These days are so busy, children, the elderly, housework, self-improvement learning...
Of course, this should not be counted as a borrowing without coming. hehe!
I wrote the following article on July 10, 2020. About cheering up and good friends. In fact, when people reach middle age, these two things are equally important, thanks to my good friends who always cheer for me.
The little girl said, "Write cheers every time!" Come on! Annoyed? ”
Every time I revise the exam paper for Little Y, I will write a few words on the exam paper.
Yesterday, when I revised the math paper, I wrote: "This should be a problem that cannot be wrong!" It's all going to be done! I hope that the next exam will be careful and careful. Come on! Come on!
The little girl who watched me write this said: "Every time I write to cheer up, are you bothered?"
I said, "Don't worry, you have to cheer up all the time!"
I thought about it, no, her tone didn't look like she was afraid I'd be annoyed. So I immediately added, "You mean you're annoying?" Or is the teacher annoying? ”
She said, "Of course the teacher is annoyed!"
"Haha!" I smiled and said, "No!" The teacher will not be annoyed. The teacher is the one who can say "come on" the most and needs to say the word "come on"!"
"Okay then!" She nodded as if she understood.
My Good Friends column has the names of 35 classmates written on them
When we were young, we didn't fill in "My Growing Footprints". However, from the beginning of the eldest daughter's elementary school, at the end of each semester, filling out this pamphlet that says thick or thin is not thin is the homework of parents.
Yesterday after school, the little girl's school bag brought "My Growth Footprints" that needed to be filled out immediately.
Filling in the footprints of the little girl's growth, I can say that every page is quite emotional. The most important thing I want to say is to fill in the field of 'my good friend at school'.
She signed up for me to write, and I counted them when I was done. She asked me to write down the names of 35 of my classmates. She said as she signed up, "Mom, have you noticed that I have a lot of good friends?" So, I love school! Loved going to school!"
I said, "It's quite a lot, it's a lot, and it's a lot of good friends!"
She flipped through the column of her best friend last semester and happily said to me, "Mom, look! I didn't have so many good friends last semester, but this semester there are so many more!"
Although, I don't have to look to know how many of her good friends wrote last semester. But I still very cooperatively pointed to the place where she was, took a good look, and smiled and nodded in praise.
I think back to last semester when I filled out the good friend column. She also reported me to write, and she paused every time she reported a name, thinking about it and then reporting the next one. After writing a dozen, the grid was full. In fact, at that time, she still wanted to report that I said that there was no place to write and did not continue to write.
I knew in my heart that if at that time, I had written more compactly and in the blank space as I do today, I would have written a lot more.
Before going to bed at night, I held a few slips of paper with names that she didn't consider to be good friends. Pointing to the names above, I asked her one by one why she wasn't a good friend of hers.
She told me the reasons one by one, saying that some were too naughty, some were loud and nosy, and some loved to throw paper on the ground. Some of them love to talk in class, and another is actually too bad for the exam.
I asked and just said, Oh, yes! That mom knew. I didn't say anything else.
Everyone has a ruler in their hearts. We use it to measure others, and we must always measure ourselves.
I think that the ruler in the little girl's heart must have her specific standards. Of course, I can't casually deny her views on her classmates, and of course I can't tell her that these bad behaviors she thinks are not actually used as a criterion for judging whether a person can become a good friend...
In short, it is really a thing to encourage the little girl to see so many children as good friends. It's also something that I'm very pleased with.
If there is anything purest and most collectible in childhood, it must be friendship with a good friend. Oh, yes! A good friend is the light in the heart, and the light in the heart of the little girl is really much! More feet can illuminate every new day.
I think the little girl is happy. There are 35 of her classmates who are her good friends! Ha ha!