunland's speed was too fast to stop, and in a panic, she did not know how she fell.
In short, everyone saw that It was Sunland who should have landed on both feet, but his neck landed on the ground and he fell heavily on the mat.
This fall caused a crushing fracture of Sunland's cervical vertebrae, and he was unconscious on the spot.
At that time, the Hospital in the United States gave Sunland an emergency operation, but the operation was very difficult, sunland's cervical vertebrae were difficult to recover, and finally only a bone could be transplanted from the crotch.
After the operation, Sunland saved her life, but since then she has lost the ability to move independently, and she cannot move below her chest, which is defined as high paraplegia.
After waking up, Sunland asked the coach: Can I still practice gymnastics?
The coach choked up and answered her: Yes.
But Sunland knows that her future life will be accompanied by a wheelchair.
The Olympic dream was shattered, life was ruined, many people felt infinite regret for Sunland, but Sunland touched many people with the strength of an athlete, from paraplegia, Sunland was affectionately called "smiling angel" by the outside world for a long time.
At first, the parents saw their daughter become like this and washed her face with tears every day, but Sunland not only actively did rehabilitation, but also advised her parents not to be too sad.
At that time, she was completely unable to take care of herself, she could not even pick up the spoon, and her hands did not listen to the command at all. After nearly 10 months of rehabilitation, Sunland was able to do some simple grasping movements.
After being discharged from the hospital and returning to China, his parents rented a house in Beijing, and every day they had to push Sunland to the rehabilitation center for training, and with unremitting persistence, Sunland's arms could finally move freely, although his fingers were still unconscious, but at least he could complete simple actions such as eating by himself.
This gave Sunland a lot of confidence.
Unable to practice gymnastics anymore, Sunland thought of going to school. In 2002, Sunland got the admission letter of Peking University as she wished, and it took 5 years to successfully graduate.
In 2008, Sunland also served as the ambassador of the Beijing Olympic bid, which gave her unlimited self-confidence, leaving the stadium for many years and re-contacting the Olympics in another identity, which made Sunland very proud.
At that time, Sunland once said in an interview: "At that moment, my excited heart will jump out, after being seriously injured, I can't dream of a championship, but I can still contribute to the realization of China's century-old Olympic dream." ”
However, during that time, people paid attention to how this disabled athlete laughed at life, but forgot that behind this smile, there are countless bitterness.
In 2011, Sunland opened countless scars in the 13 years of her injuries with a complaint, but this act brought her great criticism.
Her external evaluation has also changed from "smiling angel" to "troublemaker".
Trouble making machine
The person who supported her public claim was her boyfriend Huang Jian at the time.
Huang Jian was a former fencer, retired in 1997, worked as a physical education teacher for a while, and later became a professional sports agent.
Before the two fell in love, Huang Jian had always been Sunland's agent, helping her handle everything internally and externally.
Before 2002, Huang Jian had been working with Sunland for some time.
Later, Sunland went to Peking University to study, the two terminated their cooperation, and in 2006, they reunited, and Huang Jian became Sunland's agent again.
It was this second cooperation that allowed Huang Jian to understand the deeper side of Sunland.
During that time, Sunland had a very bad time.
In addition to her physical disability, Sunland was not happy working with her agent at the time.
After the injury, Sunland spent on the cost of treatment and rehabilitation, which cost more than 100,000 yuan every year, such an amount that overwhelmed the Sunland family.
As for the issue of compensation, the insurance company in the United States at that time stated that they were only responsible for Sunland's rehabilitation costs in the United States, and now that Sunland has lived in China, they do not bear the cost of Sunland's treatment in China.
In this way, the huge pressure of life pressed sunland, making her breathless.
In 2010, Huang Jian divorced peacefully because he and his wife were less and more separated. Soon after, he chose to be with the fragile and strong Sunland.
In fact, since he was injured, Sunland has always believed that the accident that day was not an accident.
There is a big problem with the stadium management, and if it weren't for someone to remove the mat, she wouldn't have messed up the rhythm.
However, there is no solid evidence to confirm Sunland's claim, so there has been no clear conclusion as to why Sunland was injured.
In this case, Sunland can only bear this responsibility herself, after all, no one has paid for her personal mistakes.
Although Sunlan laughs every day, she is always unwilling, and after Huang Jian knows her ideas, he is very supportive of her defending her rights.
When he was just injured, Sunland was only 17 years old, very young, and he didn't dare to say, didn't dare to do, and didn't dare to come out.
Now that she has matured and has the support of Huang Jian, in 2011, Sunland filed a complaint against 25 institutions and individuals, and the amount of claims in this transnational rights protection case reached 1.8 billion yuan.
This accusation suddenly pushed Sunland to the cusp of the storm.
Among the 25 defendants, there are not only the founders of Time Warner, USA Gymnastics, the Friendship Games, and the insurance company that paid her compensation, but also two people, named Liu Guosheng and Xie Xiaohong, who are a husband and wife.
The couple became defendants, leaving Sunland once scolded as a white-eyed wolf.
Who are these two people? What is the relationship with Sunland?
Liu Guosheng and Xie Xiaohong are a Chinese-American couple, and after Sunland's accident, they were entrusted to become Sunland's temporary guardians in the United States. They not only take care of Sunland's life, but also run for her everywhere.
So for a long time, Sunland regarded the couple as his biggest reliance.
However, the once intimate relationship is now going to court Bo, and Sunland sued the couple for invasion of privacy and unjust enrichment.
For Sunland's lawsuit, Liu Guosheng and Sunland each said that they had their own reasons, one said that Sunland was a white-eyed wolf, and the other said that Liu Guosheng and his wife controlled the fund, and she could not get anything.
Even more surprising is that in July of that year, Sunland reported that the son of Liu Guosheng and his wife had violated him 13 years ago. However, due to insufficient evidence, the New York police department did not open a case.
As for the truth about what Liu Guosheng and his son did to Sunland, what this incident brought to Sunland was real controversy and scandal.
Around Sunland,No longer the strong "smiling angel", netizens turned their heads and began to scold Sunland for being ungrateful.
During that time, Sunland seemed to have changed like a person, she not only and more than 20 defendants Gang, but also and abused her netizen Gang. For a moment, Sunland seemed to be in constant trouble.
So, what is the result of this sky-high claim?
The lawsuit was not heard in public, and they agreed to a settlement and signed a settlement agreement. The American Gymnastics Association and three insurance companies acknowledged that Sunland's injury at the 1998 Friendship Games was not a personal error and settled her 10 million yuan in compensation, while increasing the payment of medical expenses in China.
This result made Sunland very happy, and what she needed more than compensation was a truth.
Now the truth has been given to her, although the compensation is 108,000 miles away from the amount she asked for, but Sunland still chose to withdraw the lawsuit and no longer pursue it.
Since then, she has no longer "caused trouble", but has chosen to keep a low profile and live a rare happy life.
Become an ordinary person
In 2013, Sunland and Huang Jian got married. There are very few high paraplegics like her who can get married and have children, but Sunland has done it.
In 2014, Sunland risked his life and gave birth to his son Huang Xiaobao.
Ordinary people are still pregnant like a ghost gate, not to mention the high paraplegic Sunland. Because of physical reasons, she herself has been low blood pressure for many years, blood pressure and blood sugar are problems after pregnancy, and she has an inexplicable fever 3 times during pregnancy, because she cannot take medicine, Sunland can only resist hard.
Usually, Sunland has always relied on the catheter to urinate, and in the third trimester of pregnancy, urinating and turning over are huge difficulties for her.
The most critical thing was the day of delivery, the day That Sunland was pushed into the operating room, and his blood pressure soared to 210 at one point, and Huang Jian was frightened. But fortunately, everything went smoothly, and Sunland successfully gave birth, creating a miracle of high paraplegic patients giving birth.
With a husband and a son, Sunland returned to her usual optimism and strength. Sunland even had the idea of having a second child at one point, but Huang Jian felt sorry for Sunland and did not want her to risk her guilt again. So until now, they still have only one child, but they have also brought Sunland enough happiness.
Over the years, she still did not give up the rehabilitation training, Sunlan usually has to take a lot of medicine, she poured out the medicine, and then one by one into the small grid, because the fingers are not flexible, she often pinched for half a day can not pinch up.
But she still insisted on pinching the medicine every day, and then packing it one by one, and she took this matter as part of the training.
This kind of training is somewhat effective, once Sunland's fingers did not have a little feeling, now, she can also do some subtle movements, such a simple thing, Sunland practiced for a long time to do it.
Today, their son Huang Xiaobao is 8 years old, from 1998 to the present, 24 years have passed, Sunland from a world champion, retired to a disabled person, the pain in the middle of this must not be able to understand, but see the current Sunland, or feel happy for her.
This woman, who has inspired generations, has finally become a happy ordinary person. Usually, when the child does homework, she is like every mother, accompanied by patient counseling, and when she is idle, the family of three will also go out to travel.
Walking outside, Huang Jian pushed Sunland, and Sunland pulled his son, a family of three and happy.
It was love and marriage that eased Sunland's pain, and it was the family that gave her the strength to let go of the past.
She walked through gossip, and finally the dust settled, and sunland, as before.
She had changed, it seemed, and never changed.
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