I believe that many male friends have met girls who pursue their favorites and have been rejected by her on the grounds of "we are not suitable".
So how should we, as boys, reply to her at this time?
Little Orange here provides several ways to answer, you can try to choose:
1: How do you know if you haven't tried it?
2: Okay, I get it
3: Okay, so let's delete each other
4: Where we are not suitable, you tell me, I can change
5: Okay, then let's be friends
Have the friends chosen well? With the answer in mind, let's move on.
I believe that there are many friends whose first thought is to choose "how do you know if you haven't tried it?" "Right.
Then you should pay attention, although the truth is indeed this truth, we have not yet started, how can you know that it is not appropriate, but you are questioning this girl her strong sixth sense, she can actually see from your daily relationship with whether your personality and style coincide with her or "inappropriate", even if you are only seeing for the first time, she can see what kind of person you are from your conversation.
And this option, from another point of view, it conveys a message of "I don't know how to fall in love, I don't know how to attract you", so this option is definitely not OK.
Male friends must pay attention to replacing the perspective of thinking with the girls they like to look at their own behavior.
Little Orange guesses that the friends who choose 2 and 3 must be the friends who have given up. Many people think that this is obviously because the other party does not like me, why do they have to force it? As the saying goes, "don't hang yourself from a tree".
But have you ever thought about it, maybe you've been single so far because you've missed a lot of such opportunities? Obviously, when you can succeed with more effort, you can easily give up, which is indeed very difficult to accept.
As for the friends who choose "where we are not suitable, you tell me, I can change", it is mostly "deep affection", that is, the kind of person who is "licking the dog" in the eyes of others.
You know what? Sometimes the girl says that we are not suitable, in fact, she herself does not know where it is inappropriate, just a feeling, maybe she herself can not say the specific reason, just feel that there is no feeling of being attracted to you, not that the specific thing or your behavior makes her feel inappropriate.
And, you know, when a person doesn't like another person or when the emotions she's attracted to aren't generated, she can even figure out 100, 1,000 from you... defect. But many times, when we have the emotion of being attracted to or like him or like him to another person, there may be these problems in the ta's body, but these problems are not problems for us at the moment.
Finally, of course, it is a step back from the sea and the sky. Since the current feeling is not suitable for love, let's be friends for the time being. Many times girls say "we are not suitable" is not because you have done something wrong or you are not attractive enough, maybe it is just that the girl does not know you enough for the time being, you do not know the girl enough, do not know what she really wants, what she wants to get in a relationship, so the girl will feel that you do not understand her, there is no common language between you, so she naturally will not like you.
So when a girl shows coldness to you, refuses or tells you that "we are not suitable", do not rush to express your love, otherwise you can only reduce the favorability in the girl's mind, learn to take a step back, maintain the communication relationship with her, start with friends, and then find the right opportunity to further "take her down". As for what kind of situation can take her down, you can learn it in the last time Little Orange wrote "If you can read these careful thoughts of girls, you will have a play"!
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