#Film and Television Miscellaneous#"The Great Dad" is a family emotional film directed by Zhou Qingyuan. In the film, Xiao Erdong is a sophomore, because his mother died of illness, he also has the risk of hereditary multiple sclerosis and blindness, so from childhood to adulthood, he has been under the excessive protection of his father Xiao Daming. Every day, he was supervised to do eye exercises N times and eat stewed sheep eyes, Erdong was obedient on the surface, and gradually resisted in his heart.
Xiao Daming is a self-sacrificing father. For the sake of his son, he gave up his job as a trumpeter in the orchestra and became a taxi driver who made quick money; he was reluctant to eat meat and vegetables, and he was the "iron rooster" in the minds of his co-workers; he worked day and night to change his son's new piano; he did not have the heart to marry again after his wife died for many years... His whole body and mind were on his son, because he feared that his son would one day deteriorate and lead to blindness. It was as if he had been working hard for more than a decade to wait until the day his son went blind. His efforts are incomparable, but as bystanders, we see that his love is not a kind of pressure and bondage for his son.
Is he really a qualified dad? He is also a father for the first time, and he does not know that he has been erasing his son's hobbies and ideals in the name of love. Just like the Ershan of the "Taihang King's House" in front of the Yugong Gate, he also hindered his son from realizing his dream of running.
Xiao Erdong, who is very athletically gifted and loves to run, signed up for sports school when he was a child, and was ruthlessly carried home by his father, "You will be blind in the future, what is the use of learning sports, you have to learn the piano, the piano can be played blindly, and it will become your rice bowl in the future." "The question is, genetic disease is just a potential risk, why does the son necessarily go blind? Isn't it possible to improve your physique through physical exercise? He didn't understand what a terrible psychological cue his fear of his son's blindness was.
In his sophomore year, the mountain city of Chongqing is about to usher in the international marathon competition, and Xiao Erdong once again ignited the dream of marathon, and he must participate in the race. His persistence touched the female coach and finally allowed him to compete as a college student. However, before the game, Xiao Daming actually locked the door, and Xiao Erdong had to run away from the window wearing slippers, and the running shoes sent by his friend were snatched away by Xiao Daming. Father underestimated the bloodiness of a young man too much. Xiao Erdong ran barefoot, the soles of his feet were ground out of blood, and his father's domineering and incomprehensible made him attack his heart in a hurry, and finally entered the acute onset of illness.
Sholdon was blind. Hysterically shouting to his father, "I'm so fit... In your eyes I have long been blind, why not give me a chance! I'm not happy! Erdon's "accusation" tells us how much his father, who has always been in the name of love, has hurt him! What is true love? Is it a package to arrange everything? Is it when the child is a person who does not think independently? Is the father's planning and design of his children's lives the most correct? Isn't true love premised on "respect"?
He deflated Dad's tires, smoked, drank, and sank. The boots landed on the ground, Xiao Daming understood, only to regret, why didn't he achieve his son in the first place and let him realize his dream?
In order to accompany his son to participate in the marathon, he dragged his bulky body to practice running, tired and weak, but still got up and insisted. From this point of view, he was an amazing dad. He adjusted himself and slowly reconciled with his son.
The marathon officially began, and he raced as his son's frontrunner. The tie between the blind and the leader is the leading, the support, and the greatest expression of family affection! What courage and love it is to run a 42.195 km marathon with you!
When it reached thirty kilometers, Xiao Daming was very tired, and in order not to affect his son's speed, he untied the tie and encouraged his son to run independently. This symbolizes a kind of letting go, because he can't accompany his son throughout his life, and he must eventually let go and let his son face life independently. Sholdon finally broke through his best to reach the end, and he defeated himself and ran out of the wonderful life.
Gorky said that loving children is something a hen would do, but educating children is a national affair that requires talent and profound knowledge. So as a parent, don't think that you are reluctant to eat and wear a good path for him is for the good of his children, you have to respect the child He is an independent individual, and your life experience also has limitations, may not be suitable for today's children, why not give the child a chance to be himself?
Father's love is like a mountain, and hope is not a mountain in front of the ideal! Remember, parenthood is also a career that keeps pace with the times, parents' generations are not a reason to be opinionated, and communication and understanding between parents and children is more important than anything else!