Some time ago, the film about father and son "The Great Father" is being screened, which is called "Chinese father-son relationship" by many people, which directly faces the Chinese father-son relationship, and "The Great Father" is indeed somewhat "remarkable".
On the first day of the release of "The Great Father", someone commented on Douban that "this movie is a movie with temperature, full of Chinese family affection."
Like most movies that explore parent-child relationships, the paradox of "The Great Dad" is still based on the disagreement between parents and children.
It is also a collision between parent-child relationships, using the language of film and television to interpret the Chinese-style parent-child relationship, which also extends to whether a good parent-child relationship can be established, which plays a vital role in the development of children's acquired personality.
There is an eternal truth in the Chinese parent-child relationship, that is, filial piety under the stick, sometimes parents beat their children not for education, but parents are not willing to reflect on "whether there will be a better education method".
In the Chinese style of parental relationship, there is also a parent-child communication method that has been deeply hated for a long time, which is, "I am all for your own good", a sentence for your own good, parents not only participate in all the behaviors of their children in a dignified manner, but even force them to accept their parents' choices and arrangements.
So how to establish a harmonious parent-child relationship, which requires parents to accurately position their roles, create an easy to approach, beautiful and excellent image, we establish communication with children as friends, rather than being enemies,
In today's environment, parents should also put more attention to their children's mental health, and find some bad emotions and some psychological cruxes caused by bad emotions as soon as possible.
Children are also a living individual, they also need respect, believe that they can do what they identify, give them self-confidence, let the child feel recognized, feel their importance, can make the child more responsible.
Establishing a good relationship between parents and children can make children more optimistic about life, correctly face setbacks and problems, and make children more comfortable in the future society.