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I like the saying, "Listen to your own voice and do what you want to do." There is no right or wrong in life, but no matter what kind of lifestyle you choose, don't forget that pleasing yourself is the best way to live in life. ”
Life is long, there are new landscapes everywhere, the more intelligent people are, the more they know how to listen to the voice of the heart and live seriously.
Some women, although they are not particularly beautiful, but bravely live themselves. Whether it is a career or a relationship, they have been rewarded with what they deserve.
However, some women, when getting along with people, have paid all their sincerity, and even always wronged themselves, but in the end they still stumbled.
In fact, a woman's fate is good or a bitter fate, look at a few places on the body, most of them know, and it is more obvious in middle age.
01: Whether you dare to fight, you will not change your fate by marriage
The heroine of Yi Shu's work "Xi Bao", Xi Bao, although the birth conditions are not good, her parents still strive to give her a good educational opportunity.
But Xibao, who was admitted to Cambridge University, did not think of changing his fate by relying on his own efforts.
She was sad that she could not live a luxurious life, and later she met a rich man. His age was far from Xi Bao's, but seeing that she looked so beautiful, Xun Cunzi began to take the initiative to pursue.
Xi Bao was tempted by money and finally decided to be with each other, but how can two people who are not equal can live happily?
When the external wealth could not meet Xibao's psychological needs, she began to reflect on what she really wanted. Later, she met a man she really liked, about the same age as each other, and had many common topics.
However, Xun Cunzi knew that after doing something to hurt Xi Bao, she completely lost the person she loved the most.
In order to live a better life, XiBao chose to rely on Xun Cunzi, and slowly lost himself, spending the rest of his life in regret.
If Xibao can be brave, don't envy others to live a superior life, graduate and work hard, then he can also rely on his own persistence and live an ideal life. When she meets someone who is in her heart, she can also start a sweet love like an ordinary girl.
Whether a woman's fate is good or her fate is bitter, see if she dares to fight.
Most of the women who only want to change their fate through marriage have a very bleak life. Only a woman who knows how to rely on herself can truly grasp her own destiny.
02: See if the personality will be too weak to get rid of the oppression of the outside world
Helen in "Ideal City" works modestly and professionally, and has a very gentle personality, and pays a sincere heart when getting along with colleagues.
In addition, she sends her monthly income home. Helen didn't have much desire, she simply hoped to be able to struggle with her boyfriend in the city and have a home of their own.
However, when she plans to marry her boyfriend and want to buy a house first, Helen returns home and her parents tell her that they have used her savings to buy a house.
At that time, although Helen felt sad, she put up with it. Originally, she thought that at least one of the houses she had paid for belonged to her, but her mother said that she would marry out sooner or later and did not need to keep a room.
At that moment, Helen's heart was completely broken.
Whether in family or in love, Helen has been stoic. Women with too weak personalities cannot get rid of the oppression of their parents, and most of them live very tired, and such a personality is also the beginning of fate.
03: See if she'll be too sensitive and care too much about other people's opinions
Schopenhauer said: "One of the most peculiar weaknesses of human nature is to care about how others perceive themselves." ”
Women with too sensitive personalities are mostly miserable. Because they often feel helpless, in order to win the approval of others, they will choose to get love in a softer way.
However, the more you lower your posture, the more difficult it is to gain respect.
Women who are really good at life understand such a truth: you can't change the thoughts and evaluations of the people around you. Instead of caring too much about others, use your precious time to try to run your own life.
Sheng Minglan's personality in "Know It or Not" is very calm, and he knows how to plan his future for himself at a young age. Even if the living environment is very bad, Ke Minglan has not underestimated his own value.
She doesn't care too much about other people's evaluations, and she doesn't follow the crowd. Emotionally, she still loves very firmly.
Qi Heng was not only handsome, but also had very superior family conditions, but when Qi Heng turned back to seek a reunion, Minglan decisively refused. The reason she loves so firmly is that she can give herself enough security.
Sheng Minglan's personality is very strong, not sensitive at all, and will not be wronged in order to meet the expectations of others.
Even if she marries Gu Tingye, she knows how to get along with each other as equals.
Some women, even if their family conditions are superior and they look beautiful, are too sensitive and extremely inferior in their hearts. Such women, usually unable to manage their own lives, are more obvious in middle age, because the love you give in your feelings will only be regarded as cheap by men.
In the final analysis, the fate of women is in their own hands, when you learn to rely on yourself, rely on yourself to rewrite life, then you are active, selective, life will naturally become a lot clearer.
On the contrary, if you are passive in everything and will only be coerced into moving forward, then even if the conditions are good, you will not be able to live this life well.
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