This year's winter vacation came extra early, my parents had not yet reacted, and the divine beasts were already happily out of the cage.
I said to my neighbor Sister Zhao comfortably: "The child is finally on vacation, and I can sleep for a few days, without worrying about her homework every day, and I don't have to follow behind her ass to urge her to learn." ”
Sister Zhao "hummed" and said coldly: "If you want to be beautiful, you need to worry more about the holidays." ”
"I used to think the same way, I think that during the holidays, adults and children can relax a little." The last time I put on the summer, I didn't pay much attention to him. Unexpectedly, after a holiday, my son's original good habits were all gone, the first month of school, was found by the teacher countless times, the first monthly examination was also a mess, I was blinded. ”
Immediately afterward, Sister Zhao said to me in a serious tone:
Children's self-control is not strong, and it takes a long time to develop a good habit, but it may only take a few days to break a good habit. Although the holiday needs to be relaxed, but also can not be too indulgent, this 6 habits must not be used to.
First, the habit of sleeping late and getting up late
Children don't play enough, and if parents don't remind them, they can't wait to sleep in the middle of the night. You may think, go to bed late, go to bed later, and don't go to school the next day anyway.
As a result, the child slept late, got up late the next day, and in less than a few days, the work and rest time was completely disrupted, and every day began at noon.
Doing so not only damages the child's physical health, but also affects his mental state, and he has to spend a lot of time adjusting his life schedule after the school starts.
Second, addicted to mobile phones, television
In the cold family, children can easily become small "low-headed people", holding mobile phones and televisions all day long, as if they don't know what else to do without these two things.
However, looking at the electronic screen for a long time not only affects vision, damages the child's cervical spine, but also reduces the child's concentration.
Children are under the stimulation of high density of sound and light for a long time, and the energy is easy to disperse. When the school starts and sits at the desk again, the child will be very unaccustomed.
This is why many children have a lot of problems in the first month of school, can't sit still, and their grades have dropped badly.
Third, usually do not study, the habit of writing homework suddenly
Many children choose these two ways to complete winter vacation homework:
One is to write a pass after going home, divide two by three, and then divide the two by three, and the rest of the time is just play; the other is to drag and not write, and only frantically make up homework when the school starts.
Both of these practices are not advisable.
Parents should help their children to make a summer vacation plan, arrange homework reasonably on every day, let the children always maintain the state of learning, and then better keep their hearts and devote themselves to the learning of the new semester after the start of school.
Fourth, the habit of spending money and spending lavishly
In the cold family, the happiest thing for children is to collect the old age money, and now that the material conditions are good, most children can receive a large amount of pressure money.
Do you confiscate the money altogether or let the child manage it himself?
All confiscation seems less "humane", after all, it is a Spring Festival gift from an elder to a child, and there are ardent blessings in it.
Let children manage themselves and easily develop the bad habit of extravagant waste and indiscriminate spending.
Indeed, when it comes to the holidays, it is easy for children to be unrestrained in spending money. On the one hand, because of the pressure on the old money, on the other hand, the holidays always have to visit grandparents, grandparents and grandparents.
The old man loves his grandson and will always try to meet the various requirements of his children, what to buy, and how much money to give.
Children do not have financial concepts, and it is easy to spend money in a big way.
In fact, this is a good time to cultivate children's financial quotient.
There is a well-known saying in "Poor Grandpa Rich Daddy":
Even if you don't teach your child about money, there will be other people who will teach you in the future, and this person may be a creditor, a profiteer, a policeman, or a liar.
Talking to children about money properly earlier, so that children know how to get along with money from an early age, is the most important thing that our generation of parents can teach their children.
Fifth, the habit of unbalanced eating
Many parents complain that as soon as their children are on vacation, eating has become a big problem. Breakfast is eaten at noon, dinner is eaten in the afternoon, and then supper is added in the night, and three meals a day are all chaotic.
During the New Year period, children are more serious about picky eating, eating a little snack without eating staple foods, only eating meat and not eating vegetables, drinking drinks without drinking water abound.
After a month like this, the child's gastrointestinal function is affected, which can easily lead to physical discomfort and affect growth and development.
Sixth, the habit of not reading
Children have weak self-control, and if there is no adult supervision, it is difficult to pick up books and read on their own.
However, you must know that the gap between the school bully and the ordinary child is opened from the amount of reading.
First of all, the modern reading of the middle and college entrance examinations comes from outside the classroom, and it cannot come from the textbook itself, so there is no point in memorizing the textbook by rote.
Only after a large amount of extracurricular reading, the child's reading speed is improved, forming their own thinking, and the reading ability can rise.
Usually children have heavy homework and do not have much time for extracurricular reading, so the winter vacation is the best time to increase the amount of reading.