Some people, missed once, will not have the opportunity to see again in this life - Zhao Minghui Tarot

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"The most pitiful thing is not to be kind, and to be able to take care of Xiao Zhao"

When watching "The Book of the Dragon Slayer in the Heavens", the chapter that made me most difficult was the chapter where Xiao Zhao and Zhang Wuji were separated.

The east and west are separated like merchants.

However, at that time, he had not fully understood the state of mind when Xiao Zhao and Zhang Wuji were separated; as he grew older and experienced similar feelings, he was more able to understand that difference.

As Mr. Jin Yong wrote in the afterword of the book: his favorite female character is Xiao Zhao; but in that version of the book, he can only follow the story, and cannot reunite Xiao Zhao and Zhang Wujie, so he has to be separated.

Therefore, in the later new revisions, Mr. Jin Yong used more ink to describe the story between Xiao Zhao and Zhang Wuji, although the two people are still separated from each other, but it is also more evocative.

Some people on the Internet say: Men who like Xiao Zhao are all straight men, and some machismo.

In fact, if this person has really read the original book and read the original work, he can understand the difference between Xiao Zhao and other women in the book.

Zhao Min is clever, intelligent, dares to love and dare to hate; Zhou Zhiruo is meticulous, and can be very tolerant in order to achieve the goal, but there is no sand in his eyes; Yin Can only have Zhang Wujie in his eyes, and he is single-minded in his treatment of love; Yang is unrepentant and otherworldly, does not care about the world's vision, and only pursues what he wants.

And only Xiao Zhao, she has a heart plan, but she never uses the heart machine on Zhang Wujie's body; she is the daughter of Daisy, who came to the Central Plains only to qiankun and move the heart method; but she would rather let Zhang Wuji learn than betray Zhang Wujie again.

Xiao Zhao can use her heart and means against anyone, but only in the face of Zhang Wujie, she is sincere and loves him unconditionally.

But despite this, Xiao Zhao and Zhang Wujie must also be separated.

Judging from the coherence of the book, Xiao Zhao and Zhang Wuji are separated in order to make the story progress and sublimate the story.

But from an emotional point of view, Xiao Zhao sacrificed himself for love; if Xiao Zhao did not return to the Western Regions, then Zhang Wuji and his party would be difficult to get out; Xiao Zhao was for his mother, but also for Zhang Wujie.

But she alone could not be with her beloved.

Until they are separated, this is the meaning of peace.

Some feelings are like this, the two of you together have not yet properly felt the love, you are facing a situation of separation.

When you try to grasp the relationship, only to find that two people together, not just love is enough.

The winds and clouds in the sky are not something you can control, and neither can they.

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The person you miss is the one who misses

Most people's feelings are not smooth sailing.

In college love, you thought you would be able to be with each other all the time, but you didn't expect to face the choice of breaking up after graduation.

I joined the work, I had some savings in my hands, and I finally paid a down payment to buy a house with the help of my parents; you thought that you could finally marry the object of your love, but you didn't expect that the mother-in-law's kan'er was even more upset.

You are discouraged and feel that you no longer believe in love.

But it wasn't long before you fell in love with someone again, and you got together as you wished; however, after being together, you found that the other person was still not enough for you to love deeply compared to your ex.

In that instant, you start to miss your ex.

You even think: If you could have been more brave and persevered a little more, maybe the ending would be completely different now.

But emotional things, where is the regret medicine? To miss is to miss.

The person you didn't cherish well, you failed the other person's feelings; a few years later, you experienced several relationships, but found that the person you abandoned was more suitable for you.

But people are already married, they have their own families, and when you want to save them, it is already too late.

Those people you don't cherish, don't cherish feelings, when you want to change yourself, make up for each other, but find that the other party has lost contact with you.

At the end of the world, you don't know where the other person has gone.

I think it's a bit of a sword.

Even in your heart, the appearance, personality, and voice of the other party are clearly remembered; but if you go back to the place where you first met, the other party is long gone.

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The sea of people is vast, and it is not easy to meet

I especially like the word "fate" because it describes every relationship you have.

It's fate with your parents, it's fate with your friends, it's fate with your lover, everyone you've ever met is fate.

However, fate is divided into time.

Some people will accompany you for a lifetime, some people will only accompany you for one stage; there are also some people who will only accompany you for a face.

If you are not careful, some people will slip away from you.

Those friends who have not been in contact for a long time, contact again, it is inevitable that there will be some strangeness, some embarrassment; with the passage of time, you are like clouds in the sky, gathering and scattering.

The love that you did not cherish will eventually leave you, and you will regret that you want to keep it, and it is too late.

Therefore, in every hug, be a little harder; every time you meet, be enthusiastic; and cherish every goodbye.

Maybe one goodbye, it's never seen again.

Many people in this life, only care about rushing to the road, but ignore those who are missed by themselves and feelings.