What is a blind date?
Although most young men and women are now free to love, blind dates are still the only way for some young people to find a partner. Various stories triggered by blind dates also often arouse heated discussions among netizens.
Two men and women who had never known each other began to meet for the first time for the common purpose of "marriage". Among them, there is inevitably embarrassment, uneasiness, but also excitement, love at first sight. There are those who look at each other and those who look down on each other, which is a very normal phenomenon.
Often netizens expose their blind date experience, saying that they have encountered "excellent" blind dates.
Recently, a young man in Hangzhou posted on the Internet to complain: go on a blind date, good guy, girls eat directly with five family members, all of them order three dishes by one person, I really serve.
The young man probably calculated the bill, if the checkout is more than 1500 yuan, so he deliberately took advantage of the opportunity to go to the toilet, the young man "smeared oil on the soles of his feet", and also deleted the WeChat of the blind date girl.
The young man said that he did not eat a mouthful of food, only drank one sip of drink. Don't want to do this wrongdoing.
It can be seen that the young man arranged a high-end restaurant, 15 dishes will cost 1500 yuan, and the consumption of this restaurant is indeed very high. It also shows that this young man still attaches great importance to this blind date.
But the first time we met, before the eight characters were skimmed, the girl brought five family members, which made the young man feel a little nervous. The five families of the girl were also unceremonious, one person ordered three dishes, and 15 dishes were placed on a large table.
When the young man looked at this battle, he pinched his finger and calculated, this consumption could exceed his psychological expectations, and he was afraid that the chopsticks did not dare to move.
Originally, this time it was under the repeated requests of his parents that he reluctantly came on a blind date. As a result, the other party also has to let their wallet "bleed heavily". The more the young man thought about it, the more he felt that it was not a taste, and he quickly made an excuse, saying that he wanted to go to the bathroom, and quietly slipped away.
After going out, the young man did not stop doing two, and also deleted the girl's contact information and blocked it.
Some netizens commented that this young man did a beautiful job, brought five family members to meet for the first time, and ordered so many dishes, completely ignoring the feelings of the young man, such a girl can't get along.
Some netizens also said that the pattern of this young man is too small, is not it please eat a meal? Although the consumption is a little higher, but 1500 yuan is not a lot, the young man slipped silently, should be single.
For this matter, the benevolent see the wise and the wise see the wisdom, and I don't know if the young man has deliberately exaggerated.
Blind dates between men and women are paid for by the man, which is already a conventional practice. Some boys do not look at the girl on a blind date, so they deliberately run a single or ask for the AA system, which is indeed too stingy.
However, when going on a blind date, girls should also consider the feelings of boys, after all, it is the first time to meet, and both sides must leave a better impression on each other. In addition to understanding the basic situation of the other party, the performance of the other party in the blind date process is "plus points" or "subtract points", which will also affect the next interaction between the two sides.
Have you ever been on a blind date? Have you ever met a blind date that impressed you? Feel free to share it in the comments section.